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Ok. Is it just me or does any one else see (Original Post) Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 OP
I am so bullshit right now. How can someone even possibly think that is ethical. Damn! n/t seaglass Mar 2014 #1
Not only lock it...but hide it completely from all the rest of us. rgbecker Mar 2014 #2
This one? JoeyT Mar 2014 #3
Yes. Thanks. On the second page now. Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #4
fucking pathetic mercuryblues Mar 2014 #5
I had a thread locked about Texas banning textbooks, once, by a mod from Texas! villager Mar 2014 #126
Every time I see something like this, UtahLib Mar 2014 #6
You want to see something funny? seaglass Mar 2014 #7
I am so pissed off right now. Only some can post jury results. ugh! Little Star Mar 2014 #8
If the mercuryblues Mar 2014 #10
LOL DURHAM D Mar 2014 #9
"I post all the juries I'm in. Transparency is good." A-Schwarzenegger Mar 2014 #12
Sometimes, you just have to laugh UtahLib Mar 2014 #16
that takes the cake right there. the end. this person has now lost all credibility with me. Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #36
! Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #37
Holy fucking shit. nt redqueen Mar 2014 #115
Not just you kcr Mar 2014 #11
Definitely not just you etherealtruth Mar 2014 #13
WOW MadrasT Mar 2014 #14
That's why I posted a couple of times then trashed it ismnotwasm Mar 2014 #22
Ism, Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #23
You know how 'they' always accuse HOF as a small group of trouble makers? ismnotwasm Mar 2014 #25
regarding this statement= Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #31
I'm not going to "educate" the unwilling or the unkind ismnotwasm Mar 2014 #44
I understand and agree. - Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #60
Hmmm, attention seekers... Lunacee_2013 Mar 2014 #129
Then when I posted the thread with the info about US rankings BainsBane Mar 2014 #100
He posted in it. He alerted on it. He talked Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #15
Plus he posts all jury results in the thread when he serves on one. DURHAM D Mar 2014 #17
Yeah, that seems fair. TDale313 Mar 2014 #72
That pile-on gang mentality is loathsome. Attacking her method because they can not find fault with Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #75
Yes. It was a curious lock Texasgal Mar 2014 #18
This message was self-deleted by its author A-Schwarzenegger Mar 2014 #19
I volunteered early on Texasgal Mar 2014 #20
This whole LLC is really something A-Schwarzenegger Mar 2014 #21
I find it peculiar that a Limited Liabilty Corporation uses the word Underground in it's Name ... Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #34
We can all still rec it. Let's make history and keep a locked thread on the greatest page. Squinch Mar 2014 #24
done. Iris Mar 2014 #26
I regret that I have only One Rec to give to that thread. Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #35
. Squinch Mar 2014 #43
Has there ever been any serious talk about not donating to DU until some of this shit stops? Iris Mar 2014 #27
I've let my star expire. I don't think it makes any difference to the revenue of Squinch Mar 2014 #28
This is why I let my star expire. MadrasT Mar 2014 #39
I am strongly considering allowing my star to expire. Although for selfish reasons, I would like to Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #87
Yeah - less jury duty poses a problem. n/t Iris Mar 2014 #104
I don't usually post here, but... cyberswede Mar 2014 #29
"I know he has some issues with feminists..." A-Schwarzenegger Mar 2014 #30
... lol ... Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #33
I need to address this right here = Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #32
I'm afraid... cyberswede Mar 2014 #49
aikoaiko brags that every time he serves on a jury he DURHAM D Mar 2014 #53
Please click on the links in posts #7 and #12 in this thread. -- Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #63
Thank you... cyberswede Mar 2014 #67
I understand why some hosts did not like the Jury Results being posted but, since it Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #69
FWIW... hlthe2b Mar 2014 #73
Oh...and regarding post #7 above... cyberswede Mar 2014 #68
exactly. I am absolutely appalled that he advocated locking that thread on any grounds after seeing Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #70
So, I guess the take-away is... cyberswede Mar 2014 #71
I really think that solution circumvents rather than solves the problem but, I can understand Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #74
Thanks for the information. MadrasT Mar 2014 #40
Thanks cyberswede - I don't agree with the lock but appreciate your explanation. What really got seaglass Mar 2014 #41
Yes, in retrospect, it would have been preferable to have a different host lock the thread. cyberswede Mar 2014 #50
You left out this important detail. DURHAM D Mar 2014 #45
I mentioned it... cyberswede Mar 2014 #51
There are numerous "talking about DU" threads sufrommich Mar 2014 #48
I agree cyberswede Mar 2014 #54
Please don't think I'm talking about you. I've sufrommich Mar 2014 #57
+1 seaglass Mar 2014 #61
cyberswede, I don't doubt your sincerity, but I read that host thread and could not disagree more hlthe2b Mar 2014 #52
That is unfortunate. There needs to be an aggressive host removal process, biased hosts who can't seaglass Mar 2014 #55
Yes. Sheldon Cooper Mar 2014 #56
