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stand firm. i like what and how clinton addresses abortion. (Original Post) seabeyond Apr 2015 OP
Let girl/woman do what she needs to do and it's none of our business anyway. HIPPA laws should brewens Apr 2015 #1
Some guys have arrived in that other thread DURHAM D Apr 2015 #2
i just put my toe back into that thread. and i got the but but but, she said rare. seabeyond Apr 2015 #3
Don't bother. DURHAM D Apr 2015 #5
Fall apart of course ismnotwasm Apr 2015 #4
In my experience with this issue, the further difficult question arises when CTyankee Apr 2015 #6
Choice is choice ismnotwasm Apr 2015 #7
I think their bitterness was in large part due to the fact that they were enduring CTyankee Apr 2015 #8
I can see that ismnotwasm Apr 2015 #10
Some of the clinging to religion is defensiveness, people say their kids are a burden on society. freshwest Apr 2015 #11
Okay, I see what your saying concerning that thread... AuntPatsy Apr 2015 #9
here is the thing. having listened to speech, reacted to the word rare, then taking it in context seabeyond Apr 2015 #12
I'll bet you money they didn't actually listen to the speech ismnotwasm Apr 2015 #13
You noticed that too, didn't you. Because I sure have. n/t freshwest Apr 2015 #28
It was a fantastic reply Novara Apr 2015 #14
I'm one of those who think that by wanting abortion to be rare is wrong seabeyond Apr 2015 #15
That's not what I said. Novara Apr 2015 #17
that is exactly what you said. i copy and pasted your sentence seabeyond Apr 2015 #18
Read what I wrote Novara Apr 2015 #21
i stopped where i wanted to address. because it falls at the beginning is not my problem. seabeyond Apr 2015 #22
Making abortion rare is logically limiting them. Novara Apr 2015 #23
That segues into my point about abortion being a surgical procedure ismnotwasm Apr 2015 #24
you continue to ignore what she is actually saying, regardless of me showing you how fool hearty seabeyond Apr 2015 #25
I'm a nurse so I see it from a medical POV ismnotwasm Apr 2015 #16
The fact that she is repeating it "after her work for women's justice is disturbing." Novara Apr 2015 #19
Isn't that what I said? ismnotwasm Apr 2015 #20
Perfect. I agree with every word. Nye Bevan Apr 2015 #26
you are so obvious. ya ya , i get it. it is there for me to see, not all. seabeyond Apr 2015 #27
Heh! ismnotwasm Apr 2015 #29

brewens

(13,582 posts)
1. Let girl/woman do what she needs to do and it's none of our business anyway. HIPPA laws should
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 11:45 AM
Apr 2015

protect that. She goes to a doctor and it's confidential, no matter why it was or what she had done.

DURHAM D

(32,609 posts)
2. Some guys have arrived in that other thread
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 12:25 PM
Apr 2015

to tell me/us how to think.

What would we do without their help?




 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
3. i just put my toe back into that thread. and i got the but but but, she said rare.
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 12:26 PM
Apr 2015

ergo, bad clinton. dont know if i want to read the rest of the comments.

DURHAM D

(32,609 posts)
5. Don't bother.
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 12:34 PM
Apr 2015

There are only two kinds of people when it comes to public policy discussion -those who look for mutual points of agreement and others who look for points of separation.

CTyankee

(63,911 posts)
6. In my experience with this issue, the further difficult question arises when
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 05:12 PM
Apr 2015

the anti-choicers start talking about women aborting fetuses with Down Syndrome. I worked for an organization helping people with developmental disabilities and I heard some real bitterness from the parents of these individuals who would not have considered abortion due to religious beliefs. And there were some contentious conversations on the subject. They were sensitive to the fact that there are far fewer children with DS born. These parents felt that it was slur against the dignity of disabled people if they are "eliminated" before they are born. And I guess it didn't help that I left that job to go to work for Planned Parenthood's state affiliate...not because of my previous work but because I was so strongly pro-choice and it was a time when clinics providing abortions were under threat of being invaded and shut down by rabid anti-choicers...

CTyankee

(63,911 posts)
8. I think their bitterness was in large part due to the fact that they were enduring
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 05:29 PM
Apr 2015

some difficult times because their lives were completely centered around caring for the son or daughter with DS. They were in serious need of respite. And they must have been very conflicted. They also didn't know what to do about the future...who would care for their disabled adult child when they were too old or dead? I think these were some of the reasons for that bitterness...

ismnotwasm

(41,976 posts)
10. I can see that
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 09:41 PM
Apr 2015

I wish there was a way to bridge that gap, it's hard when people turn abortion into their boogeyman

freshwest

(53,661 posts)
11. Some of the clinging to religion is defensiveness, people say their kids are a burden on society.
Sun Apr 19, 2015, 04:23 AM
Apr 2015

So they end up with pro-lifers since they support their having given birth. The parents need moral support.

