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In reply to the discussion: Good God almighty, where are we headed? (Rant) [View all]sabrams
(13 posts)I am a 65-year-old man.
When I started working as a professional in the 70's it was common for my co-workers to greet each at the start of the day with a hug. We noticed when someone changed their look. When one of us was going through a rough time a touch of support was normal. There were some who did not like hugs, and we all respected that.
When I left the corporate world it got to the point that I was not allowed to do anything more than a handshake for my employees. If a female employee changed her hairstyle or got a new outfit, I could not even acknowledge it.
Today men are being castigated for behavior that for many years not only OK but appreciated.
I think the vast majority of people can tell the difference between a sexual advance and a supportive touch or comment.