The host forum needs to be read-only to the general membership to keep them honest. Reiterating seaglass Mar 2014 #59
Agree. nt sufrommich Mar 2014 #62
Yes, if people are discussing me in a negative way, I think I'm entitled to know. Sheldon Cooper Mar 2014 #66
Interesting BainsBane Mar 2014 #77
When the locking host has participated in the thread, it gives the appearance of heavy handed Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #88
Exactly. It stinks to high heaven and beyond. n/t JTFrog Mar 2014 #90
It's good to see you back. Sheldon Cooper Mar 2014 #96
Thank you. JTFrog Mar 2014 #97
I appreciate the info BainsBane Mar 2014 #101
The whole thread is the height of irony. MadrasT Mar 2014 #38
Indeed. And I do not like this trend that "women's" issues must stay in these groups Iris Mar 2014 #42
"History of Feminism is not a ghetto." sufrommich Mar 2014 #58
It was like watching a Coen Brothers' Movie... Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #65
It is the opposite of irony, to me. redqueen Mar 2014 #116
It was senseless to lock that thread. dawg Mar 2014 #46
IKR. I hate when that happens! Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #64
The Host Forum should be readable to all DUers. I can sufrommich Mar 2014 #47
Hosts work on consensus BainsBane Mar 2014 #76
But, when the Locker is also the Alerter and a Participant of the thread in question. Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #78
Okay, I don't know the particulars BainsBane Mar 2014 #79
and I could be wrong as well. I may have misunderstood exactly what all transpired within Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #80
No, you are not wrong. Here is the SOP alert boston bean Mar 2014 #84
Thank you, boston bean. transparency. Let the light shine in. Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #86
Seriously. BainsBane Mar 2014 #98
This is post in HOF: Since this is really a thread about transparency JustAnotherGen Mar 2014 #91
Thank you for posting those results. I wonder just how many alerts have been sent from this thread. Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #95
Your welcome JustAnotherGen Mar 2014 #99
He was the first. n/t JTFrog Mar 2014 #92
Wow mercuryblues Mar 2014 #81
Emotions on the board already running high over this issue/debate. Seems we should take every Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #82
yeah mercuryblues Mar 2014 #83
... "and got away with" ... and what I want to know is what, if anything, is going to be done Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #85
Bingo. n/t JTFrog Mar 2014 #93
Pathetic, biased, hypocritical bullshit. JTFrog Mar 2014 #89
I think it is safe to conclude that aikoaiko behaved in a biased, hypocritical manner, yes. Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #94
After reading this entire thread BainsBane Mar 2014 #102
This incident seems to be a tipping point for me. MadrasT Mar 2014 #103
Check in when you get back. Iris Mar 2014 #105
I understand - Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #106
Enjoy your DU vacation. I take them frequently sufrommich Mar 2014 #107
Take care and come back refreshed. redqueen Mar 2014 #117
This ATA post from Skinner might be encouraging... cyberswede Mar 2014 #108
well cyber. honestly. listening to this thread, seeing what transpired and reading seabeyond Mar 2014 #110
They know they can. They have, and they will coninue to do so. redqueen Mar 2014 #119
Wow... This is a clear abuse of being a Host Ohio Joe Mar 2014 #109
Don't you think BainsBane Mar 2014 #111
I think that was always a danger... Ohio Joe Mar 2014 #112
That seems pretty clear to me. 100% agree. n/t MadrasT Mar 2014 #114
that is what was disappointing to me. and the is the shift i have seen in the seabeyond Mar 2014 #123
If you had edited out the jury results BainsBane Mar 2014 #124
that is what i figured also. not to mention, a few feeling they could implement "special" rules for seabeyond Mar 2014 #125
Especially since that blatant call-out thread is stilling going strong BainsBane Mar 2014 #127
i just saw two more Ops in gd, subject du... whining about du. nothing else in the OP seabeyond Mar 2014 #128
Here's the thing... MadrasT Mar 2014 #113
I started doing that and I can't believe the difference ismnotwasm Mar 2014 #118
There is a new OP in GD that is both Meta and a sufrommich Mar 2014 #120
But it doesn't post jury results BainsBane Mar 2014 #121
what it's really all about. SOME men on du are pissed as hell that we dare to point out the seabeyond Mar 2014 #122
and another telling us we should be thankful. how so damn condescending. seabeyond Mar 2014 #130
36 posts ... I would send that on to MIRt for a closer inspection. Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #131
totally amazing. what gets locked and what does not.... just sayin. another day, more shit. nt seabeyond Mar 2014 #132
Trumad gets the fastest lock in GD history. sufrommich Mar 2014 #133
wow. and look who locked it and On The Week-end, even. Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #134
didnt look. will i be surprised? be right back. nt seabeyond Mar 2014 #136
wowser. knock me on my ass, surprised, lol. seabeyond Mar 2014 #137
ooops. meant this for you. meet up with us in a couple months after we save some money.... seabeyond Mar 2014 #138
oh... ha ... yeah, makes sense now. and Keep Me Updated. Will do my best. Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #139
yup. couldnt let a forever timer, say hey, in gd. nope. no way. all kinds of gripes about du? seabeyond Mar 2014 #135

