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PCIntern

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Wed Aug 14, 2024, 09:40 PM Aug 14

I've had to fire people during my 45 years as an employer [View all]

and I’m going to confess that not only do I recall each individual and the circumstances, but I can conjure up with ease the horrific guilt I felt for doing so, even for grossly incompetent work product or inappropriate behaviors or actions, even for people I manifestly disliked.

For when you fire someone, you are altering his or her entire life. Aside from a relatively few individuals, this person is now unsure of everything: whether they will be able to pay rent or mortgage, eat, put gas in the car, pay utilities, maintain a relationship… anything. Nothing is as it was. All the interactions within the office are also terminated: the camaraderie, friendships, day to day routine, support from coworkers is instantly removed as though it never existed.

It’s a landmark moment in anyone’s existence . No matter what the situation which led to the dismissal, it will be reflected upon for the rest of the employee’s life. And it won’t be a series of positive thoughts. It will pervade the memories, rising to the surface on seemingly random occasions.

So when these RW “billionaire” assholes joke about doing this, firing someone, it demonstrates that they have no idea, zero concept, of the significance nor do they care in the least. And it is important that the electorate who is “undecided” understand this.

“Undecided”. These are attention-getting, needy people. Nothing stimulates conversation as much as the statement: “I still don’t know who I’m gonna vote for. Whaddya you think?” Guaranteed to take center stage wherever you happen to be, but particularly if it’s in a so-called “swing state”.

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its a necessary evil. Groundhawg Aug 14 #1
I was taught that it is always a MANAGEMENT failure if someone needs firing. dickthegrouch Aug 15 #31
You were taught wrong. Sometimes it's unavoidable. Groundhawg Aug 15 #32
This message was self-deleted by its author anciano Aug 14 #2
very accurate recovering_democrat Aug 14 #3
I was involved in the decision a few times, rsdsharp Aug 14 #4
Exactly my point PCIntern Aug 14 #5
I was involved in such a situation... Dan Aug 14 #6
Yeah... raising2moredems Aug 14 #16
I've only fired two people, years ago. CCExile Aug 14 #7
I don't think that this is correct. markodochartaigh Aug 14 #8
I'm not certain what you're disagreeing with: PCIntern Aug 15 #22
That's because you're aware that people are complicated harumph Aug 14 #9
Not totally unlike being thrown out of a marriage or relationship erronis Aug 14 #10
I knew a guy who took glee in firing people. Doing so uplifted him. Pure evil. PeaceWave Aug 14 #11
Was he on the Apprentice? tetedur Aug 14 #13
It's the worst part of my work. You should never get used to it. JanMichael Aug 14 #12
I can also remember each time ramapo Aug 14 #14
I thought we fired TFG four years ago? Why does he keep showing back up asking for a job? Metaphorical Aug 14 #15
And not just any job DFW Aug 14 #17
I've had to do it a few times over the course of the last few decades DFW Aug 14 #18
Even when it was crystal clear, it was always tough Jarqui Aug 14 #19
Well stated, PCIntern.. Permanut Aug 14 #20
This is SO true. I've had to fire people too. It is awful. Hamlette Aug 15 #21
Having had to do this myself DemonGoddess Aug 15 #23
You are a decent person, those " these RW "billionaire" assholes" who joke about it aren't. raccoon Aug 15 #24
In 30 years I only had 1 person fired SocialDemocrat61 Aug 15 #25
Did a lot of M&A work WA-03 Democrat Aug 15 #26
Come on now! There's so little difference Dark n Stormy Knight Aug 15 #27
My husband has been fired more than any person I know, once by his brother. CrispyQ Aug 15 #28
I've Had To Let 15 People Go ProfessorGAC Aug 15 #29
There are so many factors. LiberalFighter Aug 15 #30
We fired Trump four years ago. Why is he being allowed to reapply for the job? mucholderthandirt Aug 16 #33
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