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FirstLight

(13,367 posts)
Fri Jan 6, 2012, 11:11 PM Jan 2012

My recently laid-off best friend call me this evening [View all]

saying "There's NO jobs out there... I check every day, Craigslist, the paper, the EDD..."
All I could do was echo "I know... I knoooow... I KNOW!"

...and not just in our little mountainous neck of the woods, but even looking in larger nearby cities is depressing. And then we have to figure in that with a bigger market, there's more competition.

I have not had a 40 hr week job since 2007, and have been bouncing between PT gigs for the past three years.
She just got laid off from a high paying local govt job, where she had been hired directly out of community college. she has no BA, but was making close to $25/hr... and now the jobs she isn't even qualified for want a BA and start at $10...

yep, I told her, that's what it is out there...

Been squeaking by most of my adult life, but yes the past two years are harder than ever. The holidays always demonstrate to me how little 'disposable' income I have, but the day to day scraping for gas or whatnot has become the norm.

I love my friend, but I hate to be the bearer of bad news, because it ain't gettin' any better out there...no matter WHAT the statistics say... I honestly don't know what the answer is, either... Today I paid part of my rent, and have till the 15th to come up with the balance. I have backup because I have family nearby who would help, but it feels lower than low to scrape like this ALL.THE.TIME.

I think I upset my friend by telling her to brace herself for foodstamps...