seaglass

(8,171 posts)
1. I am so bullshit right now. How can someone even possibly think that is ethical. Damn! n/t
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 05:07 PM
Mar 2014

Seriously that is a totally in your face bullshit move. I better stop while I'm ahead.

rgbecker

(4,831 posts)
2. Not only lock it...but hide it completely from all the rest of us.
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 05:17 PM
Mar 2014

Can't find it anywhere. Maybe someone has a link.

 

villager

(26,001 posts)
126. I had a thread locked about Texas banning textbooks, once, by a mod from Texas!
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 02:10 PM
Mar 2014

Conflict of interest much?

UtahLib

(3,179 posts)
6. Every time I see something like this,
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 05:52 PM
Mar 2014

I'm reminded of the OP posted for the express purpose of hating on seabeyond and how many joined the OP poster for the sheer joy it. I may be wrong, but don't believe that OP was ever hidden or locked. Different rules for different posters?

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
36. that takes the cake right there. the end. this person has now lost all credibility with me.
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 12:45 AM
Mar 2014

the double standards being condoned are unpardonable.

etherealtruth

(22,165 posts)
13. Definitely not just you
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 06:49 PM
Mar 2014

Things have become .... "unfortunate" around here regarding gender issues and gender equity (inequity)

MadrasT

(7,237 posts)
14. WOW
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 06:57 PM
Mar 2014

that thread is like a textbook case study of "all the ways to derail feminists"

holy crap, they used every tool in the box

dang

ismnotwasm

(41,976 posts)
22. That's why I posted a couple of times then trashed it
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 08:33 PM
Mar 2014

It was became 'let's derail because we don't like Seabeyond'

It's the same people, over and over-- not interested in conversation, just interested in stirring it up. Wholly ridiculous, and not worth my time. I don't allow myself to get pulled into it. Some of them actually believe in Evo-psych, with at this point is about the same thing as being a creationist.

And since they are obsessed with HOF, I can guarantee they're looking at this thread and trying to get points for for future mileage.

Creepy.

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
23. Ism,
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 09:28 PM
Mar 2014

I thought about it before I posted this OP. Honestly. I think is best to confront this type of collusion and foul play up front and in the open. It has really gone far enough. I am tired of watching it and I think as a woman DUer I deserve to know what can be expected. This game playing is getting old, tiresome and childish.

ismnotwasm

(41,976 posts)
25. You know how 'they' always accuse HOF as a small group of trouble makers?
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 10:16 PM
Mar 2014

Projection.

Myself I just move further away, but I do understand why this is happening. It's happening because a small group of trouble makers, with no real agenda like to play feminist baiting. There are true arguments and debates to be had, what we're seeing here is almost inconsequential in the larger context of what is going on in the world.

Except, in other, unmoderated venues women are threatened with harm--rape and murder for daring to speak up. Over and over across a number of disciplines, we see this. It's well documented and it is constant. It's a sad fact that the best I can say about DU on certain days is that it not allowed here.

I see that small group as attention seekers, they don't allow real discussion of gender using derailment and other tactics they are very good at. (But probably don't understand) Engagement is what they want, for whatever reasons, and a few are clearly not stable. Occasionally I'll engage, but only if the poster has something to say or a real point to be made. Most do not. I'm always gratified to find a real conversation, but as it happens so little, there are a few posters I've just given up on. I don't ignore them-- but they have nothing of substance to say.

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
31. regarding this statement=
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 11:59 PM
Mar 2014
It's a sad fact that the best I can say about DU on certain days is that it not allowed here.


I guess what I need to know is which days will those be, so that I can adjust my schedule accordingly.

Otherwise, I am in full agreement with what you are saying. I do not engage either, as I have found it to be nonproductive and a waste of my valuable, precious time.

I read, for content, if there is any and, quickly realize that it is not about principles but, personalities with a certain group.

Skinner says to educate and, I know that sea thinks there is a larger audience being reached and so, she continues forging on.

For the bigger Cause.

It grows tiresome watching a small group manipulate the system to get their sadistic little jollies.

ismnotwasm

(41,976 posts)
44. I'm not going to "educate" the unwilling or the unkind
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 08:48 AM
Mar 2014

I'm not going to even try. I do a lot out in RL, mostly with young women, mostly at work, I start numerous discussions. I have a male friend who is Muslim and devout who 'gets' it better that that small group of trouble makers. He in turn educates me on the many misconceptions Americans have about Islam.

We were just talking about a law passed in Kenya-- a man can take as many wives as he wants. In his view, despite the fact that Islam allows for up to 4 wives (you must be able to support them properly--the Islamic faith has many rules) the law that was passed was simply anti-women and self indulgent and will have no good outcome for women.

Those kind of discussions, are enlightening and fun. Here mostly you get odorous babble and mean spirited folk, who look for weaknesses to joke or simply derail the entire conversation.

That doesn't mean we should not post gendered issues, many do who are not part of this group. It's when a thread is out of hand--lost, with that small group looking for alert opportunities, those threads I trash.

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
60. I understand and agree. -
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 10:39 AM
Mar 2014

I believe seabeyond thinks differently and so engages and attempts to edify for those lurking.

Lunacee_2013

(529 posts)
129. Hmmm, attention seekers...
Sun Mar 30, 2014, 05:14 AM
Mar 2014

Maybe we should all together, in a big group, stop responding to them. In any way, shape or form. It might be hard though, arguing is fun

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
100. Then when I posted the thread with the info about US rankings
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 08:10 PM
Mar 2014

in the gender gap, some came along and proved exactly Seabeyond's point in her thread.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10024730063

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
15. He posted in it. He alerted on it. He talked
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 07:04 PM
Mar 2014

About it in host group and then he locks it. And somehow we are supposed to respect these actions. How many twists and turns do I have to take to find respect?

DURHAM D

(32,609 posts)
17. Plus he posts all jury results in the thread when he serves on one.
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 07:25 PM
Mar 2014

I see that he has not been called on it in the Moderator Forum. I refuse to call it the Host Forum when this sort of thing goes on.

