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I attend meetings in my very red rural area where I am among many Trump supporters. Politics is not what we are there for, it is a support group for people trying to stay sober, although I have put up with a lot of crap and snide comments, they know I am a Biden supporting Democrat.
Last night after the meeting, I was talking to a man in his early 60's who runs a local auction house. He is an accomplished guitarist, who once went to California at the invitation of Buck Owens, to perform as warm up in a band. He is also a Trump voter.
A week ago, his 13 year old grandson was riding a hay wagon with his mom and brother being pulled by a tractor. The hay wagon rolled, and crushed the boy to death.
We started out talking about guitars. He showed me pictures on his phone of his beautiful Gibson electric, various Fenders and a Gretch. Also, 3 gorgeous hand made acoustics his son made for him.
Others came over to offer condolences for his grandson. He then showed pictures of a tall, tow headed 13 year old with a big smile, standing with his brothers.
I felt my chest heave, and fought to control the emotions. He hasn't been the same since this happened, and you can almost see the weight on him. For 5 minutes, everyone talked to him and their differences with me were unimportant.
How does a con man like Trump manage to fool an otherwise intelligent, big hearted man like this?
I dream of a day when my party finally reaches the hearts of these people, and somehow knocks down the wall of lies that the GOP has built in rural America.
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My heart goes out to the family. It seems like when something like this hits a
SWBTATTReg
Aug 2022
#1
Really. Perhaps there's a crack there w/ him liking other black and latino artists? Little steps,
SWBTATTReg
Aug 2022
#5
I think you found the way. It's not by winning arguments, but by showing your compassion.
TheRickles
Aug 2022
#30
Many MAGAts are as you describe, but not all. It's too soon to say how this fellow will turn out.
TheRickles
Aug 2022
#40
It was so sad to see all those children killed when the tractor flipped in SC-PA.
JoeOtterbein
Aug 2022
#15
And yet, at least in MI, the great majority of TFG voters live in urban or mostly urban counties
Kaleva
Aug 2022
#47
They are all angry or afraid of something. Trump and his ilk tap into those emotions.
Joinfortmill
Aug 2022
#20
Both things can be true at the same time. A loving grandfather and bigoted grandfather
tulipsandroses
Aug 2022
#24
So he loved his gradson and plays guitar, and likely hates blacks, gays, jews, etc.
Jon King
Aug 2022
#31
People with big hearts can still be duped, this is not the democrats problem, stupidity is
Cozmo
Aug 2022
#33
The same way opioid drug companies target them, and other substances like alcohol
IronLionZion
Aug 2022
#37
If you people think your Trump voting family/friends are "nice", you are wrong.
Jon King
Aug 2022
#38
As a news editor I cover rural areas, and understand why some are dismayed with Dems.
Liberty Belle
Aug 2022
#42
"a general disrespect of rural residents." Where? Town halls don't change anything.
betsuni
Aug 2022
#59
Under Trump White FArmers recieved most Financial Assistance. Biden admin tried to fix this
JI7
Aug 2022
#68
"How does a con man like Trump manage to fool an otherwise intelligent, big hearted man like this?"
Slammer
Aug 2022
#46
"I dream of a day when my party finally reaches the hearts of these people ... "
betsuni
Aug 2022
#63
Sorry, I am out of compassion for anyone who voted for TFG once, much less twice.
Tommymac
Aug 2022
#71
For all of you who say, "they're such nice people, they seem so kind, how can they
Wingus Dingus
Aug 2022
#89
Yep, dig deep enough or catch them on a bad day, you'll see the Trumper come out.
Wingus Dingus
Aug 2022
#91