Democratic Primaries
Related: About this forumThis is a great statement from Joe Biden
...a response to allegations of improper physical contact, which I would note, is the right tone and content for such a sensitive subject.
No lashing out at rival political groups and individuals, just taking responsibility as much as he feels he can.
Here it is:
Bill Russo @BillR
Statement from @JoeBiden this morning.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Chemisse
(30,811 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
hlthe2b
(102,263 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
defacto7
(13,485 posts)without falling into the tabloid trap.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
trueblue2007
(17,218 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
shanny
(6,709 posts)"I'm sorry if I acted inappropriately. I never intended to give offense."
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
SFnomad
(3,473 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
that's exactly what he did do: "I never believed I acted inappropriately..." As if his belief was what mattered, and somehow the woman/women who objected were at fault for misconstruing his actions.
Just apologize, Joe.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
SFnomad
(3,473 posts)And yes, both their beliefs do matter. His "I never believed I acted inappropriately.." isn't an apology, it's a rationalization.
The rest of the comment surrounding that is an apology ... not a strong direct one, but it is one. And it's not the "I'm sorry if you were offended" variety.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
SCVDem
(5,103 posts)Kiss them, grab them and still get elected?
Screw that bullshit!
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
qazplm135
(7,447 posts)a. don't believe I did what I am accused of
b. certainly don't remember events the way the other person says they happened
What's the appropriate way to respond?
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
it's because you don't like Biden that you see it your way. I don't see it your way.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
LakeArenal
(28,817 posts)He doesnt remember it that way. As do the event coordinators. Or me.
I repeat: anytime Biden, Obama, Al Franken, Pelosi, Hillary, RBG or any other icon at a huge celebratory rally, in front of cameras and other human beings wants to grab me for a hug or a kiss on the head, please do. It would be a thrill of a lifetime!!!!
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
shanny
(6,709 posts)or yours, for that matter. Lots of people do lots of things they don't consider inappropriate, but that in fact, are. In this case it is up to the women he does it to. Some are or would be fine with it, including many here. I for one wouldn't be, and it is not up to Biden, other pols, event coordinators or you to make that call on my behalf.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
LakeArenal
(28,817 posts)Stop. Thats what SHE should have done.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
shanny
(6,709 posts)Thing is, she's not the only one.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
LakeArenal
(28,817 posts)Then any other should have said stop.
Folks act like we have been Steppford wives until recently. In 197O I was told to speak up. Say stop. If women cant turn politely and tell anyone to stop... I dont get it. If there is some pressure and arguement then it becomes a problem.
Its not like Joe was going to keep up the..
What is it? ...harassment ? Abuse?
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
shanny
(6,709 posts)What's odd about that? Do you think--seriously--this is the first and only woman Biden did this to? Not likely. And it is not likely she is the only one who objected...and given the era, didn't say anything. That era is gone, imo. That patriarchial, patronizing attitude is passe. imo Biden is passe also, the product and embodiment of another, past era. It is one, but only one, of the reasons he will (would) not be my pick in the primaries. We need to move on.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
LakeArenal
(28,817 posts)Thats why I support him.
Thats not passé to me. Its common sense.
Passé as all of this, is in the eye of the beholder.
You make a lot of assertions about other incidents. Ms Flores, the she you are referring to? Ms Flores did nothing at the time.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
LakeArenal
(28,817 posts)Biden remains the most qualified both nationally and globally.
We arent going to eat our own.
Bernie Show your taxes.
Goodnight and get some rest.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Whoosh.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
whathehell
(29,067 posts)naturally back away.. It's not like he had her in a 'clutch' or bear hug, something she had to struggle against.
The quickest way to get someone "off your back", so to speak, is to turn around and face them.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
qazplm135
(7,447 posts)yeah I did that, but I don't think it was inappropriate.
But he's not said that, another person who is friends with both says there were plenty people around both at all times, and no one else says anything like she alleges.