TDale313

(7,820 posts)
72. Yeah, that seems fair.
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 11:14 AM
Mar 2014


Hosts who abuse their power like this should not still be hosts. And the witch hunt against Sea in particular and HoF in general needs to stop.

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
75. That pile-on gang mentality is loathsome. Attacking her method because they can not find fault with
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 11:22 AM
Mar 2014

her message is an obvious ploy to silence her voice.

Texasgal

(17,045 posts)
18. Yes. It was a curious lock
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 07:43 PM
Mar 2014

The host forum is a mess.I volunteered once...never again.

Curious lock for sure.

Response to Texasgal (Reply #18)

Texasgal

(17,045 posts)
20. I volunteered early on
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 07:47 PM
Mar 2014

in the D 3 roll out. Even THEN I found it it to be a mess! I can only assume it's much worse now..

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
34. I find it peculiar that a Limited Liabilty Corporation uses the word Underground in it's Name ...
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 12:39 AM
Mar 2014

so, Yes ... that irony has not escaped me. Kind of oxymoronic if you ask me.

Squinch

(50,949 posts)
24. We can all still rec it. Let's make history and keep a locked thread on the greatest page.
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 09:33 PM
Mar 2014

That was a bullshit lock.

Iris

(15,653 posts)
27. Has there ever been any serious talk about not donating to DU until some of this shit stops?
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 10:25 PM
Mar 2014

I have not renewed and since it is hard for me to find community here anymore, am not sure I will anytime soon.

Squinch

(50,949 posts)
28. I've let my star expire. I don't think it makes any difference to the revenue of
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 10:30 PM
Mar 2014

the site, but I just can't stomach the idea of financially condoning some of this crap.

MadrasT

(7,237 posts)
39. This is why I let my star expire.
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 05:54 AM
Mar 2014

I don't write that a lot here, but I have mentioned it more than once on threads like this.

Until something is done about it, no donations from me.

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
87. I am strongly considering allowing my star to expire. Although for selfish reasons, I would like to
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 12:50 PM
Mar 2014

keep the benefits it allows.

No Ads.
Posting Polls.
Search Function.
Jury Blacklist Enlarged (although I don't use that one, I mention it for those that do).
Increases the odds of being called to Jury Duty.

cyberswede

(26,117 posts)
29. I don't usually post here, but...
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 11:08 PM
Mar 2014

I wanted to chime in about seabeyond's locked OP (I'm a GD host).

When the SoP alert on that OP was posted in the Hosts' group, I gave my opinion that the post was "discussing the discussion" rather than whining about DU. A handful of other hosts felt that if the OP had not included the jury results, the post would have been fine.

On my own, I sent sea a DUMail and asked her if she would consider editing out the jury result, so that the OP would be less likely to be locked (I even pointed out that she could post the jury result in a reply to her edited OP). She considered it, but opted not to.

Meanwhile, the hosts' discussion continued, and subsequent arguments made a convincing case that the OP was, in effect, complaining about the jury decision (even though the main point of the OP was sea's issue with people diminishing the treatment of women by saying women are treated even worse elsewhere, the inclusion of the jury result - which did not go in her favor - tipped the post into "whining" territory). To be honest, I think the inclusion of the jury results actually distracted people from the main point of the OP, which could have been an interesting discussion.

On a side note, once seabeyond was sent on her forced time-out, it didn't seem fair to me that she was unable to respond in her own thread. While that doesn't have anything to do with a host's responsibility, it probably helped nudge my opinion on the locking vote.

As for the host who locked it, he was the host who started the host thread, and typically that person is the one who locks the thread, if that's what is decided. I thought his locking message was a fair assessment of the hosts' discussion. I know he has some issues with feminists, but I didn't see anything unreasonable in his dealing with seabeyond's OP (except maybe his alert and request to lock it quickly, which didn't happen).

I'm sorry if locking the post upset anybody, and I think the hosts, as a whole, acted in good faith.

(Sorry this reply got so long!)

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
32. I need to address this right here =
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 12:36 AM
Mar 2014
I know he has some issues with feminists, but I didn't see anything unreasonable in his dealing with seabeyond's OP (except maybe his alert and request to lock it quickly, which didn't happen).


but, first let me say thank you for, at least, trying to explain what took place.

I just think, that on the whole, the one doing the complaining should be the Last One to Lock a Thread.

as Obviously (to me) they would be the least objective.

To my way of thinking the Jury Results gave an example of the point sea was trying to make.

as for aikoaiko, I think, his actions (both now and in the past) pretty much speak for their self.

On the whole, I have to give Hosts (and MIRt) credit for doing something that I will never again volunteer to do.



on edit: I also need to address this comment about the locking statement =

I thought his locking message was a fair assessment of the hosts' discussion




This is the locking statement =
Several of the hosts discussed this OP and most thought the ideas expressed in the narrative were SOP compliant, but including the jury results in the OP was not compliant with the SOP (i.e., no whining about DU). After much discussion and some lingering disagreement we formed a consensus to lock this thread.


You do understand that given aikoaiko's posting pattern how blatantly disingenuous that looks. The appearance of the way this was all handled is just curious. Also, the irony of a man locking a woman's thread about women's issues, at this juncture of DU3's history, is just adding fuel to the fire.