There was a thread here on DU about a famous person saying their having given birth to DS child was 'a sin.' So presumably, they advocated forced abortion to prevent this child living.

Some parents can't afford tests for determining DS. Other parents have children with no sign of disability before or after birth, and then are abandoned by family and friends for the unexpected problems arise.

With rhetoric like that, along with other things thrown in parents' faces, they seek justification for having had, and caring for a disabled child. I rememeber an ER episode years ago that I was shocked watching.

The star of the show, a physician, argued against giving treatment to a girl who had severe disabilities and was in a wheel chair. They said the mother was indulging herself to seek medical care for her, she should let her die. He called the girl 'a pet.'

You don't get much worse than that in saying who and who is not a human.

So there is bitterness, and lot of parents are angry at pro-choice as they feel that they are saying their child shouldn't be a burden. But in areas that serve the disabled well, generally progressive, liberal, mainly Democratic, they feel acceptance.

I've got to get some sleep. Hope that made sense.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
12. here is the thing. having listened to speech, reacted to the word rare, then taking it in context
Sun Apr 19, 2015, 11:58 AM
Apr 2015

of what she was actually saying, i got why she choose that word and how she flipped it totally around, from how others have used rare to denigrate womens choice.

i did not even consider discourse because she clearly took it to rw screwing with family planning and contraceptive. it was very very clear.

so, when i posted the OP, i was only posting cause i thought a kick ass speech i had yet to hear and that we should all hear how clinton argues with the rw on this issue.

low and behold my surprise that context did not matter in the usage of rare.

i cant hardly see the other side, even though passionate arguments and i am totally on board with the use of the word rare, when taking the whole speech and usage into account.

ismnotwasm

(41,976 posts)
13. I'll bet you money they didn't actually listen to the speech
Sun Apr 19, 2015, 12:51 PM
Apr 2015

They just want to jump on her shit about it.

Novara

(5,841 posts)
14. It was a fantastic reply
Mon Apr 20, 2015, 11:41 AM
Apr 2015

But I'm one of those who think that by wanting abortion to be rare is wrong. We don't live in a perfect world where we can easily reduce the need for abortion. Hell, abortion is already rare. And the RW is also trying to make birth control rare. How are you going to reduce the need for abortion if birth control is rare??

This is our sickening reality in America. Without ubiquitous and perfect birth control used perfectly 100% of the time, abortions will be necessary.

I see the people defending "rare" as not able to see the reality of the climate around reproduction in this country.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
15. I'm one of those who think that by wanting abortion to be rare is wrong
Mon Apr 20, 2015, 11:46 AM
Apr 2015

words matter. see how i can change the meaning of what you say. with your simple statement as you start your explaintion. cause lets focus on, words matter

wanting abortion to be rare is wrong.

i can easily say, what kind of monster are you. that with education and technology and access to care, we can have invasive surgery a thing of the past.

we should demand it be rare. in the acceptance it is womens health care and no ones damn business.

how can you suggest rarely having abortions is wrong when we have access to so many different choices that will avoid an invasive procedure that cause pain and costs more and is more timely, the effort large, and aftermath more effecting.

that is what you and others are doing with clintons speech. you take one word and create your story.



Novara

(5,841 posts)
17. That's not what I said.
Mon Apr 20, 2015, 12:54 PM
Apr 2015
how can you suggest rarely having abortions is wrong when we have access to so many different choices that will avoid an invasive procedure that cause pain and costs more and is more timely, the effort large, and aftermath more effecting.


I never said that. Please don't put words in my mouth. Limiting abortion is wrong. Abortion is already becoming rarer with each passing day. So Far, 2015 Is On Pace to Set Abortion Restriction Records

Every single day, fewer women have access to abortion. And what happens when abortion is rare? Women die. Unwanted children are born. Women resort to illegal abortion.

I'm saying that in our current reality and the current anti-women political climate, we can't reduce abortions because many women can't even get birth control. Making birth control free and ubiquitous should be the goal, not focusing on making abortions harder to get.

You want a perfect world where we eliminate the need for abortion. In our current political climate, this can't happen. Thus, making abortions even more rare will only hurt women.

You said we have access to different choices. We DON'T. We really don't. That's my point. And as long as we don't, as a society we can't afford to make abortion more rare.
 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
18. that is exactly what you said. i copy and pasted your sentence
Mon Apr 20, 2015, 12:56 PM
Apr 2015

pretty frustrating and insulting, right?