An accusation is not iron clad evidence...PARTICULARLY when there are other people who are or can be witnesses.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
luvtheGWN
(1,336 posts)why she comes out with this allegation now? If it bothered her SO very much, why sit on it until now? This smacks of GOP underhandedness, just like they pulled off with Al Franken. She may say she's a Democrat, and maybe she was, but is there any guarantee that she hasn't been paid off/blackmailed by Repubs? It's happened before, folks, and it will surely happen again. The Repubs are scared of Biden's popularity. I've not doubt they have plans to take down (by smearing the reputation of) every single Democratic contender who tops (or nudges the top of) the polls.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
but this accusation vs biden invites comparison with the pussy grabber in chief, and may well backfire on them.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
shanny
(6,709 posts)It's not even "news", really. It is a pattern, a pattern from another time and back then it was probably considered harmless.
But this is another time. My 2 cents.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
shanny
(6,709 posts)that this was the one and only incident, ever, and the only person who ever objected.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
qazplm135
(7,447 posts)he's been a glad-handling politician...not a whole lot of people actually have objected.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
True Blue American
(17,984 posts)To feed what you think.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Cha
(297,206 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
True Blue American
(17,984 posts)With those who use their imaginations to feed what they want to think.
I just listened to a clip on Casey Hunts show where Flores went from holding her shoulder, planting a kiss on the back, top of her head to it being a wet, juicy kiss.
Then Casey asked her if she felt molested she said she never felt sexually molested.
Me thinks Flores 15 minutes are over.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Cha
(297,206 posts)she can in those 15 minutes. And, still no evidence other than her evolving story.
And, there is evidence of her trying to smear Hillary in 2017.. so I'm going with Vice President Biden's statements.
Link to tweet
Link to tweet
I know you saw this, TBA.. just posting the tweets for this thread, too.
Event organizer: Biden, accuser were never alone together
Yet at no time were these two leaders alone together and I, and the organization I cofounded and those in attendance, do not believe that circumstances support allegations that such an event took place, he added.
https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1287&pid=44281
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
True Blue American
(17,984 posts)Had in their scroll yesterday they had not verified the allegations yet they still had her on to tell her changing story.
The Democrats attacking Democrats is playing right into the hands of right wingers and the media.
Yet I am guilty,too because I do not like Bernie, have never liked him and do not believe he is a Democrat. Sorry, but that is how I feel. I refuse to lie.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Cha
(297,206 posts)And, BS needs to be vetted.. they all do. Just No RF smears like David Sirota has a history of making.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
True Blue American
(17,984 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
shanny
(6,709 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
defacto7
(13,485 posts)they desire because you want an innocent human response generally stopped? You perceive it in a way that's difficult for you, you see it as inappropriate, therefore others should be denied. I'm really sorry it's a difficult situation for you. I respect your personal feelings and space but there are a lot of other women out there who feel differently.
There are really important boundaries that must be protected. I think we should focus on those. This really isn't one of them.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Silver Gaia
(4,544 posts)THIS isn't one of them.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
shanny
(6,709 posts)but I am not calling for other people to do anything. I am just saying how I feel about how people should treat others, and what is appropriate.
Joe Biden is a good man, and lightyear's better than anyone on the other side of the aisle. But for me that is not enough, not a good enough reason to pick him over all the other good candidates on our side. The next generation will make mistakes too, but I hope they will be different ones.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
shanny
(6,709 posts)like I have some kind of superpower? others can respond to such overtures however they want. All I am saying is that the individual doling out the hugs and whispers and kisses ought to be Very Sure that they are welcome. That's it. Apparently Joe Biden is prepared to listen to such concerns so I don't see why so many here Just Don't Get It.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
Thekaspervote
(32,766 posts)Not to mention the GOPEEE will be all over that... Biden admits he... blah blah blah
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
bitterross
(4,066 posts)They will say, Joe admitted he acted inappropriately and must quit the race.
It's a no-win situation.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Politicub
(12,165 posts)He doesnt believe he acted inappropriately. And he used the statement to reinforce his work for women.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
shanny
(6,709 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
Cha
(297,206 posts)what the poster said.