Things are not always as they appear but, from the look of the way this was handled to those of us who do not have access to private group discussions seems highly suspect.

cyberswede

(26,117 posts)
49. I'm afraid...
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 10:11 AM
Mar 2014

I'm not familiar with aikoaiko's posting pattern. Does he routinely include jury results, or something? I have to admit, I don't really read his posts, except for those in the Hosts group.

Anyway, it's probably all my fault, because I changed my vote from "leave" to "lock" after the case was made about the jury results.

DURHAM D

(32,609 posts)
53. aikoaiko brags that every time he serves on a jury he
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 10:27 AM
Mar 2014

posts the results for all to see. That is the main reason he is being called a hypocrite here.

jftr - I don't believe it is your fault that the thread was locked as he has help.

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
63. Please click on the links in posts #7 and #12 in this thread. --
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 10:43 AM
Mar 2014

and Actually since, sea had been locked out and could not self delete (if she wanted) I understand your reason for changing your vote from Leave to Lock.

cyberswede

(26,117 posts)
67. Thank you...
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 10:56 AM
Mar 2014

I admit I was concerned that the thread would turn into a pile-on, and she would be unable to respond.

FWIW, in our DUMail, she knew leaving the jury results in could lead to a lock, and she ultimately said she didn't care.

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
69. I understand why some hosts did not like the Jury Results being posted but, since it
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 11:03 AM
Mar 2014

provided an example of how some DUers support the silencing of the woman's voice I also understand why sea left them in the OP.

It was what happened and how it transpired afterward where I take issue.

hlthe2b

(102,236 posts)
73. FWIW...
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 11:16 AM
Mar 2014

I understand and appreciate your rationale.

My comments towards the behavior and motivations of some others in that host thread stand, however.

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
70. exactly. I am absolutely appalled that he advocated locking that thread on any grounds after seeing
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 11:06 AM
Mar 2014

that. His actions yesterday are unconscionable. The double standards he applied here are objectionable.

cyberswede

(26,117 posts)
71. So, I guess the take-away is...
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 11:14 AM
Mar 2014

Post an OP without jury results, and then post the jury results in a reply.

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
74. I really think that solution circumvents rather than solves the problem but, I can understand
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 11:20 AM
Mar 2014

coming to that conclusion.

MadrasT

(7,237 posts)
40. Thanks for the information.
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 05:59 AM
Mar 2014

Appreciate the transparency.

Wish the hosts forum was read only to everybody else. I know Skinner said in ATA that so many people are in there already it doesn't seem necessary but there are whole hell of a lot of people NOT in there. (I would like to host but don't have more than a few minutes a day to pop in and out of DU.)

seaglass

(8,171 posts)
41. Thanks cyberswede - I don't agree with the lock but appreciate your explanation. What really got
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 06:42 AM
Mar 2014

me angry is a host challenging sea and then being the one to lock the post. Hope he feels all smug with himself because that's exactly what it looked like. I know there are hosts who act in good faith and then there are some who don't.

cyberswede

(26,117 posts)
51. I mentioned it...
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 10:14 AM
Mar 2014
...I didn't see anything unreasonable in his dealing with seabeyond's OP (except maybe his alert and request to lock it quickly, which didn't happen)


but probably not prominently enough. Sorry!

sufrommich

(22,871 posts)
48. There are numerous "talking about DU" threads
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 09:59 AM
Mar 2014

that are allowed to stand,why pretend there isn't? The Hosts forum shouldn't be used as a means to punish certain posters and anybody capable of reading the forum can see that it does.Also, no one who actually alerts on a thread should ever have a say on whether a thread gets a lock,ever. If that's not a conflict,I don't know what is.

cyberswede

(26,117 posts)
54. I agree
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 10:28 AM
Mar 2014

...and my original argument was that the OP was "talking about DU" - and the hosts who replied agreed, except that jury result appeared to be a complaint about the outcome. I think everyone who weighed in on the alert felt that way. The post was fine, except for the jury result.

I don't have a problem with hosts alerting and even bringing the alert to the Hosts group - it's just an obvious "lock" vote from that host. Typically, though, I abstain from voting to lock threads in which I've participated (many hosts do). I probably shouldn't have changed my vote, but the jury result really did appear to be a complaint about the outcome of the alert.

sufrommich

(22,871 posts)
57. Please don't think I'm talking about you. I've
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 10:34 AM
Mar 2014

seen your posts in the hosts forum and you take great pains to be fair.

hlthe2b

(102,236 posts)
52. cyberswede, I don't doubt your sincerity, but I read that host thread and could not disagree more
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 10:14 AM
Mar 2014

Given the host who alerted, so strongly advocated for the lock and who has a long well known history of antagonism towards feminists and the poster in question (not to mention documented history of posting jury results routinely as well) is being lauded, rather than admonished is reprehensible. That has put the entire hosting forum and the reputation of those hosts in a new low.

I did not weigh into the discussion because of obvious conflict of interest. That other hosts do not feel responsible to do similar--when they have such strong personal feelings or biases towards a member or group--is not simply sad, but damaging. And that other hosts do not call them on such behavior--even sadder.

seaglass

(8,171 posts)
55. That is unfortunate. There needs to be an aggressive host removal process, biased hosts who can't
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 10:31 AM
Mar 2014

recuse themselves create distrust. Obviously.

