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Notice that Sanders "hits back," Biden "chides," Inslee "knocks," but Harris "snipes" and "attacks"? (Original Post) StarfishSaver Jul 2019 OP
Then I'm for Harris watoos Jul 2019 #1
The more things change... lapucelle Jul 2019 #2
It's not just the media StarfishSaver Jul 2019 #8
Yes, I know. lapucelle Jul 2019 #16
Not unlike with the reaction to this OP StarfishSaver Jul 2019 #18
... lapucelle Jul 2019 #19
Ooh, I remember that one mcar Jul 2019 #25
"You mean it's not unwanted if just the woman wants it ???!!!" lapucelle Jul 2019 #29
Oh, man! LOL. Wow. Best advice to the men on that post? PatrickforO Jul 2019 #38
My daughter sent me the article. I didn't feel like reading it and was more than prepared lapucelle Jul 2019 #41
In a more generic sense, Democrats always 'slam' if dealing with the GOP/Trump mr_lebowski Jul 2019 #3
Yep more misogynistic bullshit. we can do it Jul 2019 #4
YES!!!! - I've been meaning to make a thread about how these terms are being framed! Perfect! tulipsandroses Jul 2019 #5
Must have something to do with chemistry. democratisphere Jul 2019 #6
Men are 'aggressive', women are 'bitchy' RainCaster Jul 2019 #10
And ambitious mcar Jul 2019 #26
Nope, just lady parts. DURHAM D Jul 2019 #11
I know noooooothing. democratisphere Jul 2019 #12
No, I haven't. Dennis Donovan Jul 2019 #7
Apparently... wyldwolf Jul 2019 #14
Yes, Big Time! Kind of Blue Jul 2019 #9
Maybe? idk... Drunken Irishman Jul 2019 #13
Now you know you're not supposed to throw cold water on a good puritopian post. wyldwolf Jul 2019 #17
How about 'rips' and 'claps back?' Any issues with those? wyldwolf Jul 2019 #15
I HATE "claps back". UGH. Media trying to appear "cool" oldsoftie Jul 2019 #20
How about "smacks." It appears to be an equal opportunity offender wyldwolf Jul 2019 #23
And just today, we have an OP about Harris; "shuts down" Megan McCain. oldsoftie Jul 2019 #45
which isn't really a good thing for Harris. My border collie could shut down Megan McCain. wyldwolf Jul 2019 #63
Notice that Sanders "attacks," Biden "snipes," but Harris "knocks" and "chides"? wyldwolf Jul 2019 #21
Ever notice how nail-in-the-coffin-of-a-thread responses like yours never get an answer from the OP Bradshaw3 Jul 2019 #32
The more worrying part is, Hav Jul 2019 #47
Good point n/t Bradshaw3 Jul 2019 #52
And, you get CRICKETS from OP. Cha Jul 2019 #34
I shall use these words with a renew vigor now wyldwolf Jul 2019 #64
I missed the whole point of the thread, watoos Jul 2019 #22
Got it in 1 mcar Jul 2019 #24
I Think Posters Have Misunderstood the Point the OP Was Making ProfessionalLeft Jul 2019 #27
but as you may have seen from other replies, the same words are used for male, female, black, white wyldwolf Jul 2019 #30
The fact that they're occasionally used to describe white men doesn't mean there's not an obvious EffieBlack Jul 2019 #59
Occasionally? No, often, much more often wyldwolf Jul 2019 #61
Why are you getting yourself so worked up? EffieBlack Jul 2019 #66
You know what's weird? wyldwolf Jul 2019 #67
I wish they wouldn't use loaded words like those when commenting about anybody. The Velveteen Ocelot Jul 2019 #28
Yes, I'd like a general de-emphasis of the word "attack." Timer Jul 2019 #36
The perspective may depend on who is your candidate? left-of-center2012 Jul 2019 #31
seems like it depends whether it's a man or a woman Skittles Jul 2019 #37
Just apply DU phrases: Bash, Smear, assassinate, hit job..... brooklynite Jul 2019 #33
One Of These Day One Of These Stories Will Be Different Me. Jul 2019 #35
There should be more 'eviscerates' IMO crazytown Jul 2019 #39
Those terms aren't limited to any one candidate. Go ahead and google... TCJ70 Jul 2019 #40
To "snipe" is to be petty. That language is exclusively held for women candidates. silentEcho Jul 2019 #50
Nope. TCJ70 Jul 2019 #53
I saw another post showing the term was used for Biden. Thanks for that. silentEcho Jul 2019 #55
Which everyone knows is bullshit of course wyldwolf Jul 2019 #54
No words quickesst Jul 2019 #42
I hadn't until now, but thanks for pointing out. NNadir Jul 2019 #43
She's also "angry" according to a Yahoo op-ed writer tishaLA Jul 2019 #44
Bernie Sanders's angry, unrealistic call for 'revolution' (Washington Post) Skya Rhen Jul 2019 #46
If anyone is willing to pretend that tishaLA Jul 2019 #56
Harris smiles all over the place. You are right. It is a absurd accusation toward Harris. silentEcho Jul 2019 #57
Yup... SidDithers Jul 2019 #48
I do notice this. Harris is being petty. The other in the field is merely being strong. silentEcho Jul 2019 #49
Yes I had noticed. It's not "interesting" it's sexist. Merlot Jul 2019 #51
I'm getting a kick out of folks scrambling to find any example of "snipe" or "attack" being used EffieBlack Jul 2019 #58
Coming soon: Shrill NastyRiffraff Jul 2019 #60
Just wait till people start calling her "hysterical" like they did Hillary in 2008 Kaleva Jul 2019 #62
That won't start unless she pulls ahead. Right now she's the talk of the town. nt ucrdem Jul 2019 #65
 