The "weasel words" were your version of what Biden should have said.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
mcar
(42,325 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Silver Gaia
(4,544 posts)There is one word in his statement that keeps getting overlooked: "intention." Since when is someone's intention of no consideration? To me, intention is one of the most important factors. (Did Trump intend to grab pussies? Damn straight and proud of it. Did Biden intend his gesture in an uncaring way, as an assault, or in any way sexual? Hell no.)
I think his statement is excellent.
I come from a family of huggy, touchy people. As a woman, I'm sure I've probably touched people who came from physically undemonstrative backgrounds, both men and women, and maybe I made some of them feel uncomfortable, but there's no way I would know that unless they told me. I'm not a mind reader, unfortunately. Did I EVER mean any of that in a sexual way? Hell no. Neither did Biden, I'm sure. I don't think that's who he is (same with Franken). I could see my Dad having done something like this, meant in a fatherly, reassuring way - NOT in ANY way sexual.
If we take sexuality out of the equation (because, come on, ALL human touch is not sexual), then we are left with a disagreement between people who touch and like to be touched and those who don't touch and dislike it. In that case, intention fucking matters.
And for the record, I'd rather live in a world where warm, caring human touch is recognized and valued than a world devoid of human touch for fear of misinterpretation.
The "me too" movement is being abused here. It is being twisted for political purposes, and it is being harmed by things like this. I can support BOTH the "me too" movement and men like Biden and Franken. I DO. Men like Trump need to be in jail for assault. There's a huge difference. Intention matters.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Beartracks
(12,814 posts)Spot on. Couldna said it better.
Thank you.
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primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
highplainsdem
(48,975 posts)brilliant politician.
But I reserve the right to point out the glaring inconsistencies in the attack on him, as well as the apparent political motivations behind such attacks, because I do NOT want to see similar smears of other candidates.
One of the things I've found most maddening about this attempt to bring him down was his accusers -- starting with Flores in her initial essay/attack (something I hadn't noticed earlier because I was focused on the first part of her essay, about the incident she alleges) -- dragging in the long-debunked claim that his behavior with Stephanie Carter (while her husband, Defense Secretary Ash Carter, was speaking a few feet away), was inappropriate or creepy. Flores lied outright in saying Biden had nuzzled Stephanie Carter's neck. And in her essay, she called Biden "America's Creepy Uncle." And she did this not long after having complained about media scrutiny of misogynistic behavior in the Sanders campaign, and in her complaint suggested the media focus on other condidates.
This was a vicious attack intended to destroy Biden's political career at a time when he's leading Flores's favorite in the polls, and it should be evaluated as such, and responded to appropriately.
Biden was being gracious, and I'm glad of that.
But I don't think that means what Flores did here should be glossed over.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
still_one
(92,190 posts)says.
They accomplished their purpose, and have the headlines they want, and you can believe the republicans are loving this. It would not surprise me if they aren't planning through avenues such as project veratis, etc. to do whatever they can to keep this going, and that's fine, Biden can handle it.
For those who want Biden not to run because of this, it isn't going to happen. Joe is going run.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
cannabis_flower
(3,764 posts)but his statement is fine. I don't think he should withdraw over this. I think the whole "I was uncomfortable" idea needs to go away. So what? If you are uncomfortable with someone doing something that most people aren't uncomfortable with, then you have a problem, not the person you are accusing. I was uncomfortable with my grandma pinching my cheek, saying "you've grown so much" and hugging me. I got over it.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
still_one
(92,190 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
cannabis_flower
(3,764 posts)I have other reasons for not voting for him in the primary, but this isn't one of them.
