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bucolic_frolic

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112. That is positively weird. The teacher thought this was a good idea???

Reply to BeckyDem (Original post)

Wed Jul 12, 2023, 03:59 PM

Jul 2023

They need to get inside her head and see if there's anything there.

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Teacher Accused of Mailing Afro Wig, White Face Paint to Mixed-Race 2nd-Grader [View all] BeckyDem Jul 2023 OP

Racism knows no boundaries, it is everywhere, in every state MagickMuffin Jul 2023 #1

Yet, this example seems very extreme--esp. for the school board to do NOTHING. And the riversedge Jul 2023 #5

Republican's have normalized hatred against the other and people act on it..imo. BeckyDem Jul 2023 #6

Going after a second grader. Nice look on a teacher. marble falls Jul 2023 #2

The depth of my disgust at the cowardly creature who did this is bottomless. Sue the lot of them. Joinfortmill Jul 2023 #3

Who would do this to a seven year old?! yardwork Jul 2023 #24

That teacher is weird. Hopefully never to teach again. jimfields33 Jul 2023 #4

Yes, seems parents have to act from such a guarded position. BeckyDem Jul 2023 #9

Unfortunately true today. jimfields33 Jul 2023 #13

Yea, the story is shocking to me because a teacher is involved and she is young too. BeckyDem Jul 2023 #15

Maybe she didn't do it. yardwork Jul 2023 #32

I read other articles. She did it. Demsrule86 Jul 2023 #41

I read other articles. She did it. Demsrule86 Jul 2023 #48

Where does that say that Amazon confirmed it? yardwork Jul 2023 #58

I sent you a link. Demsrule86 Jul 2023 #65

Reread the bolded type in your post. yardwork Jul 2023 #69

I don't get why you want to believe this is minority parent out for what they can get, but the Demsrule86 Jul 2023 #73

You're putting words in my mouth I didn't say. yardwork Jul 2023 #75

The teacher has an Amazon account, but how do we know someone else didn't get access to it? ShazzieB Jul 2023 #113

No where in the article does it say the teacher has an amazon account questionseverything Jul 2023 #135

There's no proof of any of their accusations. yardwork Jul 2023 #150

We also know the teacher, school and school board are denying it questionseverything Jul 2023 #165

Right, we know that too. yardwork Jul 2023 #167

Good summary questionseverything Jul 2023 #168

I am skeptical for one reason only: Contacting Amazon customer service is next to impossible. Coventina Jul 2023 #97

What makes you think the teacher is young? The link says she's been teaching since 2001. BlackSkimmer Jul 2023 #89

A photo of her was posted in this thread, she seemed young to me. BeckyDem Jul 2023 #103

Looked Younger NowISeetheLight Jul 2023 #115

Pure evil Sky Jewels Jul 2023 #7

Thank you, let her be known to all. BeckyDem Jul 2023 #10

Christine Rzasa. Rzasa is Polish for duckweed (literally pond scum) Celerity Jul 2023 #28

Maybe she didn't do it. yardwork Jul 2023 #30

In this article it says she "declined to comment." Sky Jewels Jul 2023 #144

It Sounds RobinA Jul 2023 #161

It sounds like someone following their lawyers advice questionseverything Jul 2023 #163

Are. You. Serious? Jilly_in_VA Jul 2023 #8

It's ok, the hatred unleashed since Trump's 2016 run for president is still going strong. BeckyDem Jul 2023 #11

Yeah, but Jilly_in_VA Jul 2023 #12

Good that you recognize it, Jilly. BeckyDem Jul 2023 #14

Trumpism just brought the same old 400 + years old racial powerhate constructs back to the fore Celerity Jul 2023 #37

I agree with this. I just feel the power of Trump is his ability to make people feel comfortable BeckyDem Jul 2023 #55

absolutely! Celerity Jul 2023 #82

What the actual fuck? Ocelot II Jul 2023 #16

It is shocking. The lawsuit, under depositions, should reveal a lot of the teachers motives. BeckyDem Jul 2023 #18

Well first ForgedCrank Jul 2023 #17

It is true, no hoax. I wish it were then no child would have truly been harmed. n/t BeckyDem Jul 2023 #19

I agree, ForgedCrank Jul 2023 #33

If the parents were involved, I would be shocked. Lawsuits like this involve a lot of turmoil BeckyDem Jul 2023 #36

Do we know for sure that any package was sent? yardwork Jul 2023 #39

Those are ForgedCrank Jul 2023 #46

You should delete this post...it is racist...I know you didn't intend it this way but it is. Demsrule86 Jul 2023 #53