watoos

(7,142 posts)
1. Then I'm for Harris
Sat Jul 13, 2019, 08:33 PM
Jul 2019

I'm looking for the toughest candidate to take on Trump.

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lapucelle

(18,337 posts)
2. The more things change...
Sat Jul 13, 2019, 08:33 PM
Jul 2019

...the more they remain the same.

Media's gotta have its story line.

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StarfishSaver

(18,486 posts)
8. It's not just the media
Sat Jul 13, 2019, 08:40 PM
Jul 2019
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lapucelle

(18,337 posts)
16. Yes, I know.
Sat Jul 13, 2019, 08:58 PM
Jul 2019

I posted this a couple of months ago, and the reaction by some was...interesting.

https://www.democraticunderground.com/100212128959

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StarfishSaver

(18,486 posts)
18. Not unlike with the reaction to this OP
Sat Jul 13, 2019, 09:03 PM
Jul 2019
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mcar

(42,375 posts)
25. Ooh, I remember that one
Sat Jul 13, 2019, 09:31 PM
Jul 2019

Things got a wee bit, um, defensive, didn't they?

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lapucelle

(18,337 posts)
29. "You mean it's not unwanted if just the woman wants it ???!!!"
Sat Jul 13, 2019, 09:42 PM
Jul 2019

"What about girls who trick guys and to trap them?"

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PatrickforO

(14,592 posts)
38. Oh, man! LOL. Wow. Best advice to the men on that post?
Sat Jul 13, 2019, 10:45 PM
Jul 2019

Stop talking now.

Still chuckling.

By the way, the article by the Mormon lady in that OP - brilliant. She brings up some powerful points. It is good that has gone viral.

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lapucelle

(18,337 posts)
41. My daughter sent me the article. I didn't feel like reading it and was more than prepared
Sat Jul 13, 2019, 10:58 PM
Jul 2019

to find fault with it, but boy oh boy, that is one well crafted piece of writing.





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mr_lebowski

(33,643 posts)
3. In a more generic sense, Democrats always 'slam' if dealing with the GOP/Trump
Sat Jul 13, 2019, 08:33 PM
Jul 2019

It's the MSM code-word of choice, you see ...