In the general election, any of them will have my vote.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
still_one
(92,190 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
tymorial
(3,433 posts)This can have a positive outcome for everyone, male and female. It is not uncommon to find ourselves engaging in routine behavior which we believe is friendly, benign, harmless etc without considering how others may respond. God knows I have been made uncomfortable by overly touchy men and women. And God knows I have been called out for my own actions. I recall an incident where I gestured to a coworker by pointing. She was in the hallway and seeing her reminded me that I had something to discuss with her regarding an employee. I pointed at her while saying something like "oh hey Michelle, I am glad I caught you" she called me out for pointing and told me that it was offensive. I certainly didnt mean to offend and I of course apologized while internally feeling quite defensive and embarrassed. In hindsight she was right to ask that I not point at her. I gesture often with my hands because that is just how my family communicates. Just because I have always done this is not an excuse to continue. So, I dont point anymore.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
highplainsdem
(48,975 posts)small audience.
Your coworker didn't wait years and then use a national publication to not only criticize you for that incident but bring up other criticisms of you, criticisms used by your enemies in the past and debunked. And she didn't publish such an attack on you at a crucial time in your career, when she wanted a job you were after to go to someone she preferred.
That's the difference.
Flores could and should have handled this much better, if she had minded Biden's actions at that event.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
tymorial
(3,433 posts)In the end he still engaged in this behavior which based upon Flores, made her uncomfortable. Also, I think it important to consider the relationship here. It is not easy to address issues like this personally when one is politically and socially lower than the offender. This really shouldnt matter and we should feel no fear in addressing these problems directly with those involved but that isnt the reality. Fear keeps people silent and I think expecting Flores to overcome her shock and embarrassment and then recover to challenge Biden immediately or even privately later is a bit of a stretch.
As for my own experience, my coworker was the head of another department and higher in the organization. There was no fear what so ever not to mention she was at least 10 to 15 years my senior.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
qazplm135
(7,447 posts)those who support him will love it, those who don't will not accept it, those who don't care either way, won't care either way.
Once the accusation was made, everyone retreated to their camps.
I'm voting for a woman in the Primary. No men, not anymore.
But I am not happy to see the way fans of one man seems to be going after the top men in various ways whether it is Biden or Beto (and the top woman in Harris).
I'm not seeing a lot of friendly fire from the other camps towards each other. A tiny bit, but most of the shots fired sure seem to be coming from Sanders' supporters.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
tymorial
(3,433 posts)It may come across as ageist but I have reservations about voting for any candidate that may become an octogenarian in office. Age increases the possibility of illness which may inhibit a person's ability to exercise his or her oath of office. While illness can strike anyone regardless of age, statistics are not in favor of Biden and/or Sanders. I recognize that will antagonize their supporters but so be it. I believe they can contribute to our country and I do not align with those who automatically shun "old white men" for society's problems but the presidency is not where I feel they are best suited. This country needs stable leadership.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
qazplm135
(7,447 posts)then of course any Dem and Bernie are better than Trump by a mile.
But in the primary? Fucking embarrassing that we haven't elected a female President yet.
It's a sexist stain on this country.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
tymorial
(3,433 posts)I will go for any Democrat in the general
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
UniteFightBack
(8,231 posts)Joe, hugging, kissing Heidi in the same damn way...all on camera. Oh an he whispered in her ear as well and she answered back.
This whole thing is a fucking TRAVESTY to real claims. Sorry but we are not treating every 'infraction' the same.
And I'm sorry but if you are being touched and you don't like it then you need to say something. I don't care if you are uncomfortable saying something because you also claim you are uncomfortable with being touched....so pick your poison.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
McKim
(2,412 posts)This is Bidens statement. Accept it and dont feed this issue when the Repugs want to push it through the echo chamber. It is just another attack on a Democratic Party Candidate! Say: He has addressed this issue END OF STORY!
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
AlexSFCA
(6,137 posts)of the entire me2 movement. And yes Joe hugs guys too. The question is, did she overcome stage fright that night? yes, she did thanks to Joe.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
SHRED
(28,136 posts)Rather than attack Joe publicly she could have contacted him directly after it happened and expressed how inappropriate it was.
If she felt worse than this she could have filed in court.
