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In reply to the discussion: If Northam admitted on Friday to raping a woman 35 years ago, would you insist he not step down [View all]peacefrogman
(76 posts)62. You might want to reflect yourself why so many are giving you this "knee jerk" reaction.
And then maybe listen to those that have experienced assault having an issue with your comparison and that is what it is, instead of dismissing their own experience. Listening works all the way around. Just as I am doing a lot of listening with the AA community.
For me personally, having the nick name he did and others calling him the nickname thru out teenage years, in the deep south, says something to me about who he was. I can only imagine the skit the black face and KKK were performing while in costume and nothing but a horrid image comes to mind.
I think the black community has, in unity, expressed their opinion and demand. The Democratic Party has been pretty consistent. It works for me.
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If Northam admitted on Friday to raping a woman 35 years ago, would you insist he not step down [View all]
Empowerer
Feb 2019
OP
What if this was a spousal rape that wasn't a crime in Virginia at the time?
EffieBlack
Feb 2019
#25
I think the difference is that, although you can see yourself doing the same thing, you are not a
EffieBlack
Feb 2019
#76
Spousal rape wasn't a crime in Virginia in 1984 unless the parties were living apart
Empowerer
Feb 2019
#42
Not if he only wrote about it. You can write rape fantasies and get millions of votes in a primary.
WeekiWater
Feb 2019
#33
If Northam had physically abused a POC, then you could have that argument.
peacefrogman
Feb 2019
#54
You might want to reflect yourself why so many are giving you this "knee jerk" reaction.
peacefrogman
Feb 2019
#62
From your post, it sounds you are addressing those not wanting him to step down 35 yrs after black
peacefrogman
Feb 2019
#65
I think the language exactly compares the two and is offensive. We obviously see it differently.
peacefrogman
Feb 2019
#74
Rape is a crime. Better analogy would be if he sexually harassed a woman on the job.
McCamy Taylor
Feb 2019
#69