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we can do it

(12,196 posts)
4. Yep more misogynistic bullshit.
Sat Jul 13, 2019, 08:33 PM
Jul 2019
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tulipsandroses

(5,127 posts)
5. YES!!!! - I've been meaning to make a thread about how these terms are being framed! Perfect!
Sat Jul 13, 2019, 08:35 PM
Jul 2019

Its all a part of the plan. I'm not falling for it. That's why I don't partake in certain threads. Similarly, Distraction Becky Conway talking about Cat Fights amongst Democratic women in Congress. Go somewhere with that foolishness.

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democratisphere

(17,235 posts)
6. Must have something to do with chemistry.
Sat Jul 13, 2019, 08:36 PM
Jul 2019

There doesn't seem to be any other explanation.

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RainCaster

(10,916 posts)
10. Men are 'aggressive', women are 'bitchy'
Sat Jul 13, 2019, 08:42 PM
Jul 2019

It's the way of our male superior culture.

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mcar

(42,375 posts)
26. And ambitious
Sat Jul 13, 2019, 09:33 PM
Jul 2019

which seems to be a bad thing among politicians with vaginas.

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DURHAM D

(32,611 posts)
11. Nope, just lady parts.
Sat Jul 13, 2019, 08:42 PM
Jul 2019

But you knew that.

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democratisphere

(17,235 posts)
12. I know noooooothing.
Sat Jul 13, 2019, 08:48 PM
Jul 2019

Pure conjecture.

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wyldwolf

(43,870 posts)
14. Apparently...
Sat Jul 13, 2019, 08:52 PM
Jul 2019

‘Snipes’ and ‘attacks’ is sexist but “chides’ and ‘knocks’ isn’t.

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Drunken Irishman

(34,857 posts)
13. Maybe? idk...
Sat Jul 13, 2019, 08:48 PM
Jul 2019
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wyldwolf

(43,870 posts)
17. Now you know you're not supposed to throw cold water on a good puritopian post.
Sat Jul 13, 2019, 09:00 PM
Jul 2019
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wyldwolf

(43,870 posts)
15. How about 'rips' and 'claps back?' Any issues with those?
Sat Jul 13, 2019, 08:56 PM
Jul 2019


Oh, this headline writer didn't get the message, apparently:

Donald Trump and Joe Biden snipe at each other during the pair's Iowa visits
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oldsoftie

(12,604 posts)
20. I HATE "claps back". UGH. Media trying to appear "cool"
Sat Jul 13, 2019, 09:07 PM
Jul 2019
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wyldwolf

(43,870 posts)
23. How about "smacks." It appears to be an equal opportunity offender
Sat Jul 13, 2019, 09:22 PM
Jul 2019

Trump Smacks Iran With New Sanctions vs. Warren Smacks Trump Back Over DNA Test

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oldsoftie

(12,604 posts)
45. And just today, we have an OP about Harris; "shuts down" Megan McCain.
Sun Jul 14, 2019, 07:55 AM
Jul 2019

And i see video clips with titles like "destroys", "eviscerates", "disembowels". And more often than not, its just a simple good comeback from someone.

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wyldwolf

(43,870 posts)
63. which isn't really a good thing for Harris. My border collie could shut down Megan McCain.
Sun Jul 14, 2019, 09:23 PM
Jul 2019
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Bradshaw3

(7,529 posts)
32. Ever notice how nail-in-the-coffin-of-a-thread responses like yours never get an answer from the OP
Sat Jul 13, 2019, 10:00 PM
Jul 2019

The presupposition of racism and/or sexism of the OP is totally shot down, but will we see that fact acknowledged? Doubt it.

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Hav

(5,969 posts)
47. The more worrying part is,
Sun Jul 14, 2019, 11:04 AM
Jul 2019

the unneeded outrage about a false insinuation and failed point continues in this thread despite providing evidence to the contrary repeatedly.
It's one thing to get worked up about something that is factually not true. But ludicrous claims like this make a mockery about the real and not made up problems that actually exist because of misogyny and racism.