Where does the article say that Amazon confirmed this? yardwork Jul 2023 #56

That story doesn't say that Amazon confirmed it. Mariana Jul 2023 #108

True. BlackSkimmer Jul 2023 #87

Part of the complaint stipulates the child has received therapy as a result BeckyDem Jul 2023 #107

The therapist only knows what the kid says questionseverything Jul 2023 #164

You: The kid only knows what the parents have told him BeckyDem Jul 2023 #166

I do too. Demsrule86 Jul 2023 #74

I am a little skeptical, myself. yardwork Jul 2023 #26

There are ForgedCrank Jul 2023 #40

Right... and I keep coming back to the oddness of the package. yardwork Jul 2023 #66

The teacher is likely a viciously racist...there some who hate mixed race kids. This is not a kid's Demsrule86 Jul 2023 #76

Do we know the race of the teacher? BlackSkimmer Jul 2023 #88

White Sky Jewels Jul 2023 #145

Amazon confirmed it was sent by the teacher. Demsrule86 Jul 2023 #50

Where does the article say that Amazon confirmed this? yardwork Jul 2023 #54

That news story doesn't say "Amazon confirmed it was sent by the teacher." Progressive Lawyer Jul 2023 #77

You can keep saying that... Zeitghost Jul 2023 #95

This country is going to hell. Initech Jul 2023 #20

Amazon NowISeetheLight Jul 2023 #21

I am curious about the Amazon info too. Right now the school system is defending her. n/t BeckyDem Jul 2023 #27

Experiment NowISeetheLight Jul 2023 #31

The article says that Amazon "refused a subpoena" but it's not clear who said that. yardwork Jul 2023 #34

Defamation / Libel NowISeetheLight Jul 2023 #38

To be fair to the school's claim of innocence, we don't know details on how that info was revealed. BeckyDem Jul 2023 #42

So if Amazon resists government subpoenas, why would they reveal customer info to an ordinary person yardwork Jul 2023 #47

I know, I am curious about it as well. But I will ask this....is it possible an BeckyDem Jul 2023 #51

I don't know. Maybe? yardwork Jul 2023 #59

Yes they told the mother that is how she found out, and in the end Amazon will have to comply Demsrule86 Jul 2023 #62

Honsestly! They told the Mother. And will eventually comply with the subpoena. Demsrule86 Jul 2023 #63

Possibly? NowISeetheLight Jul 2023 #92

My first ForgedCrank Jul 2023 #71

I can see it if it was delivered to another customer's house ecstatic Jul 2023 #128

It seems very off. BlackSkimmer Jul 2023 #98

It really is frightening. yardwork Jul 2023 #99

Since when? BlackSkimmer Jul 2023 #100

Ok, I did feel that last sentence was hyperbole. yardwork Jul 2023 #101

Yes, I am curious how they confirmed it. BeckyDem Jul 2023 #105

Lawyers will file suit at their client's direction as long as they are paid questionseverything Jul 2023 #127

Not all of them. This attorney doesn't seem to fit that profile. BeckyDem Jul 2023 #129

She's a "slip and fall " lawyer, that's exactly the profile questionseverything Jul 2023 #130

Her life experience couldn't possibly shape her approach to the law, according to you. BeckyDem Jul 2023 #132

I'm just going by how she advises her services questionseverything Jul 2023 #133

Apparently from the link below...she ordered it from Amazon and had it sent...that is how the Demsrule86 Jul 2023 #57

Just because ForgedCrank Jul 2023 #85

Agree. jeffreyi Jul 2023 #86

You would be surprised Jilly_in_VA Jul 2023 #110

According to this article, wnylib Jul 2023 #22

Who knows, they may have been advised to put up a good fight only hoping to settle later on. BeckyDem Jul 2023 #25

Or maybe they're not sure it's true. yardwork Jul 2023 #29

Correct NowISeetheLight Jul 2023 #35

I don't know but the effort seems to be passive aggressive to the exteme. BeckyDem Jul 2023 #44

It just seems overly complicated, to me. yardwork Jul 2023 #49

Why I don't doubt it is because as a black woman I can't imagine putting my kid through BeckyDem Jul 2023 #52

Whoever is responsible for this is a messed up person, no doubt. yardwork Jul 2023 #61

Racism could be called a mental illness, I guess. wnylib Jul 2023 #67

Oh yes....very disturbing! BeckyDem Jul 2023 #68

Here's the sad part... yardwork Jul 2023 #79

Wow. I truly appreciate your sharing, the reality regarding human behavior is complicated by how BeckyDem Jul 2023 #102

Why did the teacher refuse to comment, then, if it is a hoax? Sky Jewels Jul 2023 #146

