Democratic Primaries
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Guys, I feel this Biden situation needs to be seen as a cautionary tale, because what I see is that one side is taking advantage of some cultural shifts while the other is, without realizing, getting lost in them.
It is great that we are empowering people to speak up about misbehavior from powerful people in the past, and that some people are getting prosecuted for past criminal behavior that was swept under the rug. However, we need to be careful with being overzealous with all of this, or of confusing some social awkwardness from some individuals with potentially predatory behavior.
The other side has taken a position that resonates with many when it comes to these issues: People make mistakes in the past, we care about the present and the future. Of course, they say that because they support criminals and abusers like the Grifter-In-Chief, but take a moment to think about how the narrative is powerful. Most people have done stupid shit in the past, many times unintentionally. While we are desperately looking for any minor flaw in our candidates and ready to flog them in the public square, the GOP gives Donald Trump a chance, and the bastard is giving his constituents what they want- as bad as those things are.
So, let's be careful here. We expect the best from our candidates, but we know they are human, and we have to be willing to evaluate them for the good they have done and the good they can do, not only for a past mistake or two, in particular, if the mistake is minor and can be corrected with an apology and with being more careful.
Our field has excellent people in it, flawed like you and me, but great people anyway- let's not lose perspective here!
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,683 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
NurseJackie
(42,862 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,683 posts)1. Biden has issued a credible and sympathetic statement. I don't know if it will get him off the hook by itself, but he handled it well.
2. A lot of people remember what happened to Franken and have not forgiven Gillibrand for it (that's a whole 'nother discussion), and therefore might be less likely to bring out the torches and pitchforks this time.
3. The alleged touchee might be said to have an agenda of her own (not unlike LeeAnn Tweeden), since she is flogging this story all over the media.
4. One of the other candidates will soon be discovered to have a flaw and we'll run screeching at them, thereby taking the heat off Biden.
Unfortunately we can't seem to help eating our own, ably assisted by people with other agendas.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
NurseJackie
(42,862 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
treestar
(82,383 posts)is talking about women's empowerment, etc., and using that for non-sexual touching as a thing. The right just scorns that we are neurotic snowflakes.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
IluvPitties
(3,181 posts)because some in our side are weaponizing the thing.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
hlthe2b
(102,236 posts)(not the OP but the reporting of the Biden accusations). While I don't accuse anyone of less-than-benign and sincere motives, it was starting to leave me questioning what was going on.
We take the accusations seriously, but that does not mean allowing ourselves to be manipulated. I will never forgive what was done to Al Franken and we need to stop being so damned naive' as to what may be behind some portion of this kind of attacks.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
UniteFightBack
(8,231 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
vlyons
(10,252 posts)I ain't falling for it. Even tho' I'm not going to vote for Biden, I have been defending him. Flores should have said in 2016, AT THE TIME IT HAPPENED, rather than waiting 3 years to complain. I think that she has shown really poor judgement. Biden's response to her is spot-on. Rather than blowing it up into a "scandal," we should ba talking about healthcare, raising taxes on the rich, raising the minimum wage, clean energy, the new green deal, cutting the military budget, prosecuting tax cheats, and so much more.
https://www.thecut.com/2019/03/joe-biden-issues-statement-in-response-to-lucy-flores.html
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
dalton99a
(81,475 posts)It's a GOP specialty
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
marylandblue
(12,344 posts)If you put that attack in Trump's mouth and think that Biden can respond in a way that won't make it an obsessive media issue for months, then vote for him. If you think he can't do that, vote for someone else.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
MustLoveBeagles
(11,599 posts)Perfect candidates are like unicorns; they don't exist.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Guilded Lilly
(5,591 posts)and will use it relentlessly, that is a given.
They can, however, count on the Lefts higher values and tendency to destroy their own to also aid them tremendously. Yeah.
Big threat.
The decency and integrity of the Democrats to hold their own to higher standards has always been tricky. While we can be rightly proud of walking higher roads, we have to be vigilant of some less than stellar motivations of our own to create personally advantageous potholes.
Nature of the beast and all that, this primary appears to be fraught with some seriously potent bumps already.
Obliterate Republicans. Destroy The Cretin. Own the House AND Senate.
Our bottom line mantras.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
LovingA2andMI
(7,006 posts)Keep attempting to hold up the "Moral High Ground" like Rafiki did Samba in the Lion King....WE WILL LOSE PERIOD. If we are not willing to get in the mud with the other side that face deep in the mud WE WILL LOSE.
Stop with the Perfect Candidate BS. There is no PERFECT CANDIDATE. Find one you can live with and vote for - and do that. Morally flaws what they might be and all -- and defend the hell out of them, until you do vote for them and they WIN.
Plain and Simple!
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
mn9driver
(4,425 posts)And they are very, very good at getting Democrats to do it. That is all.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden