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StarfishSaver

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20. Your post illuminates a serious problem some white people have. They still think this is about them
Wed Jun 24, 2020, 08:23 AM
Jun 2020

Not only that, but they think fairness, equality and justice are gifts and rewards that they can mete out at their discretion depending upon the degree to which they believe their black fellow citizens are behaving appropriately and treating them with sufficient deference.

If we call their attention to a problem with JUST the right tone and sense of urgency, they will feel compelled to respond. But if we go too far and hurt their feelings or, God forbid, make them feel guilty, THWAP! Down comes the window, the door slams shut and "no more candy for YOU!"

Why in the hell does any white person in America think black people are supposed to "forgive" them? And why do they feel entitled to withdraw their support for justice and civil rights for all people because they think we haven't?

I have no doubt that some white and even some deluded Hispanic people think exactly as you describe. I see it myself all the time, sometimes on this very board.

But we don't have time for that kind of foolishness. They need to get over themselves, open their eyes and stop acting like this is about them and they are the center of everyone's universe. When they do, I will welcome them with open arms. If not, then they need to just stay their butts over there in the Trump camp (whether they admit it or not, they're no better than Trumpsters in this regard - they're simply clever enough to say the quiet parts quietly) and let the rest of us focus on people who actually give a shit about the future of this country and the people in it.

When I think of law and order... Newest Reality Jun 2020 #1
Ain't nobody got time for that! LaelthsDaughter Jun 2020 #2
Nixon made it work in 1972 customerserviceguy Jun 2020 #3
Interesting. I didn't know that. Thank you. Laelth Jun 2020 #4
Agreed customerserviceguy Jun 2020 #6
"when white America starts to figure out that they won't be forgiven". ??? StarfishSaver Jun 2020 #9
The George Floyd situation was like a jolt of "we tried to tell you" Awsi Dooger Jun 2020 #18
Your post illuminates a serious problem some white people have. They still think this is about them StarfishSaver Jun 2020 #20
What would it take customerserviceguy Jun 2020 #31
I haven't heard "white guilt" since the 90s JonLP24 Jun 2020 #12
AOC rocks! Laelth Jun 2020 #14
I don't agree StarfishSaver Jun 2020 #7
How old were you in 1972? customerserviceguy Jun 2020 #28
I was a teenager and was very politically aware and engaged StarfishSaver Jun 2020 #33
Well, we'll see what happens customerserviceguy Jun 2020 #37
I was 8 in 1972, but grew up with very politically-conscious parents, so bullwinkle428 Jun 2020 #24
I remember the stickers you found customerserviceguy Jun 2020 #29
Nixon made it work because he wasn't the incumbent. lagomorph777 Jun 2020 #26
He was widely and deeply hated by progressives in 1972 customerserviceguy Jun 2020 #30
I remember. lagomorph777 Jun 2020 #35
Same here customerserviceguy Jun 2020 #36
Well said! StarfishSaver Jun 2020 #5
Thank you. n/t Laelth Jun 2020 #8
If boneheads keep "taking over" parts of cities, it won't be for long. Blue_true Jun 2020 #10
Fox says that the folks in Seattle are an anarcho-syndicalist commune. Laelth Jun 2020 #11
They caused chaos. Blue_true Jun 2020 #13
If the Seattle folks were shooting for chaos, they failed. Laelth Jun 2020 #17
Three people shot, one dead is calm? Your idea of "calm" is rather strange, IMO. nt Blue_true Jun 2020 #21
Law and order, tough on crime has been way overused.... Xolodno Jun 2020 #15
"Law and Order" for Republicans is about being tough on minorities to make White People feel better JI7 Jun 2020 #16
Exactly StarfishSaver Jun 2020 #23
Trump hasn't discussed a plan yet. He's going to come around and release Calista241 Jun 2020 #19
Or not. His base will be told just whom is responsible for unrest - and jmg257 Jun 2020 #22
Never forget that Chump pardoned Joe Arpaio. Initech Jun 2020 #25
No one who has broken the law as often as the Con should get away with claiming to malaise Jun 2020 #27
Agreed. n/t Laelth Jun 2020 #34
The Law is whatever Trump orders...nt Wounded Bear Jun 2020 #32
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