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Blue_true

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2. My feeling on divorce is they happen because people fail to realize that people change.
Sat May 25, 2019, 08:03 PM
May 2019

For example, the man that is fun for his girlfriend to be around may change drastically when the monotony of sleeping beside someone each night sets in and seeing the worst of that person daily. A stranger will always be at his or her best, a husband or wife won't. Also financial realities and the reality that dreams of success often don't pan out changes people, often for the worst.

I honestly believe that people should not get married until around the age of 29-30, and should avoid having kids during early years. With time I realized that there is always a better woman coming along (speaking from the standpoint of a heterosexual man), if I don't give myself fully to the woman that I chose, there will always be temptation coming along.

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