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Cha

(297,692 posts)
34. And, you get CRICKETS from OP.
Sat Jul 13, 2019, 10:05 PM
Jul 2019

I hate "misogyny" as much as anyone.. I'm a Hillary supporter. but you've posted some headlines that point out there's equal "chiding" and "sniping".

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wyldwolf

(43,870 posts)
64. I shall use these words with a renew vigor now
Sun Jul 14, 2019, 09:24 PM
Jul 2019
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watoos

(7,142 posts)
22. I missed the whole point of the thread,
Sat Jul 13, 2019, 09:21 PM
Jul 2019

Now that I know what this thread is all about I can have a good laugh. Who cares what some anonymous person said about Harris?
Calling attention to something dumb gives it more credibility. Kamala is tough as nails and that’s why I like her. Harris chides, wtf does that mean, who cares? Harris attacks, good on her, I like that.

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ProfessionalLeft

(83 posts)
27. I Think Posters Have Misunderstood the Point the OP Was Making
Sat Jul 13, 2019, 09:33 PM
Jul 2019

I believe the OP was pointing out how a Black candidate's actions are characterized v. how White candidates' actions are characterized.

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wyldwolf

(43,870 posts)
30. but as you may have seen from other replies, the same words are used for male, female, black, white
Sat Jul 13, 2019, 09:46 PM
Jul 2019

The OP's point falls flat.

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EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
59. The fact that they're occasionally used to describe white men doesn't mean there's not an obvious
Sun Jul 14, 2019, 09:13 PM
Jul 2019

disparity in the way black females are described.

White men are sometimes called thugs and gentiles are sometimes accused of being greedy, but that doesn’t mean that black men being described as thugs and Jews being described as greedy isn’t often racist and antisemitic.

But your effort is noted.

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wyldwolf

(43,870 posts)
61. Occasionally? No, often, much more often
Sun Jul 14, 2019, 09:17 PM
Jul 2019

Do you want to do count of each instance? It would real easy for you to prove me wrong. Google it

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EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
66. Why are you getting yourself so worked up?
Sun Jul 14, 2019, 09:50 PM
Jul 2019

If you think the terms used to describe Harris aren’t problematic, fine. There are obviously plenty of people here who don’t agree with you. Why spend so much time and effort stomping
all around the thread badmouthing and/or challenging everyone who doesn’t agree with you?

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wyldwolf

(43,870 posts)
67. You know what's weird?
Sun Jul 14, 2019, 10:00 PM
Jul 2019

I was just thinking of the phrases people use in online discussions when they want to avoid directly answering a question.

One is avoiding the discussion by accusing someone of getting "worked up" or "angry," when in fact that person (me, in this instance) is chilling in his living room watching the Discovery channel. No stomping here.

Another is the classic argumentum ad populum - the belief a statement must be true because many or most people believe it. You just did it.

But the fact is, Google archives just about everything, and we can easily surmise which of these words has been used most for whom and by whom. It definitely renders the OP false.

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The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,858 posts)
28. I wish they wouldn't use loaded words like those when commenting about anybody.
Sat Jul 13, 2019, 09:34 PM
Jul 2019

Maybe "criticizes" is too long for a headline, but it would be a fair, neutral substitute for any of those other words.

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Timer

(71 posts)
36. Yes, I'd like a general de-emphasis of the word "attack."
Sat Jul 13, 2019, 10:24 PM
Jul 2019

Candidate A is critical of candidate B. The story is "A attacks B." I don't think all of this routine political back & forth should be framed in that way. No need to hype up this discourse into an image of people launching attacks at each other.

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left-of-center2012

(34,195 posts)
31. The perspective may depend on who is your candidate?
Sat Jul 13, 2019, 09:52 PM
Jul 2019
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Skittles

(153,193 posts)
37. seems like it depends whether it's a man or a woman
Sat Jul 13, 2019, 10:45 PM
Jul 2019
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brooklynite

(94,737 posts)
33. Just apply DU phrases: Bash, Smear, assassinate, hit job.....
Sat Jul 13, 2019, 10:03 PM
Jul 2019
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Me.