This public display is suspicious. It accomplishes nothing to go public other than to tarnish Biden which appears to be the goal.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
Autumn
(45,080 posts)only the best intentions and meant no harm. It's a shame she didn't. I don't see it as suspicious I think it was probably a hard thing to come out with, these things are difficult for a lot of women to discuss.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
SHRED
(28,136 posts)I've been sexually assaulted as a male by another male.
Fortunately it didn't go very far.
But yeah...it's difficult.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
Jarqui
(10,124 posts)the media mud before she tried to sort it out with him first
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
we can do it
(12,184 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
True Blue American
(17,984 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Crash2Parties
(6,017 posts)I fear that by trying to address the issue without doing so too directly (which might come across as guilt), Biden instead reveals the crux of the problem by using the somewhat vague weasel words, "intended" and "inappropriate" instead of directly naming the actions he's accused of and refuting them.
I've worked for men who sexually harass. They really do feel that for them, it is "appropriate" for them to take what they feel is owed them (ie women's bodies). That's the crux of why (in this case, male) privilege is evil. There's a similar argument for whether they "intended" to do anything wrong. Of course they didn't - it was simply their due.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
Pisces
(5,599 posts)Campaigns on all the Dem candidates are in full force and we are falling for the bullshit
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
LakeArenal
(28,817 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
we can do it
(12,184 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
qazplm135
(7,447 posts)is not a sexually harassment.
It. Is. Not.
not definitionally and not via common sense.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
WhiskeyGrinder
(22,337 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
LakeArenal
(28,817 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
WhiskeyGrinder
(22,337 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
stonecutter357
(12,697 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
highplainsdem
(48,975 posts)She mentioned the unwashed hair twice in her essay attacking Biden and starting this mess, so she was obviously uncomfotable about it, and obviously wondering if Biden could have smelled that her hair wasn't clean, since she assumed he was "inhaling" her hair.
I'm concluding that she had stage fright because she mentions taking deep breaths to prepare herself to go onstage, which is something people do to counter stage fright. I'm guessing Biden would have noticed her suddenly taking deep breathhs and would have attributed that to either stage fright, which would have been bad enough, or possibly hyperventilating before a panic attack.
So he responded quickly in a way meant to be reassuring. (Putting his hands on her shoulders, and possibly kissing the top of her head, though after heaing about how many people were backstage and considering how noisy it would likely have been with audience noise as well, I'm guessing now that he could have whispered some reassurance she didn't hear because she was very self-conscious about her hair.)
It's a shame his attempt to reassure her apparently backfired, and now she's weaponized it.
But she was edgy and uncomfortable before he laid a reassuring hand on her shoulder. And we know that from her own account of what she claims happened.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
WhiskeyGrinder
(22,337 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
highplainsdem
(48,975 posts)it.
Which IMO is what she's done.
If I were acting as if I had stage fright and someone more experienced going onstage tried to reassure me, whether with hands on my shoulders or something they said, and I felt more uncomfortable as a result, IMO that would be MY problem and not theirs.
I honestly think the main reason Flores was uncomfortable was that she was embarrassed about her unwashed hair. It might seem like a paltry detail, but it's telling that she brought it up. It bothered her that possibly Biden might have noticed that she hadn't washed her hair.
I doubt he did. But she was self-conscious, and her embarrassment turned to resentment.
And you know what? If she'd told Biden he was making her uncomfortable, he would have apologized then.
If she'd told him she was self-conscious about his face being that close to her hair because she hadn't found time to wash it, he'd have reassured her that her hair looked lovely and smelled fine.
But instead she locked in resentment...well, some level of resentment. I have to mention again that there's no sign in any of the photos taken onstage minutes later that she wasn't delighted to have him there.
And now she's rolling this accusation out, and dragging in debunked GOP smears, to try to destroy his presidential run before it begins.
If she just wanted an apology, she could have asked him for that in private, either when this happened or any time since.
