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Ken Burch

(50,254 posts)
Fri Jan 8, 2016, 07:33 PM Jan 2016

I'd feel EXACTLY the same way about DWS if she was a man.

And exactly the same way about HRC.

I'm pretty sure this goes for 99% of the folks on DU who post in opposition to either of them.

It's about cynicism, conservatism and failure, not plumbing.

And I shouldn't even have had to post this OP.

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I'd feel EXACTLY the same way about DWS if she was a man. (Original Post) Ken Burch Jan 2016 OP
We need to put terminally ill grannies in prison for eating pot brownies. To do otherwise is SEXISM! Warren DeMontague Jan 2016 #1
+1 jonno99 Jan 2016 #2
"And I shouldn't even have had to post this OP". Exactly. arcane1 Jan 2016 #3
Of course. earthside Jan 2016 #4
Can't recommend this enough. Autumn Jan 2016 #5
me too Hiraeth Jan 2016 #6
The phoney sexism accusations are meant to silence us. And they won't work. CharlotteVale Jan 2016 #7
Exactly right. As are the accusations of posting "RW talking points" when criticizing HRC. cherokeeprogressive Jan 2016 #15
...or the notion that you can't speak ill of Democrats on a Democratic forum even if said Democrats Chakab Jan 2016 #20
You dont know that though. An honest man, and this goes for ALL men, will admit randys1 Jan 2016 #8
No, I think Chris Christie is just as much of an asshole for wanting to arrest sick people for pot. Warren DeMontague Jan 2016 #9
Although he hasn't actually seen it in decades! Divernan Jan 2016 #36
So all men have at least some degree of misogyny in them? Cassiopeia Jan 2016 #12
I believe all men born in a misogynist society do, even if it is subconscious. randys1 Jan 2016 #13
A few points el_bryanto Jan 2016 #19
Remember that vote bvf Jan 2016 #16
I speak for myself, it is my opinion. Just like I say all white people participate randys1 Jan 2016 #17
You are clearly presuming to speak bvf Jan 2016 #25
But we still, by definition, as men, react differently to Women than men. AlbertCat Jan 2016 #31
Misogyny and sexism are real. Ken Burch Jan 2016 #34
Kicked and recommended. Uncle Joe Jan 2016 #10
Ri-ight. nt. Skidmore Jan 2016 #11
I didn't like the guy from VA that took over after Howard Dean either. Ned_Devine Jan 2016 #14
Tim Kaine - he's now my DINO senator. Can't stand him either. CharlotteVale Jan 2016 #18
Yeah, that was the beginning of the end when he took over Ned_Devine Jan 2016 #24
Agreed. n/t. Ken Burch Jan 2016 #28
Debbie has presided over catastrophic losses from the top down. pa28 Jan 2016 #21
"And I shouldn't even have had to post this OP." bvf Jan 2016 #22
cynicism, conservatism and failure Jack Rabbit Jan 2016 #23
All genders are stupid! All genders are fallible! retrowire Jan 2016 #26
This ^ AlbertCat Jan 2016 #33
Truth is true. 99Forever Jan 2016 #27
You absolutely should not have to post this. Sad isn't it. pangaia Jan 2016 #29
not me - I am an ass SoLeftIAmRight Jan 2016 #30
I'd feel worse about DWS if she were a man. senz Jan 2016 #32
I've never thought of women as anything but equal to my gender Plucketeer Jan 2016 #35
I am personally glad to see she has a primary challenger. silvershadow Jan 2016 #37
Oh, I thought this was about Dancing with the Stars. Never mind. gvstn Jan 2016 #38

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
1. We need to put terminally ill grannies in prison for eating pot brownies. To do otherwise is SEXISM!
Fri Jan 8, 2016, 07:34 PM
Jan 2016

Derpy-derp-derp

 

arcane1

(38,613 posts)
3. "And I shouldn't even have had to post this OP". Exactly.
Fri Jan 8, 2016, 07:37 PM
Jan 2016

Downhill this place has gone, as Yoda might say.

earthside

(6,960 posts)
4. Of course.
Fri Jan 8, 2016, 07:50 PM
Jan 2016

I thought Ed Rendell was a poor DNC chair.

And I wasn't especially thrilled with Terry McAuliffle as chair, either.

I'm so tired of this 'sexism' allegation every time it starts getting rough for Clinton or DWS.

As that great Democratic President Harry Truman said: "If you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen."
(And I suppose even that saying is going to be considered sexist somehow now.)

 

cherokeeprogressive

(24,853 posts)
15. Exactly right. As are the accusations of posting "RW talking points" when criticizing HRC.
Fri Jan 8, 2016, 08:38 PM
Jan 2016

A rhetorical device intended to stop conversation.

 

Chakab

(1,727 posts)
20. ...or the notion that you can't speak ill of Democrats on a Democratic forum even if said Democrats
Fri Jan 8, 2016, 08:54 PM
Jan 2016

don't seem to care about any of the core principles that the party is supposed to stand for.

randys1

(16,286 posts)
8. You dont know that though. An honest man, and this goes for ALL men, will admit
Fri Jan 8, 2016, 08:23 PM
Jan 2016

that due to living in and being raised in a misogynistic society, we react differently to Women than men.

Period

This plays into the way we see DWS and Hillary.

Good men, work diligently not to do this, just as good white people work diligently to shed the coat of privilege we wear.

But we still, by definition, as men, react differently to Women than men.

