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goclark

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24. My experience was the same ~ we drove all the way to CA
Tue Aug 7, 2012, 10:55 PM
Aug 2012

Last edited Tue Aug 7, 2012, 11:26 PM - Edit history (1)

in the 1950's. My precious Blue Eyed grandfather drove " Little Brown" me and my " light skinned" Mom from MD to PA to pick up my " Little Brown" grandmother. He drove us all the way to California.

We looked like a box of crayons.

My Little Brown grandmother had a heart condition and got sick in Missouri , it was so hot and no air condition .
Her heart medication would not work.

Because we were Negro, every place we pulled into, there was " "No Room at the Inn" for "Little Brown Me" and my Sweet "Little Brown grandmother." I was so afraid because I was in the back seat with grandma and trying to keep her cool with a wet towel.

Grand Dad was getting so upset and then he saw a tiny run down motel and he tried once again.

The owner came and looked in the car and spotted us in the back. With mean little eyes, he asked my grandfather " Who are those two ?"

My wonderful grandfather had to tell a lie.... "That is My Maid and that is her little girl."

The mean little man still seemed suspicious but said " OK, you and your daughter can have Room 4 and the two in the back can have that shack in the back."

My grandfather had tears in his eyes as we took grandma to the shack, she called me her " Little Nurse" as I tenderly gave her the medicine and wiped her face to keep her cool.

When we pulled off the next morning Grandfather drove as fast as he could and after many days we finally got to California!

I still have old photos of ny precious granddad stopping and taking pictures and pointing out the beauty of each state.

Unlike RMoney, he let us have potty breaks and rest breaks and the experience of a lifetime.

I still cry Happy Tears When I Recall That Trip.








My father was a union guy, he wouldn't stop the car for us boys...if needed we had to pee in a jar. HereSince1628 Aug 2012 #1
Typical control-freak asshole. bullwinkle428 Aug 2012 #2
Mittwit is as you discribed goclark Aug 2012 #13
+1 redqueen Aug 2012 #16
My parents were smart about these issues dballance Aug 2012 #3
Yah...sounds like a lot of dads. MineralMan Aug 2012 #4
My dad would also go into "mission mode" when we were on vacation. Javaman Aug 2012 #6
LOL. If we didn't get started by 5:30 a.m. dad would say the day was shot. catbyte Aug 2012 #7
Honestly, what was it with dad's and starting vacations at Javaman Aug 2012 #8
LOL-yes, I remember the anxiety to get on the road pre-dawn, us kids standing half-asleep TwilightGardener Aug 2012 #11
My dad was like Stalin when driving to our vacation spot... Javaman Aug 2012 #14
It's envy. My husband can shut his body down like a machine and sleep wherever he is, no matter TwilightGardener Aug 2012 #17
A beautiful evocation of what I hope are some at least coalition_unwilling Aug 2012 #10
After I was an adult, I made that same MineralMan Aug 2012 #19
If ours were to see my grandparents, I could completely understand... Javaman Aug 2012 #21
I've often said I was going to do the same thing laundry_queen Aug 2012 #32
Robots don't understand bladders KurtNYC Aug 2012 #5
My Thought Exactly! canEHdian Aug 2012 #12
perhaps they could tell Mittbot that we piss to "avoid rust" KurtNYC Aug 2012 #15
Authoritarian Dad Octafish Aug 2012 #9
The people around Romney must constantly be in the mood to relieve themselves aint_no_life_nowhere Aug 2012 #18
My Dad wasn't a scumbag RandiFan1290 Aug 2012 #20
The dog was left in a kennel unless we were moving Warpy Aug 2012 #27
Did they wear diapers? ecstatic Aug 2012 #22
Geez... LadyHawkAZ Aug 2012 #23
My experience was the same ~ we drove all the way to CA goclark Aug 2012 #24
I'm glad your grandfather was able to still make the trip a wonderful one. LadyHawkAZ Aug 2012 #25
Thanks! He was extra special goclark Aug 2012 #30
I worked as a hotel maid when I was 17 LadyHawkAZ Aug 2012 #33
Fortunately for Mitt, dogs and children don't vote. 99th_Monkey Aug 2012 #26
Dang, I thought all dads said "use the coke bottle," at least on guy-trips. JohnnyLib2 Aug 2012 #28
My Dad would stop to buy ice cream Rosa Luxemburg Aug 2012 #29
I've certainly been there RZM Aug 2012 #31
My father wouldn't drive with us. He'd stick my mother with four kids cali Aug 2012 #34
Thanks for sharing goclark Aug 2012 #35
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