She doesn't want an apology. She wants to destroy his political career.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Loki Liesmith
(4,602 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
True Blue American
(17,984 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Cha
(297,206 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
True Blue American
(17,984 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
LuvNewcastle
(16,845 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Loki Liesmith
(4,602 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Guilded Lilly
(5,591 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
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Guilded Lilly
(5,591 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
True Blue American
(17,984 posts)Are not upset with a minor touch? They know the difference.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
vlyons
(10,252 posts)Joe is not a creep.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
aeromanKC
(3,322 posts)Trump's braggadocios statement, I just grab em by the pussy, I can't help myself and they let you do it, not so much.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
WeekiWater
(3,259 posts)But really has to pay attention to possible political ramifications. He does have strong women around him. He is also aware of the problem being discussed. They made it clear to him, Im sure. Outside of the lack of self recognition, which I wouldnt expect at this point, its a good statement.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
sellitman
(11,606 posts)What a great response!
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
riversedge
(70,214 posts)But I see the oP is already here.
https://www.democraticunderground.com/100211974316
Sun Mar 31, 2019, 12:01 PM
riversedge (48,756 posts)
Statement from @JoeBiden this morning. March 31
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Joe Biden Offered 'Expressions Of Affection' But Denies Inappropriate Behavior
https://www.npr.org/2019/03/31/708537421/joe-biden-offered-expressions-of-affection-but-denies-inappropriate-behavior
March 31, 201912:11 PM ET
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Former Vice President Joe Biden on Sunday responded to allegations that he acted inappropriately when he kissed the back of a former Nevada Democratic assemblywoman's head at a campaign event in 2014, saying his behavior has been affectionate but never unseemly.
"In many years on the campaign trail and in public life, I have offered countless handshakes, hugs, expressions of affection, support and comfort. And not once never did I believe I acted inappropriately. If it is suggested I did so, I will listen respectfully," Biden said in a statement released by his spokesman on Twitter.
Statement from @JoeBiden this morning.
8:03 AM - Mar 31, 2019
Link to tweet
.................Biden's remarks come two days after Lucy Flores, who was running for lieutenant governor at the time of the alleged incident, published an essay about the encounter in New York magazine, and hours before she was set to make several interview appearances on Sunday.
"I may not recall these moments the same way, and I may be surprised at what I hear," Biden said. "But we have arrived at an important time when women feel they can and should relate their experiences, and men should pay attention. And I will."
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"I will fight to build on the work I've done in my career to end violence against women and ensure women are treated with the equality they deserve," Biden said.
"I will continue to surround myself with trusted women advisers who challenge me to see different perspectives than my own. And I will continue to speak out on these vitally-important issues where there is much more progress to be made and crucial fights that must be waged and won."
The statement is the first direct response from Biden to the accusations. Earlier statements came from Russo, who previously said Biden had no memory of the alleged kiss and was unaware that he had made Flores feel uncomfortable. .............................
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
DallasNE
(7,403 posts)Messages sent and messages received - especially tricky when it involves expressions of affection that can easily be misinterpreted. Joe did not use good judgement but neither is it akin to copping a feel and worse things men sometimes do. His "and I will" statement clears it up for me.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
JGug1
(320 posts)FINE. AND, I acknowledge that we live in strange times when a serial grabber, a man who clearly spent money with prostitutes....cheated on every wife he has had, bragged about grabbing women by their crotches......that guy was elected.
Nevertheless, there is a lot more about Biden to not like, though he has evolved. I think he has a great opportunity TO NOT RUN.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
rgbecker
(4,831 posts)Franken:
"Ive met tens of thousands of people and taken thousands of photographs, often in crowded and chaotic situations. Im a warm person; I hug people. Ive learned from recent stories that in some of those encounters, I crossed a line for some women and I know that any number is too many.
Some women have found my greetings or embraces for a hug or photo inappropriate, and I respect their feelings about that. Ive thought a lot in recent days about how that could happen, and recognize that I need to be much more careful and sensitive in these situations. I feel terribly that Ive made some women feel badly and for that I am so sorry, and I want to make sure that never happens again.