Would you? We have no idea what's really going on. yardwork Jul 2023 #151

Or....some people are dickheads Showbizkid Jul 2023 #149

True. Why would parents put their child through something like this wnylib Jul 2023 #64

Yes, that is how I see it for now. I'm not sure an attorney would file a case on their BeckyDem Jul 2023 #104

It is despicable to do that to a child. Demsrule86 Jul 2023 #70

I am so sorry your child went through that and for you too. I have witnessed schools take cover, BeckyDem Jul 2023 #116

I think that there are smug, cruel people wnylib Jul 2023 #45

The Mother called Amazon and they told her. Demsrule86 Jul 2023 #78

I read that, too. But it doesn't say what Amazon told her. wnylib Jul 2023 #80

They are stupid then. Apparently, Amazon confirmed it was order by and sent by the teacher. Demsrule86 Jul 2023 #60

Where did you get the information that Amazon confirmed the teacher sent the package? Progressive Lawyer Jul 2023 #72

Amazon told the Mom...how else would she know? Demsrule86 Jul 2023 #81

So someone makes an accusation, and therefore we must not critically examine the accusation? Progressive Lawyer Jul 2023 #83

It is not an accusation.Amazon told the Mother... Demsrule86 Jul 2023 #91

But This Article NowISeetheLight Jul 2023 #94

WTF? What kind of person would do this to a child? zuul Jul 2023 #23

NJ ain't as blue as you think Jersey Devil Jul 2023 #43

Christine Rzasa needs to go through some things. ZonkerHarris Jul 2023 #84

Maybe the internet should tap the brakes before putting people "through some things" Sympthsical Jul 2023 #90

Well said. It's interesting how people's emotions take over. yardwork Jul 2023 #93

Maybe it's true, but it's also crazy strange Sympthsical Jul 2023 #114

Of course the child was traumatized. How would you feel as scipan Jul 2023 #117

If I were seven, I wouldn't understand it Sympthsical Jul 2023 #118

Agree it's not enough to "ruin someone's life". scipan Jul 2023 #119

That's fair Sympthsical Jul 2023 #120

Agree! scipan Jul 2023 #122

I kind of feel the same way Lurker Deluxe Jul 2023 #121

Actually I didn't see any proof in the article that there was a package questionseverything Jul 2023 #125

What kind of monster does this to a 7 year old child? Ms Rzasa is in desperate need of firing... Hekate Jul 2023 #96

First, establish guilt, then determine punishments. Igel Jul 2023 #106

Are you saying this is *yet another* DU post I should have passed by... Hekate Jul 2023 #109

Here's a question Showbizkid Jul 2023 #126

Maybe they thought it was from a grandparent or relative. I send such gifts to my grand-daughter Demsrule86 Jul 2023 #139

Post removed Post removed Jul 2023 #111

That is positively weird. The teacher thought this was a good idea??? bucolic_frolic Jul 2023 #112

So.....I don't believe a word of this Showbizkid Jul 2023 #123

And I'm a parent of a child ExWhoDoesntCare Jul 2023 #124

I am a teacher or was ...and I have seen bad teachers and pulled two of my own kids out of a Demsrule86 Jul 2023 #137

Gosh. We'll all get right on that. Scrivener7 Jul 2023 #142

The teacher has refused to comment. Sky Jewels Jul 2023 #147

That's the standard? Showbizkid Jul 2023 #148

It sounds to me like someone who has a lawyer. yardwork Jul 2023 #152

I don't doubt that there are people in this country that would do that tavernier Jul 2023 #131

The history of the case and its time line are not revealed. BeckyDem Jul 2023 #134

So it is the parents fault? Honestly, it was probably addressed to the kid...parents thought it Demsrule86 Jul 2023 #136

Parent's fault? tavernier Jul 2023 #138

No just in general read the posts... Demsrule86 Jul 2023 #140

I went back and read your post to see if I posted to the wrong person...Below is what you wrote. Demsrule86 Jul 2023 #141

The article doesn't say they showed it to the kid, or that the parents involved Scrivener7 Jul 2023 #143

The parents say this package was delivered in July 2022. yardwork Jul 2023 #154

That's one of the aspects of this that raises questions. yardwork Jul 2023 #153

That is not the full complaint as stated thus far. The response to the parents concerns BeckyDem Jul 2023 #155

Is this a year round school? yardwork Jul 2023 #156

You are free to believe the claim or not. I am not bothered by those who do or not. BeckyDem Jul 2023 #157

You posted the full complaint? I missed that. yardwork Jul 2023 #158

As we know it from the article I linked to. BeckyDem Jul 2023 #159

I want the full complaint to read. Showbizkid Jul 2023 #160

I think we all want to read it, not available yet as far as I know. BeckyDem Jul 2023 #162