I am sure this is a proven scientific fact, even.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
9. No, I think Chris Christie is just as much of an asshole for wanting to arrest sick people for pot.
Fri Jan 8, 2016, 08:25 PM
Jan 2016

Exactly as much, and he supposedly has a penis.

randys1

(16,286 posts)
13. I believe all men born in a misogynist society do, even if it is subconscious.
Fri Jan 8, 2016, 08:35 PM
Jan 2016

Just like all whites in America have privilege which is part of racism.

el_bryanto

(11,804 posts)
19. A few points
Fri Jan 8, 2016, 08:50 PM
Jan 2016

There is a difference between male privilege and white privilege and actually having racist or sexist attitudes (even if subconcious). Privilege is something you receive automatically, whether you seek it or not. It doesn't matter how much i've battled my racist attitudes as a white person cops are probably going to treat me differently than a black person.

That said, while I might agree that it's possible and even likely for all males to harbor some misogynist attitudes I'm not sure how that applies in this case; does that mean that men should be Considered incapable of judging a woman's capabilities?

Bryant

 

bvf

(6,604 posts)
16. Remember that vote
Fri Jan 8, 2016, 08:39 PM
Jan 2016

where you were unanimously elected spokesperson for the gender? When was that? Because I'm pretty sure a lot of people missed it.



randys1

(16,286 posts)
17. I speak for myself, it is my opinion. Just like I say all white people participate
Fri Jan 8, 2016, 08:41 PM
Jan 2016

in privilege which is racism.

 

bvf

(6,604 posts)
25. You are clearly presuming to speak
Fri Jan 8, 2016, 09:01 PM
Jan 2016

for an entire gender, which is complete nonsense.

ETA:

This OP has zero to do with race, btw. Start another on that, if you choose.

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
31. But we still, by definition, as men, react differently to Women than men.
Fri Jan 8, 2016, 09:32 PM
Jan 2016

Biology.


Oh I forgot.... pointing that out is misogynist...


(and do we have to capitalize "women" now?)

 

Ken Burch

(50,254 posts)
34. Misogyny and sexism are real.
Fri Jan 8, 2016, 09:57 PM
Jan 2016

And all mean can be susceptible to them. That doesn't mean, however, that opposition to HRC and DWS among progressives is driven by that. To believe that, a person would have to believe that there are no valid reasons on the merits of the issues, to prefer the more progressive presidential candidate to the much more conservative presidential candidate.

And I hope you'd agree that the idea that the idea that a progressive man can only prove he is anti-misogyny is by supporting the much more conservative candidate who simply happens to be female to the much more progressive candidate(on all major issues)who simply happens to be male is nothing but demagoguery.

 

Ned_Devine

(3,146 posts)
14. I didn't like the guy from VA that took over after Howard Dean either.
Fri Jan 8, 2016, 08:36 PM
Jan 2016

He helped us lose the house in 2010

pa28

(6,145 posts)
21. Debbie has presided over catastrophic losses from the top down.
Fri Jan 8, 2016, 08:56 PM
Jan 2016

If her job is to win she's terrible at it. If her job is to maintain a fictional half-party that exists only to service the needs of big donors she's pretty good at that.

Her sex is irrelevant.

 

bvf

(6,604 posts)
22. "And I shouldn't even have had to post this OP."
Fri Jan 8, 2016, 08:58 PM
Jan 2016

Very true, but I'm glad you did.

It's clear to see that this does need to be said. Judging from some responses here, you'd think we'd have an all-male SCOTUS and Congress, because, of course, we were all raised to hate women.



Jack Rabbit

(45,984 posts)
23. cynicism, conservatism and failure
Fri Jan 8, 2016, 08:59 PM
Jan 2016

Actually it's about neoliberalism -- a cynical political-economic program that has failed the middle class since 1981.

retrowire

(10,345 posts)
26. All genders are stupid! All genders are fallible!
Fri Jan 8, 2016, 09:06 PM
Jan 2016

That's gender equality people. So DWS stinks, no matter what the gender!

 

senz

(11,945 posts)
32. I'd feel worse about DWS if she were a man.
Fri Jan 8, 2016, 09:32 PM
Jan 2016

The favoritism and abuse of power would seem more jaded and obvious then.

And if HRC were a man, a typical 3rd-Way DINO of a man, I don't think she'd even be running for president. But if she were, she'd be trying to catch up with O'Malley.

And while were imagining things, if I were a man, I'd grow a nice neat beard and wear big brown leather shoes. Maybe I'd even buy a pair of suspenders. And carry all my stuff in a wallet.

 

Plucketeer

(12,882 posts)
35. I've never thought of women as anything but equal to my gender
Fri Jan 8, 2016, 10:02 PM
Jan 2016

I don't know why, but I can't remember ever having felt any other way. Maybe it's cause my mom was the strong one when I was growing up. I'm confident my attitude had to have germinated when I was of single digit age. Fate knows - in my seven decades on earth - I've seen the absolute worst of misogynistic attitudes and mistreatment. Disgusts me to witness such.
This nation - having existed for prit near two an a half centuries - should have had a female president by now. But that it hasn't, isn't because there've not been capable candidates that could have made the cut. There's most certainly women of today that are capable and qualified to occupy the Oval Office. Hillary IS of the Right caliber to handle the job. Problem is, she's got the baggage of big-time benefactors who - in spite of what she insists - are gonna want recompense for their generosity. If they'd given five or ten or even a couple hundred - like the rest of us - she'd look just fine to us wee folk. But Dame Hillary's out of touch with the vast majority of us. And that right there is why she does not deserve to be president.

 

silvershadow

(10,336 posts)
37. I am personally glad to see she has a primary challenger.
Fri Jan 8, 2016, 10:25 PM
Jan 2016

Wasn't the one I had heard about, but I always welcome anyone to the process, as any good Democrat should.

gvstn

(2,805 posts)
38. Oh, I thought this was about Dancing with the Stars. Never mind.
Fri Jan 8, 2016, 10:37 PM
Jan 2016

And that Debbie Wasserman Schultz seems to actively work against the party and progress.

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