And let me say again to Minnesotans that Im sorry for putting them through this and Im committed to regaining their trust."
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
LiberalLovinLug
(14,173 posts)Where is Gillibrand? Where is her standards? Why is she not calling for Joe's head on a platter? After all, Al squeezed waists! made a rude gesture once! Surely this reaches that same level! Where is her demand that Joe be thrown out of the party without even an ethics review? .....Oh right, because it wouldn't do her any good. Its one thing to take down a more junior Senator like Franken, but she'd never attempt something like that against Joe or she'd be crucified.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
LakeArenal
(28,817 posts)All have doubled down on this. But, yes, Gillibrand has tripled down numerous times. And of course they, won't bash Joe like Al. Now it's too politically obvious. Do it once shame on you, do it twice, shame on Democrats that eat their own.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
LiberalLovinLug
(14,173 posts)Way too much knee jerk reaction. It was not well thought out. No one wanted to be left off the train. But it happens too often.
If you boil it down, Democrats strategy is to make sure to bend over backwards, snuffing out all hints of impropriety, and the lint off of the hints as well. In doing so they box themeselves into corners of their own making. Stumbling over each other to be the first on the dog pile. Their assumption is that its better to be overly cautious and PC just to cover every and all bases, even if that means there are times they may overreach. That is the price they are willing to pay. Trouble is, the Rethugs see that as a way to take advantage.
Republicans strategy, maybe its just dumb luck (literally), is to go full hog, both barrells blazing with their own alternate facts, and accusations. It makes no difference if later some or all of it is "proven" wrong by the few Fake News channels like CNN. THEY know it is all made up deep state propaganda anyways. And that Democrats have done the same thing only WORSE!. Their assumption is its better to be overly chaotic and recklessly accusatory of unproven charges against Democrats, and when, the next day the MSM and Democrats are reeling from those charges and on the defensive, Trump is busy tweeting out the latest outrage that will keep them busy in denial the next few days once they've finished with the latest. On and on. Creating a toxic atmosphere so that no one believes anyone.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
LakeArenal
(28,817 posts)But if we stay confident in our candidates and not let others crap on any of the candidates. We win.
Stop eating our own people.
I dont support Harris, Gilli and Booker because of Franken.
But Ill be damned before I think the crap
Ive heard about Harris (Im not repeating here) is anymore than crap.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
True Blue American
(17,984 posts)And, much as I admire Brown we had a few email exchanges about it. At least he answers, but I was unhappy with him for joining in.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
sandensea
(21,634 posts)Let me guess: The claims came from anonymous sources, and the story has Republican links .
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
DirtEdonE
(1,220 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
Renew Deal
(81,858 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
highplainsdem
(48,975 posts)Biden.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
jalan48
(13,864 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
ohtransplant
(1,488 posts)and addresses all the appropriate points. I'm not a J.R.B. supporter at this point and am undecided.
A few thoughts for context;
- We can't continue to eat our own at every accusation made. If and/or when these accusations are supported in any way, that could be different.
- Throughout the primaries we must remember our common goal if there is any hope of winning in 2020. The stakes are so high I can't exaggerate the importance of focusing on the end game.
- Joe maintains his respect for for women, their rights and surrounds himself with female advisers to challenge his perspectives. I respect that.
- No candidate will be faultless to everyone in every way. (That does not mean I minimize this accusation in any way.)
- I support our Dem candidates being on offense and not continually playing defense against the GOP inspired PR machine.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
onecent
(6,096 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Frustratedlady
(16,254 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
underpants
(182,800 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
samnsara
(17,622 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
NBachers
(17,108 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
cilla4progress
(24,731 posts)I've been violated and I've forgiven. I can see that there are different ways of being and an evolutionary arc. I've evolved and hopefully still am.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
zentrum
(9,865 posts)....how he treated Anita Hill.
