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I_UndergroundPanther

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98. Reading all your stories

Mon Nov 22, 2021, 10:42 PM

Nov 2021

Has put me there on that day. I was like 1 1/2 when it happened..

But I also noticed this:
When people die there isnt a reaction like that anymore.

People might make a note when someone meaninful dies,but there is no nationwide mourning anymore.
The shock of seeing someone die on tv
Causes no reflex of empathy.

We hear about kids gunned down in school
We hear about 911 and the reaction is subdued compaired to what all of you felt.
Its sad. What has happened to us?

Why is there such a weak reaction to such tragedy.

I actually felt stupid for crying after the shock of what I saw was happening on tv wore off.

Just seeing those towers going down and people leaping to thier deaths.the explosions the people trying to outrun the biggest dust cloud I have ever seen..

The pentagon torn.

And the images of what happened were on tv for weeks,months after that.

It tore my heart.

But seeing it over and over over time it disconnected me from my intial feelings of shock,sadness and fear of what if more buildings were going to be brought down.

This year for 911 shows on tv I actually got a little irritated they were rehashing it yet again.

What has happened to me?

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