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Jilly_in_VA

(9,971 posts)
Sat May 7, 2022, 04:43 PM May 2022

What they wore: Amish Country exhibit spotlights sex abuse

Clotheslines with billowing linens and long dresses are a common sight on the off-grid farms of Pennsylvania’s Lancaster County, home to the nation’s largest Amish settlement. For many tourists they’re as iconic a part of Amish Country’s bucolic scenery as the rural lanes and wooden bridges.

But for two days in late April, a clothesline with a different purpose was strung in a small indoor exhibit here. Hanging from it were 13 outfits representing the trauma of sexual assault suffered by members of the Amish, Mennonite and similar groups, a reminder that the modest attire they require, particularly of women and girls, is no protection.

Each garment on display was either the actual one a survivor wore at the time they were assaulted or a replica assembled by volunteers to match the strict dress codes of the survivor’s childhood church.

One was a long-sleeve, periwinkle blue Amish dress with a simple stand collar. The accompanying sign said, “Survivor Age: 4 years old.Next to it was a 5-year-old’s heavy coat, hat and long, hunter green dress, displayed above sturdy black shoes. “I was never safe and I was a child. He was an adult,” a sign quoted the survivor as saying. “No one helped me when I told them he hurt me.”

There was also an infant’s onesie.

“You feel rage when you get a tiny little outfit in the mail,” said Ruth Ann Brubaker of Wayne County, Ohio, who helped put the exhibit together. “I didn’t know I could be so angry. Then you start crying.”

https://apnews.com/article/religion-pennsylvania-sexual-abuse-by-clergy-assault-lancaster-0e97364f986c9b9fffaed44520fc2b1f
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This made me cry. Sexual abuse happens everywhere and is no respecter of traditions

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What they wore: Amish Country exhibit spotlights sex abuse (Original Post) Jilly_in_VA May 2022 OP
I've been in a state of rage all week. CrispyQ May 2022 #1
Me too. Scrivener7 May 2022 #5
What Were You Wearing. sheshe2 May 2022 #2
Tragic. Indefensible. Diamond_Dog May 2022 #3
IMHO Faux pas May 2022 #4
Dammit Jilly_in_VA May 2022 #7
Heartbreaking... The repercussions are staggering... ultralite001 May 2022 #6
This message was self-deleted by its author jfz9580m Oct 2023 #8

Jilly_in_VA

(9,971 posts)
7. Dammit
Sat May 7, 2022, 05:23 PM
May 2022

That's not the point! It fucking happens EVERYWHERE! You can live in a nice area of wealthy homes and get abused by your neighbor or teacher or a family member, or a slum and get abused by the guy down the hall, the super, or some rando off the street. Pay attention!

ultralite001

(894 posts)
6. Heartbreaking... The repercussions are staggering...
Sat May 7, 2022, 05:23 PM
May 2022

For indigenous peoples... Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women... and men...

and those lost to abortion...

and domestic violence...

and substance abuse...

and police maltreatment...

and religious/race/gender/age/you-name-it intolerance...

"Sexual abuse happens everywhere and is no respecter of traditions"...

So many voices crying out be heard...

and gone... never to be heard again...

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