I think it's naive to assume those videos of the Anita Hill hearings won't be replayed and used against him during all phases of the election. He was really demeaning towards her.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
LibDemAlways
(15,139 posts)Joe getting handsy with young girls at Congressional swearing in ceremonies will receive heavy airplay as well, with the girls' faces pixillated out of privacy concerns. The R's will do everything in their power to take him down, even if the gestures were entirely innocent and he meant nothing by them. It's the public perception that counts.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
YOHABLO
(7,358 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
napi21
(45,806 posts)through the eras of first time approval of "the Pill, Roe v Wade, women finally accepted in many positions they never were, etc. Especially public awareness of inappropriate advances on them. All of the advancements were wonderful. However, when we as women view a hand on your shoulder, or a kiss on the back of the head, I think we are reducing the importance of real crimes of sexual harassment. Far too many innocent acts are being called harassment, and soon none are going to taken seriously.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
True Blue American
(17,984 posts)I feel the same way. It has gone much too far and does great harm to those who have really been molested!
I, too have gone through it all. I knew from a very early age to know what was right and wrong because my Mother sat me down and made me listen. I was bored but the words stuck.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Texin
(2,596 posts)between the sexes. I worked for an international corporation that had wild Christmas parties - at midday with booze flowing freely and behaviors that included the professional men playing Santa Clause and having the female employees sitting on their laps like children at Macy's telling Santa what they wanted under the Christmas tree. By the twenty first century, this was unheard of.
I think the notion that every behavior that "violates" personal space is not always an implicit act of sexuality. Women (and men too) should be taught from an early age the difference between the behaviors. For goodness sake, when a person can no longer hug a colleague, pat them on the back or put their hand on someone's shoulder is out of bounds and is as cold as the grave.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
democratisphere
(17,235 posts)Now let's get back to the tasks of being elected POTUS.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
True Blue American
(17,984 posts)In answer to a question that she never felt sexually assaulted. Before that he story went from, touching her shoulder and kissing the back, top of her head to it being a long, juicy kiss.
Decide for yourself.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
louis c
(8,652 posts)enough said.
There are too many (not all, mind you) of BS supporters that don't give 2 shits about the Democratic Party or whether Trump gets re-elected or not.
I believe Flores, but the action itself is not the same as harassment or assault. And, please excuse me if I think the timing is a bit suspect.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
LongtimeAZDem
(4,494 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
louis c
(8,652 posts)...her heart's still with the "tear down the Democratic Party if we don't get everything we want" group.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
LongtimeAZDem
(4,494 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
MrModerate
(9,753 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
Texin
(2,596 posts)Why was there no accuser stepping forth during all this time - UNTIL NOW?
This reeks of yet another organized hit job on a prominent Democratic man who is a viable contender for the nomination and a more than possible candidate who may have had the best shot at defeating Shitler. The tRump camp have already made comments to the effect that they believe Biden is their most dangerous threat. When Franken was getting so much traction in those early investigatory hearings, that's when they decided to silence him and Gillibrand was the first pol to jump on him and take him out, even after he had asked that the Senate open an investigation into the allegation(s). That should have been allowed to take place. As a woman who has had her fair share of inappropriate behaviors visited on me throughout the years, I was never in a situation in which I couldn't back away, step aside or make it known that I wasn't welcoming the physical attention and my actions made the activites cease. I didn't have to take to a press conference to address the problem.
The more dangerous tRump perceives a challenger to be, they more his automatons go into action to take them out - one lie, one hit job after another, and the Dems all begin to pile on and devour the accused. It's a defeatist strategy. They will continue to thin the herd until the most vulnerable contender for the nomination is the only one standing, and they will yet again be defeated by tRump in 2020. Bet on it.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Otto Lidenbrock
(581 posts)So why not take it up with the Vice President at the time? Or relay it to a member of his staff. Joe had a female chief of staff for a while.
She is the only person with the right to deem it sexual harassment. She explicitly said it is not. Inappropriate conduct can be addressed but the timing and the manner of the story show it is a hit job knowing Joe is close to announcing his campaign.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Scurrilous
(38,687 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Gothmog
(145,225 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden