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Coventina

(27,120 posts)
Tue Sep 4, 2018, 08:30 PM Sep 2018

So, my friend with lymphoma died. I've posted about him here a few times. [View all]

Most recently about his pain, which I felt was being inadequately addressed.

Right now, I guess I'm in the "anger" stage of grief.

I really think his death was accelerated by the crappy care he was getting.

He was bounced around from one crappy facility to another because Medicare doesn't cover a place to live if you are gravely ill and can't live at home.

I'm sick and fucking tired of those on the right who say we have the best medical care in the world.

It isn't fucking true unless you have MONEY and LOTS OF IT!

For 99% of us, we are one serious illness from living my friend's final days in a dismal, stinking, "care" facility where the call button is a joke and you can writhe in agony for hours with no relief.

I hate those who oppose socialized medicine with the heat of a million suns.

RIP, my friend.
I am glad that at least you are now pain free.

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I'm sorry about your friend. onecaliberal Sep 2018 #1
I'm so sorry blur256 Sep 2018 #2
I am so sorry iamateacher Sep 2018 #3
The goal of the GOP is to kill and bankrupt us. BigmanPigman Sep 2018 #4
I amsorry your friend has passed away irisblue Sep 2018 #5
It is so hard to lose a friend. sheshe2 Sep 2018 #6
I am so sorry UpInArms Sep 2018 #7
Can only imagine the sorrow you must feel... may you find peace. InAbLuEsTaTe Sep 2018 #8
I'm sorry about your friend. madaboutharry Sep 2018 #9
Very sorry for the loss of your friend! Different Drummer Sep 2018 #10
That's tough. I'm sorry you lost a friend. LisaM Sep 2018 #11
So,so,so,so, sorry....... a kennedy Sep 2018 #12
So very very sorry... May they be at peace and you as well. hlthe2b Sep 2018 #13
I am so sorry for the loss of your friend. FM123 Sep 2018 #14
I'm so sorry for the loss of your friend. I'm sorry he was livetohike Sep 2018 #15
Take care Coventina RIP now friend lunasun Sep 2018 #16
Remember ur anger.. sympathy yes but anger also dembotoz Sep 2018 #17
I'm so sorry you lost a friend, Coventina. ProudLib72 Sep 2018 #18
So RIP and sad for you and your friend. nt PufPuf23 Sep 2018 #19
So sorry. mobeau69 Sep 2018 #20
Sorry for your loss, and angry, too, about our medical system. ancianita Sep 2018 #21
sorry for your loss KT2000 Sep 2018 #22
:-(. My condolences on your loss. CentralMass Sep 2018 #23
Sorry about your loss ! RIP your friend. MyNameIsKhan Sep 2018 #24
I'm so sorry for your loss. defacto7 Sep 2018 #25
My condolences. And our systems do NOT work. nt spooky3 Sep 2018 #26
godspeed... samnsara Sep 2018 #27
I'm so sorry ... CaptainTruth Sep 2018 #28
Oh, I Am So Sorry :( DarthDem Sep 2018 #29
My condolences, Coventina True Dough Sep 2018 #30
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your friend Coventina. smirkymonkey Sep 2018 #31
My heartfelt sympathy to you for the loss of your friend. pazzyanne Sep 2018 #32
I'm sorry for your loss. samir.g Sep 2018 #33
I'm so sorry for your loss. area51 Sep 2018 #34
Peace Donkees Sep 2018 #35
I'm so sorry Coventina. And I am angry too. Neema Sep 2018 #36
Condolences Amemenhab Sep 2018 #37
i'm so sorry ProfessorPlum Sep 2018 #38
I'm so sorry. Rainngirl Sep 2018 #39
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