Sheldon Cooper

(3,724 posts)
56. Yes.
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 10:31 AM
Mar 2014

After the big hoo-haw last week about hosts gossiping about Will Pitt in the host forum, here comes this travesty. A known feminist-baiter, with a known history of posting jury results, who alerted on sea's thread and then locked it when he didn't get his way - tell me again how this is okay.

And speaking of seabeyond, it's been 90 days since her two oldest hidden threads. Why isn't she out of time out yet?

seaglass

(8,171 posts)
59. The host forum needs to be read-only to the general membership to keep them honest. Reiterating
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 10:38 AM
Mar 2014

my comments about MIRT - the majority volunteer and act in good faith but those who don't need to be removed.

Sheldon Cooper

(3,724 posts)
66. Yes, if people are discussing me in a negative way, I think I'm entitled to know.
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 10:48 AM
Mar 2014

Know your enemy, so to speak. I have a healthy and vibrant ignore list and I'd love to add anyone who wants to spend time trashing me in a private forum.

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
77. Interesting
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 11:52 AM
Mar 2014

I don't have access to the host forum, so I can't see the discussion. I think it's a mistake, however, to put blame on the locking host as opposed to the group of hosts.

As for the lock, I can't figure out what is and isn't okay in GD anymore. Seems like lots of similar threads are left all the time.

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
88. When the locking host has participated in the thread, it gives the appearance of heavy handed
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 01:09 PM
Mar 2014

hosting, to me. An abuse of power.

 

JTFrog

(14,274 posts)
97. Thank you.
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 02:15 PM
Mar 2014

Not posting here for a while was healthy.

Too bad things are still the same here tho, lol.

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
101. I appreciate the info
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 08:18 PM
Mar 2014

and know from serving with you on MIRT that you are the consummate professional in such matters. We could only hope for more like you to serve as hosts.

MadrasT

(7,237 posts)
38. The whole thread is the height of irony.
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 05:51 AM
Mar 2014

She posts about how women are silenced when they speak out... and is, herself, silenced.

The whole situation is just pathetic.

Iris

(15,653 posts)
42. Indeed. And I do not like this trend that "women's" issues must stay in these groups
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 06:54 AM
Mar 2014

History of Feminism is not a ghetto.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
116. It is the opposite of irony, to me.
Fri Mar 28, 2014, 03:04 PM
Mar 2014

It is precisely what I would expect.

It is telling that a handful of people found that fact hilarious. And it is also precisely what I would expect.

dawg

(10,624 posts)
46. It was senseless to lock that thread.
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 09:26 AM
Mar 2014

I had just composed the ultimate reply that was about to "win" the thread, and when I hit post I got a message that the thread I was replying to had been locked.

sufrommich

(22,871 posts)
47. The Host Forum should be readable to all DUers. I can
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 09:34 AM
Mar 2014

read it because I'm a forum host. It's frequently used by posters with an agenda to lock threads they dislike. It's also used by hosts who get threads locked to argue for unlocking their own threads,which is something no one outside of the Host forum can do. It needs transparency so everyone can see what goes on there,it is far from even handed. No one who alerts on a thread should have the power to lock that specific thread,that's just laughable.

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
78. But, when the Locker is also the Alerter and a Participant of the thread in question.
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 12:03 PM
Mar 2014

and then Pushes for consensus in the Host's Forum and uses the argument of Jury Results in OP while flagrantly posting ALL juries he is on ...

Baines, I can excuse one of these actions and give benefit of doubt on a second action but, when one adds it all up ... it gives the appearance of collusion and foul play to those of us without access to the Host's Group.

Perhaps, it is time for some clear cut definition of CONSENSUS and some protocol should be established for how Hosts proceed within well defined parameters and policies.

Also, I have thought for a while now that TWENTY (always thought it should be an odd number so as to avoid a tie) is too large a number for Hosts and thusly contributes to the problem of quickly and fairly forming a consensus. I understand that might be a minority opinion around here but, it is a valid argument, I think.

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
79. Okay, I don't know the particulars
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 12:06 PM
Mar 2014

I did see someone else was the SOP alerter, but there may have been more than one.

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
80. and I could be wrong as well. I may have misunderstood exactly what all transpired within
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 12:08 PM
Mar 2014

The Host Group.

boston bean

(36,221 posts)
84. No, you are not wrong. Here is the SOP alert
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 12:42 PM
Mar 2014

Author: seabeyond
i won't shut up as a woman, because women in the u.s. has it so much better than other women,
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10024728615
Alerted by aikoaiko: Including the jury results that didn't go her way is exactly the kind of DU whining we are supposed to lock up.

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
86. Thank you, boston bean. transparency. Let the light shine in.
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 12:47 PM
Mar 2014

Despicable reasoning given aikoaiko's own posting habits. How does he justify/rationalize his actions in his own mind?

JustAnotherGen

(31,818 posts)
91. This is post in HOF: Since this is really a thread about transparency
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 01:29 PM
Mar 2014
This is posted in HOF - not General Discussion

I'm going to put this out there -



On Thu Mar 27, 2014, 01:06 PM an alert was sent on the following post:

No, you are not wrong. Here is the SOP alert
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1255&pid=41016

REASON FOR ALERT

This post is disruptive, hurtful, rude, insensitive, over-the-top, or otherwise inappropriate.

ALERTER'S COMMENTS

This whole thread is a pile on of a DUer and host. Boston bean is a host of this group and shouldn't even allow these attack threads to remain here. Here she is adding fuel to the flames by disclosing the identity of an alerter. This is an abuse of power by a host. Outing alerters is designed to intimidate and discourage alerts that they don't like. The thread they're discussing was lock by host consensus.

