I have never been on a date with a man and ended up in a hotel room

[Fla Dem]

89. Agree, even if you go with someone to their hotel to "pick up some papers" you don't go

up to the room with them. You wait in the lobby. It's common sense. I'm not saying Dr Tyson isn't telling the truth, but a woman sends a signal to a guy when she accompanies him to his room. Just as the man sends a signal when he says, "come on up to my room with me".

Let me put it another way. Let say the papers were at his home and he said come with me while I pick up my papers at my house/apt. When they get there should the woman stay in the car? I say yes. Why go in if he's just picking up something? If she does accompany him into the house, and he said my papers are in my bedroom come in with me while I get them, he is clearly sending a signal, and if the woman agrees, she too has sent a signal.

Having said all that, once they are in the bedroom, and the man makes a move the woman totally did not anticipate and wants to go, the man, regardless of how worked up he is, must let the woman go.