Novara

(5,841 posts)
21. Read what I wrote
Mon Apr 20, 2015, 01:36 PM
Apr 2015

You're having some comprehension issues.

how can you suggest rarely having abortions is wrong.


I didn't say that. My point: limiting abortions is wrong.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
22. i stopped where i wanted to address. because it falls at the beginning is not my problem.
Mon Apr 20, 2015, 01:38 PM
Apr 2015

i copied and pasted and argued.... what you... YOU said.

and here you are doing it again.

My point: limiting abortions is wrong.


NO WHERE did she say ANYTHING about LIMITING shit.

Novara

(5,841 posts)
23. Making abortion rare is logically limiting them.
Mon Apr 20, 2015, 01:57 PM
Apr 2015

No, you're right: Hillary didn't talk about limiting abortion. But making abortion rare as a goal logically limits the availability of abortion. That's reality.

Let's play the tape forward and imagine you've met your goal of safe, legal, rare abortion. Let's say that we have perfect birth control, used perfectly, 100% of the time. So that makes the need for abortions much less, because unwanted pregnancies don't occur. It's a world where almost all pregnancies are perfect, wanted, and planned-for. Well, that would serve the goal of making abortion rare, wouldn't it? So why would we need a bunch of doctors who can perform abortions and why would we need a bunch of abortion clinics? After all, it's such a rare procedure now because every pregnancy is wanted. Eliminate the clinics - there's no need for them. But what if you're one of the very rare women who ends up with a fetal deformity they couldn't test for until you were well into your first trimester, a fetal deformity so awful that the baby will be born in pain, gasp for breath, and die as it is coming out of the womb? And you want to avail yourself of the safe, legal, rare abortion to spare that poor child from that painful birth/death. Where are the clinics? Where are the doctors? Who is going to give you an abortion - which you legally can pursue - if it has become so rare that hardly anyone does them?


Do you see that point? What if we live in that world where abortion is rare and so there are no clinics anymore? Then where would the rare woman go when she does need one?

ismnotwasm

(41,976 posts)
24. That segues into my point about abortion being a surgical procedure
Mon Apr 20, 2015, 02:11 PM
Apr 2015

Without all this angsty emotionialization of the fetus. It is a medical procedure. It carries less risk than a pregnancy, but there are risks. Birth control carries even less risk than either, but still, does carry risk. Having a variety of options to choose from without judgment, without reservation, should be a human right of every woman.

The bottom line is Clinton is NOT working to restrict access to abortion. She is working to expand reproductive access.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
25. you continue to ignore what she is actually saying, regardless of me showing you how fool hearty
Mon Apr 20, 2015, 03:20 PM
Apr 2015

that is. i wont argue something she has not done or said.

ismnotwasm

(41,976 posts)
16. I'm a nurse so I see it from a medical POV
Mon Apr 20, 2015, 11:50 AM
Apr 2015

I'd rather see good reproductive health services for all, abortion seen as a surgical procedure and not a moral dilemma.

Bill Clinton used the phrase in '96, Obama in '10. It's become a kind of meme. The fact that Senator Clinton gets so much shit for using it after her work for women's justice is disturbing.

Novara

(5,841 posts)
19. The fact that she is repeating it "after her work for women's justice is disturbing."
Mon Apr 20, 2015, 12:58 PM
Apr 2015

I understand that you want to reduce the need for abortion. Good. Unwanted pregnancies should be reduced - I fully agree. But let's focus on good reproductive prevention and care rather than talk about making a hard-to-get procedure even harder to get.

ismnotwasm

(41,976 posts)
20. Isn't that what I said?
Mon Apr 20, 2015, 01:13 PM
Apr 2015

It's a politicians phrase yes, but in Clintons case I believe she meant as a health issue not a moral one, and I don't believe she is working to make abortions more difficult to get.

The "safe, legal and rare" is a Dem party stance as well, in the context of options

Strongly and unequivocally support Roe v. Wade

The Democratic Party strongly and unequivocally supports Roe v. Wade and a woman's right to make decisions regarding her pregnancy, including a safe and legal abortion, regardless of ability to pay. We oppose any and all efforts to weaken or undermine that right. Abortion is an intensely personal decision between a woman, her family, her doctor, and her clergy; there is no place for politicians or government to get in the way. We also recognize that health care and education help reduce the number of unintended pregnancies and thereby also reduce the need for abortions. We strongly and unequivocally support a woman's decision to have a child by providing affordable health care and ensuring the availability of and access to programs that help women during pregnancy and after the birth of a child, including caring adoption programs.
Source: 2012 Democratic Party Platform , Sep 4, 2012
 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
27. you are so obvious. ya ya , i get it. it is there for me to see, not all.
Sun Apr 26, 2015, 12:22 PM
Apr 2015

we are dealing wit the same in gd with another character.

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