You served on a randomly-selected Jury of DU members which reviewed this post. The review was completed at Thu Mar 27, 2014, 01:27 PM, and the Jury voted 1-5 to LEAVE IT.

Juror #1 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #2 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: The identity of the alerter had already been disclosed upthread. With that being said, it seems that a review of appropriate behavior for hosts is sorely needed.
Juror #3 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: Almost voted to hide because I think it is really uncool to reveal the IDs of alerters in this manner. But in my view the post by seabeyond (presuming I have the right one in mind ... ) that triggered all this subsequent poo flinging shouldn't have been alerted on in the first place. It is regrettable that this has become such a mess, but since it has let it all be out there.
Juror #4 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #5 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #6 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: I agree with alerter's every objection. Our hosts are behaving badly. That thread doesn't belong in GD.

Thank you very much for participating in our Jury system, and we hope you will be able to participate again in the future.

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
95. Thank you for posting those results. I wonder just how many alerts have been sent from this thread.
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 01:38 PM
Mar 2014

I don't doubt that my OP has been alerted. Actually, would be surprised if otherwise.

JustAnotherGen

(31,818 posts)
99. Your welcome
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 07:48 PM
Mar 2014

I think it needed to be posted. No one has done anything wrong back here - and seabeyond didn't do anything wrong but piss off someone who doesn't like seeing the truth in writing in GD.

mercuryblues

(14,531 posts)
81. Wow
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 12:31 PM
Mar 2014

So a host alerts on a thread, the jury decides to let it stay. The host is a known antagonist of HoF and the author of the OP.

Jury lets the thread stand

Host contributes in a negative manner in the thread.

Then runs to the host forum to get the thread locked, because it has a jury result in it. When the host has bragged in the past about how he always posts jury results.

He then locks the thread using jury result as the excuse.

I change my post from above. That is god damned fucking disgusting. He should not only be banned from being a host, but banned from being able to sit on a jury.

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
82. Emotions on the board already running high over this issue/debate. Seems we should take every
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 12:36 PM
Mar 2014

precaution to, at the very least, give the appearance of being fair and balanced ... right?

mercuryblues

(14,531 posts)
83. yeah
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 12:41 PM
Mar 2014

but facts are facts and if they are not fair, it is not on me. That was some vile, vindictive shit he pulled and got away with.

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
85. ... "and got away with" ... and what I want to know is what, if anything, is going to be done
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 12:44 PM
Mar 2014

to see that this does not happen again in the future.

I am trying to decide just how much of my time should be devoted to posting/contributing to this site going forward.

Thanks, mercuryblues. I understand your frustration with this predicament.

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
94. I think it is safe to conclude that aikoaiko behaved in a biased, hypocritical manner, yes.
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 01:35 PM
Mar 2014

It is my opinion that he should have recused himself once he had participated in the thread. Alerting on it is one thing but, it really gives mixed signals when a host posts in a thread and then advocates the thread be locked.

MadrasT

(7,237 posts)
103. This incident seems to be a tipping point for me.
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 08:35 PM
Mar 2014

Fuck this jiveass bullshit.

Time for a vacation from DU.

Be well. I'll be back... but I need a break from this horseshit.

Iris

(15,653 posts)
105. Check in when you get back.
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 11:57 PM
Mar 2014

I don't blame you for taking a break. I've been away for a while and I'm heartbroken over what's happened here.

cyberswede

(26,117 posts)
108. This ATA post from Skinner might be encouraging...
Fri Mar 28, 2014, 12:11 PM
Mar 2014

In light of the recent lock of seabeyond's post, I thought this might interest some here.
I think clearer guidelines for hosts would be helpful.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/12595430

Star Member Skinner (59,187 posts)
1. I've been resisting doing something like this.

But I wonder if it may be time to write some explicit guidelines.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
110. well cyber. honestly. listening to this thread, seeing what transpired and reading
Fri Mar 28, 2014, 12:18 PM
Mar 2014

the thread in the host forum, i do not know if i am petitioning to reopening Op, ATA, or start a thread in here, maybe repost in GD.

at first, it was merely the hypocrisy. certain duers creating my OP into a meta, when it clearly was not. as i watched OP after OP in gd, specifically whining about du being left open.

then this morning, reading the host thread, i had to walk away.

the disrespect and nasty... i perceived. granted. just took a bit, before i walked away. i need to get back to it. do some more reading. but i had enough at the giggles that sure enough, i was shut up. really? but, i am not at all impressed with the better.... us. the professional, us. at all.

doing some breathing, before deciding what direction i want to go.

why.... SOME people feel they can be as ugly to us as they want, with no repercussion what so ever, is beyond me. but.... they feel they can, and they continue to do.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
119. They know they can. They have, and they will coninue to do so.
Fri Mar 28, 2014, 03:40 PM
Mar 2014

Thanks for making an attempt to 'educate' others about how we are so routinely given the 'stop complaining! be glad you're not being stoned to death!' (i.e. told that since things are worse elsewhere, that means we should stop complaining and just be grateful we have it this good) treatment.

Hopefully a few people who didn't know before do now.