(35,454 posts)
35. One Of These Day One Of These Stories Will Be Different
Sat Jul 13, 2019, 10:16 PM
Jul 2019

the same ole, same ole where women are concerned. But listen, if she's up to 'attacking' that must make her pretty strong and unafraid...and isn't that just exactly what we want. Chides, knocks sound so tepid.

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crazytown

(7,277 posts)
39. There should be more 'eviscerates' IMO
Sat Jul 13, 2019, 10:47 PM
Jul 2019
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TCJ70

(4,387 posts)
40. Those terms aren't limited to any one candidate. Go ahead and google...
Sat Jul 13, 2019, 10:51 PM
Jul 2019

Sanders attacks, Biden attacks, etc and you’ll find results. Inslee seems to be exempt from “attack” (at least from a quick glance) but the point still stands.

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silentEcho

(424 posts)
50. To "snipe" is to be petty. That language is exclusively held for women candidates.
Sun Jul 14, 2019, 01:49 PM
Jul 2019
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silentEcho

(424 posts)
55. I saw another post showing the term was used for Biden. Thanks for that.
Sun Jul 14, 2019, 03:30 PM
Jul 2019
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wyldwolf

(43,870 posts)
54. Which everyone knows is bullshit of course
Sun Jul 14, 2019, 03:23 PM
Jul 2019
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quickesst

(6,283 posts)
42. No words
Sat Jul 13, 2019, 10:58 PM
Jul 2019

😐...............😅

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NNadir

(33,556 posts)
43. I hadn't until now, but thanks for pointing out.
Sat Jul 13, 2019, 11:01 PM
Jul 2019

As an old fat bald white guy who's embarrassed by the assumptions made about my demographic, I hope I will get to vote for a woman for President again.

Not all fat, old, bald guys are Trumpsters.

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tishaLA

(14,176 posts)
44. She's also "angry" according to a Yahoo op-ed writer
Sat Jul 13, 2019, 11:06 PM
Jul 2019

Meanwhile, a guy can say he'd take tRump out back and punch him and that's perfectly acceptable

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tishaLA

(14,176 posts)
56. If anyone is willing to pretend that
Sun Jul 14, 2019, 03:38 PM
Jul 2019

Sen Harris and the junior senator from VT are in any way similar in terms of anger, it's probably best to just ignore him or her.

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silentEcho

(424 posts)
57. Harris smiles all over the place. You are right. It is a absurd accusation toward Harris.
Sun Jul 14, 2019, 03:41 PM
Jul 2019
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SidDithers

(44,228 posts)
48. Yup...
Sun Jul 14, 2019, 11:58 AM
Jul 2019

there's a significant double standard between how male candidates and female candidates are portrayed.

Even here at DU.

Sid

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silentEcho

(424 posts)
49. I do notice this. Harris is being petty. The other in the field is merely being strong.
Sun Jul 14, 2019, 01:48 PM
Jul 2019

Or paternal. Where have we seen this in the past. Thank you.

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Merlot

(9,696 posts)
51. Yes I had noticed. It's not "interesting" it's sexist.
Sun Jul 14, 2019, 02:08 PM
Jul 2019
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EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
58. I'm getting a kick out of folks scrambling to find any example of "snipe" or "attack" being used
Sun Jul 14, 2019, 08:48 PM
Jul 2019

to describe a white male’s behavior and eagerly cutting and pasting them at you, as if that obviates your OP (well, not really AT you - since most of the discussions are being conducted about, not in direct response to the OP).

Because we all know that if you can just find an example of a white person being called lazy, a non-immigrant being called violent, or a man being called hysterical, that means that such terms being used to describe black people, immigrants and women can never be derogatory.

But at least you’re keeping them occupied ...

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Kaleva

(36,351 posts)
62. Just wait till people start calling her "hysterical" like they did Hillary in 2008
Sun Jul 14, 2019, 09:18 PM
Jul 2019

Archived threads make for interesting reading.

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ucrdem

(15,512 posts)
65. That won't start unless she pulls ahead. Right now she's the talk of the town. nt
Sun Jul 14, 2019, 09:33 PM
Jul 2019
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