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There are lots of jobs, just too many people looking for them. tridim Jan 2012 #1
sorry FirstLight Jan 2012 #6
So rather than more jobs the idea is less people? You say too many people, lots of Bluenorthwest Jan 2012 #35
I'm saying there are too many people out of work looking for jobs, not too many people in general. tridim Jan 2012 #36
I knew what you meant. That response to your post was unwarranted, IMO. nt gateley Jan 2012 #46
Your comment was perfectly understandable and didn't lunatica Jan 2012 #52
300 million people is ENOUGH!!!! Yeah, I said it! sivansanabliss Jan 2012 #38
Please, chervilant Jan 2012 #59
It is getting better from jobs statistics but.... nadinbrzezinski Jan 2012 #2
exactly FirstLight Jan 2012 #5
I can't disagree with you. nt Sarah Ibarruri Jan 2012 #16
I make it a point to never disagree with Sherman A1 Jan 2012 #64
Nadin is amazing Sarah Ibarruri Jan 2012 #66
+1000 Sherman A1 Jan 2012 #78
Though more jobs were added according to the BLS, wages declined fasttense Jan 2012 #30
1099s seem to be the new normal. JoeyT Jan 2012 #65
U6 dropped 1.4%. But I'm not seeing that. Sirveri Jan 2012 #72
k&r Liberal_in_LA Jan 2012 #3
perfect snapshot getdown Jan 2012 #4
ya FirstLight Jan 2012 #7
The reason it is down..... izquierdista Jan 2012 #26
Oh please , the same old argument surfdog Jan 2012 #43
Courage to you and your Surya Gayatri Jan 2012 #8
tough times in many ways getdown Jan 2012 #9
My advice comes from first-hand experience, getdown. Surya Gayatri Jan 2012 #13
abso getdown Jan 2012 #17
thanks much FirstLight Jan 2012 #12
Keep thinking like this, my dear, Surya Gayatri Jan 2012 #18
i want to thank you Surya Gayatri blondie58 Jan 2012 #22
Thanks, blondie. I just know Surya Gayatri Jan 2012 #24
+100 FirstLight Jan 2012 #25
The private sector has this country by the balls. They REFUSE to take slightly less profits to FarLeftFist Jan 2012 #10
It's pretty bad out there... ellisonz Jan 2012 #11
First, corporations moved jobs to China. They're still selling us products tho Sarah Ibarruri Jan 2012 #14
My son is working and we have to help him and his family. I feel bad for him but it is a strain on southernyankeebelle Jan 2012 #15
so sorry that your story is so common... FirstLight Jan 2012 #19
There was a time I would have died if I had to do that. However, I am older and wiser and if I had southernyankeebelle Jan 2012 #21
Good advice, SYB. There is no shame Surya Gayatri Jan 2012 #20
Thank you. Yes I would agree with you. There is no shame in asking for help. southernyankeebelle Jan 2012 #23
It's a fulltime job not freaking out Tsiyu Jan 2012 #27
Sure hope that you get the job your are looking for. Here where I live we been pretty lucky with southernyankeebelle Jan 2012 #32
Thanks southernyankeebelle Tsiyu Jan 2012 #39
Thank you. let us know. You know the saying something is better than nothing. I have a strong southernyankeebelle Jan 2012 #40
Fortunately all of my kids are doing pretty well Tsiyu Jan 2012 #42
What bennies? LOL today I think you'd be happy just to have a paycheck. This is the future. One southernyankeebelle Jan 2012 #48
I love my little farm Tsiyu Jan 2012 #49
I am from the east coast myself (Maryland). My dad retired from the military in Md. Yes I agree southernyankeebelle Jan 2012 #51
Where are you in TN? If you don't mind saying Tsiyu Jan 2012 #68
Have you heard of Manchester, TN. I don't live to far from there. Summertime is southernyankeebelle Jan 2012 #73
meditation and exercise help getdown Jan 2012 #47
Yeah, the OP's friend will hopefully find something soon Tsiyu Jan 2012 #50
encouragement getdown Jan 2012 #57
seriously! FirstLight Jan 2012 #54
It's crazy, because you feel like you should be freaking out Tsiyu Jan 2012 #69
pulling for you and your friend too... FirstLight Jan 2012 #70
Aw Baby Tsiyu Jan 2012 #71
insomnia...lol FirstLight Jan 2012 #74
All the hoo-haa about a .1% drop in the unemployment rate (and the coalition_unwilling Jan 2012 #28
You are a good friend to warn her of this, you were being honest Digit Jan 2012 #29
There are people on this forum who believe we should accept a lower standard of living Zalatix Jan 2012 #31
So why don't you say who in this forum believes that? treestar Jan 2012 #44
"Our lifestyle is hardly going down." Are you for real? U4ikLefty Jan 2012 #55
How is our lifestyle going down due to manufacturing in China, etc.? treestar Jan 2012 #58
I don't think the poster *is* "for real"; she will not engage with any facts, links, etc. nt Romulox Jan 2012 #61
Dictionary definition of "leading with your chin". nt Romulox Jan 2012 #60
It's against the rules to single out a poster. Zalatix Jan 2012 #81
Working for free ciaoant1 Jan 2012 #33
thank you FirstLight blondie58 Jan 2012 #34
There was a time in America... bvar22 Jan 2012 #37
The statistics are based on methodology though treestar Jan 2012 #41
Recent reports say jobs are back to where Bush left us and Obama began, except for one thing: Festivito Jan 2012 #45
Where do you live? joeglow3 Jan 2012 #53
It's still amazing to me there are those who poo-poo the jobs situation... FirstLight Jan 2012 #56
If your friend has tech skills things are looking better. Best place in the country is suburban DC ddeclue Jan 2012 #62
OMG! chervilant Jan 2012 #63
thank YOU! FirstLight Jan 2012 #67
Durn... chervilant Jan 2012 #86
''....Our hopey-changey prez..." You guys are overt these days uponit7771 Jan 2012 #76
Oh, really? chervilant Jan 2012 #79
I don't know where your friend lives or what s/he does for a living, but we have jobs here.... Honeycombe8 Jan 2012 #75
Easy if your are mobile nobodyspecial Jan 2012 #77
True. But the OP didn't say. Maybe the friend is mobile. Honeycombe8 Jan 2012 #80
The way I see it... RedOpinions Jan 2012 #82
OMG! chervilant Jan 2012 #84
The Onion: All Of Area Man's Hard Work Finally Pays Off For Employer ciaoant1 Jan 2012 #83
It is getting better, but you have to live in a city taught_me_patience Jan 2012 #85
... FirstLight Jan 2012 #87
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