Ohio Joe

(21,755 posts)
109. Wow... This is a clear abuse of being a Host
Fri Mar 28, 2014, 12:12 PM
Mar 2014

It's been a while since I've been a Host or in the Host's Group but it was not like this when it started. If someone who started a thread had any kind of history with a poster or was involved in a post, they abstained from voting. Aikoaiko should no longer be allowed to Host in any Groups or Forums. As well, it would be proper if other Hosts stood up and called out abuses like this.

This is a shame.

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
111. Don't you think
Fri Mar 28, 2014, 12:56 PM
Mar 2014

If people cared about fairness and professionalism they would have said something while that whole debate was happening? It seems to me some are comfortable using hosting powers against members they consider lesser than others.

Ohio Joe

(21,755 posts)
112. I think that was always a danger...
Fri Mar 28, 2014, 01:03 PM
Mar 2014

I suspect the Admins need to put down some actual rules and start banning some people from being Hosts when they go outside of them.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
123. that is what was disappointing to me. and the is the shift i have seen in the
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 01:57 PM
Mar 2014

last couple months in host. there was at least an effort with fairness and professionalism from most. now.... some have found that host can be used for agenda, and there is no qualms being obvious about it. that is what is so disappointing. and that is what i had hoped would happen with this OP. knowing it was in the host forum i could have edited out the jury. but, it obviously not being the subject of my OP i was hoping the host would be their better self and not use the excuse of meta, like i was so clearly seeing the opposing duers doing in the thread itself.

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
124. If you had edited out the jury results
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 02:05 PM
Mar 2014

There would have been another excuse, since we know full well it had noting to do with the jury results since the alerter makes a point of posting those all the time.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
125. that is what i figured also. not to mention, a few feeling they could implement "special" rules for
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 02:08 PM
Mar 2014

me. fuck that shit.

lol

the point was clear. every person that worked at making it a meta issue, are also the people that played in the feminist issue a couple years ago. they do not want hof. they do not want those of us on du, that participate in hof. they are pissed at hofs success. and that is the only issue for them

EVERYONE else addressed the subject of that OP.

men telling women to stfu and appreciate what we are allowed in the u.s. cause other women in other countries have it much worse.

that was not a tricky, greyish, issue. it was pretty in my face obvious.

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
127. Especially since that blatant call-out thread is stilling going strong
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 02:10 PM
Mar 2014

someone told me they alerted on it and the results came back 0-6. Its only point is to talk smack about a DUer.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
128. i just saw two more Ops in gd, subject du... whining about du. nothing else in the OP
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 02:11 PM
Mar 2014

no other subject. just all about du, the members and a whine. i want to go over the last 24 hours and SOP all the OPs that are whining about du

this is whining about du
this is whining about du
this is whining about du
this is whining about du
this is whining about du
this is whining about du
this is whining about du
this is whining about du
this is whining about du
this is whining about du

and a sop on my OP

this is NOT whining about du

see the difference?

yet... those stay

MadrasT

(7,237 posts)
113. Here's the thing...
Fri Mar 28, 2014, 01:13 PM
Mar 2014

Meta kept the whining about DU contained. GD had arguments but not like now.

Now GD is overrun with Meta bullshit.

Skinner shut down Meta because of the trend toward calling out individuals, dogpiling on them, witchhunts and the like.

And now GD has done a full morph into the old Meta, complete with the call outs, the witchhunts and dogpiles.

All he did was shut down the area where the bad behavior was happening. But nobody did jack shit to make the sucky behavior stop. GD has "no whining about" DU rules that are ignored, (I think it still has that rule) and at this point, it is just one nasty flamewar free-for-all steaming pile of poo.

The inmates are running the asylum, and nobody seems to care.

If the call out, dogpiles, and witchhunts are going to be allowed, at least re-open Meta and freaking contain that shit. That was if somebody wants to read it, they can, without every 3rd goddamn thread in GD turning into a shit fest.

Not sure that we can put that particular genie back in the bottle though.

Maybe I need to ignore a couple more people, and/or only read OPs and not comments. And use "trash thread" more.

ismnotwasm

(41,976 posts)
118. I started doing that and I can't believe the difference
Fri Mar 28, 2014, 03:35 PM
Mar 2014

Last edited Fri Mar 28, 2014, 04:22 PM - Edit history (1)

I started with trash thread, and I only have 4 people on ignore--ones I consider trouble makers or trolls. I hate using ignore, but it did make a difference, when dealing with constant negative prolific posters or just nasty ones I just don't want to see-- ever.

Edit 5 now


sufrommich

(22,871 posts)
120. There is a new OP in GD that is both Meta and a
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 08:01 AM
Mar 2014

call out.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=4745941

The same host who locked Seabeyonds OP for being Meta and a call out thinks this one should stay. Gee, I wonder why.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
122. what it's really all about. SOME men on du are pissed as hell that we dare to point out the
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 01:45 PM
Mar 2014

sexism on du. we would be the best of pals with all the men on du, if only we kept our discussion of sexism and misogyny squarely focused on the fundamental religious and the conservatives. stepping outside the box, and bring awareness of sexism within the democratic party, and god forbid, du itself is really the ultimate sin we women in hof commit.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
135. yup. couldnt let a forever timer, say hey, in gd. nope. no way. all kinds of gripes about du?
Sun Mar 30, 2014, 06:34 PM
Mar 2014

sure.

but trumad say, ... hey gang, wow. nope. couldnt let it slide. zap his ass.

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