ugh

[boston bean]

http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=5198713

[Tuesday Afternoon]

1. =

ALERTER'S COMMENTS

Starting a new thread as a call-out against another poster who (politely) disagreed with her in the original thread.

You served on a randomly-selected Jury of DU members which reviewed this post. The review was completed at Sat Jul 5, 2014, 11:44 AM, and the Jury voted 2-5 to LEAVE IT.

Juror #1 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: Oh for fuck's sake.

Stay out of HoF if your sensibilities are that delicate.
Juror #2 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: The OP is in a protected group and she wants to discuss the implications of WHAT is being said not WHO said it. There is a difference. Please, quit alert stalking this protected group. I am politely disagreeing with The Alerter. I will allow. Leave It Alone.
Juror #3 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: I voted to leave it, but the alerter should go back and argue in the original thread if he/she wants to.
Juror #4 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: Seriously?
Juror #5 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: ??
Juror #6 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: Inappropriate meta discussion thread. Discuss at the original thread instead.
Juror #7 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: No explanation given

[boston bean]

3. Real question is.. Why would anyone disagree with that thread?

[Tuesday Afternoon]

6. well honestly, bean ask HIM. He is the one saying it. BUT, don't be surprised

if he comes back with this =

"I am not disagreeing."


I could be wrong though.

[BainsBane]

13. Politely

Politely disagrees that women's civil rights matter. I can't even begin to express the anger I feel at the pretense that there is anything polite about dismissing the rights of any segment of the population.

[Tuesday Afternoon]

14. It takes a special kind of arrogance combined with stupidity to dismiss

a majority of the whole fucking world.

It is why I don't even bother interacting with that one.

There is not enough education or enlightenment to teach him or light to show him the error of his ways.

Leave him be in his dark corner.

Trust me, he feels comfortable with the roaches that scurry in the crevices.

[BainsBane]

15. I alerted on that post

and a juror said I deserved an instant tombstone. I actually assumed it had already been alerted on and wrote my message to the administrators.

[Tuesday Afternoon]

18. Baines, I appreciate that fact that you try. I know you to be one of the most

level headed, fair spirited people on board. You learned early on and in a very public manner about trying to game the system and since then I have found you to be principled and well meaning but, honestly ....

some of these posts that are so OTT that it has to be Idiocracy.

and then to have a juror tell you that YOU the deserve the Tombstone ... ?

which, of course, tells me it is someone who has been around since DU2 because Tombstone went with Grovelbot. It pains to know that an old timer is such a MCP or else a woman so twisted in her thinking that she does not realize she is sleeping with the enemy.

[redqueen]

16. The ideas don't matter, Bains. It's only the tone, that's what really matters.

That seems to be an increasingly popular message on this site, anyway.

[BainsBane]

17. Oh, the idea matters

My challenging him through an alert deserves an "instant tombstone," according to a juror.

[Tuesday Afternoon]

19. and redqueen, what kills me about the tone ... a man can write the most

snide condescending dismissive post you have ever read but, if we reply back in an equal manner WE are the ones with the tone ... ???

fuck that.

this tone argument cuts both ways.

[redqueen]

20. If only it did.

Society doesn't see it that way. It's the same double standard that we see applied to assertive women vs. assertive men.

[Tuesday Afternoon]

21. and time and again we see the juries on here uphold that old patriarchal standard of

society.

This is where sea has her trouble/problem/issue.

She gives back as good as she gets and the men (and their women) want to punish her "mouthiness"

It is - as if - they would stone her via the internet.

I am pretty sure all her hides have come when she is in the middle of a heated exchange and the other poster has said something equally offensive and sea (in her way) tries to explain the offensive and is perceived as being offensive.

[MadrasT]

22. No shit, and I am totally fucking sick of that here and in real life.

Men can say any goddamn thing they want, in any tone they want, and expect to NEVER be challenged. Act shocked, offended, and 18 kinds of put out if you even MENTION that there might be a wee problem with anything they said.

LOL, male privilege in action, right there.

Fuck. That. Noise.

I am done.

[Tuesday Afternoon]

23. yep. that one is tricky. that is the one that gives sea a big problem too, I think.

I tend to use a lot of sarcasm in those incidents or make a joke.

not the most effective way, maybe, to get out the message but, so far, I have managed to not have a hidden post in some time.

[Tuesday Afternoon]

24. to you MadrasT from seabeyond =

ya, look at your bad ass self, acting all sweet, elsewhere. ohhhh, i have never had a hide, really, so simple. inevitably, you are ready to kick some ass, right up there with skittle.

you tickle me pink, too.

[MadrasT]

25. LOL Skittles and me should form an ass kicking brigade.

Heh.

Love y'all.

[Tuesday Afternoon]

26. love you, too. woman!

that is from me and I am sure seabeyond, too

[redqueen]

2. Business as usual for that poster nt

[Tuesday Afternoon]

4. yep, standard procedure. SNAFU.

[redqueen]

5. seriously?

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10025195528#post47

[Tuesday Afternoon]

7. I rec'd that thread. in a show of silent support and out of respect.

wtf is wrong with some people?

[redqueen]

8. They are trying to create the appearance of "gender" wars here.

As for their reason for doing so ...

[Tuesday Afternoon]

9. it couldn't be to disrupt because that is against ToS ...

oh wait ...

[redqueen]

10. lol yep

[ismnotwasm]

11. Huh

Strange. One would almost think they were here (after, of course taking a quick look at wiki so as to be able to pretend they know jack.)to stir shit.

[Squinch]

12. Shocked it should come from him. Shocked I tell you.

[bravenak]

27. Never say,"doesn't take much"

I'll probably be on vacation soon, but i'll be reading yr posts. I agree with you on that one.

[cyberswede]

28. That was the stupidest fucking hide I've seen in a long time.

But that thread was just pure shit-stirring anyway.

[Tuesday Afternoon]

30. you say shit stirring. I say disruptive. but, you know not against ToS disruptive

... oh wait ...

[bravenak]

32. It was like 2 years old.

I was just having fun when they locked me out. I had such a good one waiting. I should have hit post quicker. There is something about me (youth and beauty?lol!) that makes some people upset at everything i post.

[Tuesday Afternoon]

29. and note

this is okay ---->


but this is not okay ---->


go figure.

[bravenak]

31. Only depends on who does it.

Me and Bonobo have this thing where i like to try to troll him. It's fun. I shoulda stuck to messing with him and not have paid attention to 1000 words of wisdom.

[Tuesday Afternoon]

33. odd "hobby" you have there but, far be it from me to "judge"

if you need me you can find me hanging in the "lobby"

lord, I need to stop now. bad. stuff there. but, what the hay, it is late and I am tired.

[bravenak]

34. He wants me to do it.

I can tell. I see you're a rapper.

[Tuesday Afternoon]

35. ... lol ...

good night, my friend and thanks for being you

[bravenak]

36. Good night from the land of the midnight sun.

Much love as always.