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TalenaGor

(1,104 posts)
Sat Dec 5, 2020, 05:16 AM Dec 2020

Moms Covid - update :( [View all]

update to - https://www.democraticunderground.com/100214633642

she went to the hosp the other day, they addressed her UTI and fractured ankle from a recent fall but said she didnt have any symptoms of covid so they sent her back to her nursing home yesterday - today I got a frantic call from the home - they were sending her back to the hosp - she was having trouble breathing, was confused and they could not stabilize her oxygen - she was rushed in - put in ICU - the doc called me and asked me if she would want to be saved with 'heroic measures' - CPR, life support etc

I didnt really know what to say - I dont really understand all this covid treatment stuff but I also have had to answer those types of questions for her before - I asked him what he recommends - we discussed what her quality of life was before this happened - based on that he said we should try treating the covid and if she responds to treatment he feels like she can be back to her usual self - IF she responds....

but if she doesnt respond to treatment, and she goes into cardiac arrest - no pulse etc - they wont try to revive her - because if it went that far and they revived her & she survived that...she wouldnt be the same - no quality of life.....

they are giving her steroids, anti-biotics, plasma w antibodies - they put her to sleep and intubated her.....now we wait and see if she responds.....



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Moms Covid - update :( [View all] TalenaGor Dec 2020 OP
Oh, I am so sorry you're going through this - and for your Mom! Rhiannon12866 Dec 2020 #1
ty - she also has pneumonia in both lungs :( TalenaGor Dec 2020 #2
I'm so very sorry you're going through pnwest Dec 2020 #3
ty - shes in Tacoma General - they were the ones who saved her last time... TalenaGor Dec 2020 #4
I'm so sorry 💔 Raine Dec 2020 #5
My thoughts are with you and your mom. Hope you get some goods news from the hospital soon. Doodley Dec 2020 #6
Dear Talena, I am so sorry that this has come to your beloved mother. Tanuki Dec 2020 #7
Sorry MFM008 Dec 2020 #8
So sorry about your mom Meowmee Dec 2020 #9
I am so sorry. PoindexterOglethorpe Dec 2020 #10
I can not express how much I emphasize with you mercuryblues Dec 2020 #11
Horrific malaise Dec 2020 #12
I am so very sorry UpInArms Dec 2020 #13
So sorry to hear about your Mom... orwell Dec 2020 #14
Really sorry to hear about your mom Jay25 Dec 2020 #15
Our hopes are with you. denbot Dec 2020 #16
Best hopes for your Mom. irisblue Dec 2020 #17
Sending prayers, love and support for you and for your dear mother. gademocrat7 Dec 2020 #18
I am so sorry. mrs_p Dec 2020 #19
I'm so sorry vercetti2021 Dec 2020 #20
So sorry your mom is struggling with Covid... Trueblue Texan Dec 2020 #21
wow that was quick! Im so sorry... I wish people would take this virus seriously.. samnsara Dec 2020 #22
So very sorry to hear this. Sending vibes for healing and strength for you and your Mom. niyad Dec 2020 #23
UTI UTI UTI REMEDY easy. alka seltzer. if caught early kills it dead.use as needed. pansypoo53219 Dec 2020 #24
Really. How does it work? jeffreyi Dec 2020 #33
if you catch or feel one coming, 1 dose as directed should do. if you wait, more needed. pansypoo53219 Dec 2020 #38
Thanks. jeffreyi Dec 2020 #39
one of my med's side effects is UTI's. yay. pansypoo53219 Dec 2020 #42
These nightmares are what we all face now. Best wishes for you and your family. BSdetect Dec 2020 #25
yup. mopinko Dec 2020 #29
I am so sorry this happened to your Mother and to you...hugs and prayers for you both. Demsrule86 Dec 2020 #26
I'm so sorry. Greybnk48 Dec 2020 #27
Oh, no. I am so sorry, Talena. crickets Dec 2020 #28
Thank you all - DU is such an amazing source of support and empathy TalenaGor Dec 2020 #30
My heart goes out to you. May you find the strength to do what is best. nt Atticus Dec 2020 #31
Im so sorry that your mother's going through this. nt live love laugh Dec 2020 #32
I am so sorry -- just hang in there -- gentle peace to you both Hekate Dec 2020 #34
Keeping the vigil with you. Withywindle Dec 2020 #35
I'm so sorry. It's not fair. blogslut Dec 2020 #36
Oh dear, TalenaGor. smirkymonkey Dec 2020 #37
They have asked you EndlessWire Dec 2020 #40
I'm sorry you are going through this. It's hard enough making decisions for ourselves - Ms. Toad Dec 2020 #41
Advance directives or living wills make it easier DeminPennswoods Dec 2020 #43
My heart goes out to you. JudyM Dec 2020 #44
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