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In reply to the discussion: sexism, lets play. [View all]

The Straight Story

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91. Hope I would learn something?
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 08:51 PM
Mar 2013

"like maybe not doing it again"?

Where is your concern when it comes to the person I was talking about and their attacks here on DU?

Do you think I posted what I did out of the blue for no reason? How many others, thread after thread here and previously in Meta, said basically the same thing?

You have a lot of good folks here concerned about issues like feminism and would be more than happy to have discussions about it but they get ran roughshod over and over time and again by a few and told they are basically sexist and equated with abusers and the rw.

I and others are a little sick of it and will call it out when we see it. We want to be able to have adult discussions on an issue and time and again get spammed by a few telling us we all suck and have no idea what we are talking about.

I have learned something - that the discussion here on DU is less about the subject some say they want to discuss and more about fellow progressives not being pure enough. Constant questioning of motives, telling men they are bad and don't care about women or women's rights when they actually do.

We may not agree on some finer points, but that does not make us misogynist jackholes who want to keep women down. It is possible to not agree and not be haters. But you would not know that from some posters.

One would think coming here to DU that all us progressives on the board are a bunch of women haters who just want women to stay in the kitchen - and yet many on this board care deeply about the subject and want to work together. Yet a few want to divide us and focus on us more than the issues.

And I have also learned that there are others who want to continue to keep DU divided into men and women and drive a wedge between us because they care more about complaining about each other than finding solutions.

sexism, lets play. [View all] seabeyond Mar 2013 OP
Really? You're this upset because many people here don't see the Tunisian protests polly7 Mar 2013 #1
The egocentricism is appalling Melinda Mar 2013 #2
that strange feeling that.. arely staircase Mar 2013 #107
O-61. JTFrog Mar 2013 #5
You get to place a chip on the bingo card. nt NCTraveler Mar 2013 #12
Nah ........ but you go for it. polly7 Mar 2013 #15
B-2. JTFrog Mar 2013 #18
Now what an intelligent response. nt. polly7 Mar 2013 #20
G-51. JTFrog Mar 2013 #22
Noooooo. Too boring. polly7 Mar 2013 #27
"the fight against sexism" = lol. psyops. HiPointDem Mar 2013 #41
She speaks for me and a whole lot of other women. I think we feminists need sabrina 1 Mar 2013 #118
B13. MadrasT Mar 2013 #141
+1 Roland99 Mar 2013 #39
There seems to be more than one person Phlem Mar 2013 #56
don't I know it Roland99 Mar 2013 #57
+1 Sherman A1 Mar 2013 #62
she probably can't see any of the responses arely staircase Mar 2013 #109
Compliance is protest! LadyHawkAZ Mar 2013 #42
"Your breasts are patriarchy!" lumberjack_jeff Mar 2013 #48
"Like Sammy with his..." Warren DeMontague Mar 2013 #188
+1000! nt. polly7 Mar 2013 #95
Nevermind, I figured it out. nt ZombieHorde Mar 2013 #44
"this upset" Scout Mar 2013 #46
Do you know about the Femen/Amina protest against Tunisian-Islamic oppression and subsequent edicts? Kurovski Mar 2013 #133
Remember, "if the liberal peen is keen, it must demean!" Warren DeMontague Mar 2013 #187
OY! In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #3
We need bingo chips pintobean Mar 2013 #4
Oh ffs! HappyMe Mar 2013 #6
+1 idwiyo Mar 2013 #51
"Some people aren't ashamed of the naked human body." UnrepentantLiberal Mar 2013 #53
How do we decide who goes first? EOTE Mar 2013 #7
Jury results. Adsos Letter Mar 2013 #8
Can we see? nt EOTE Mar 2013 #13
Edited Adsos Letter Mar 2013 #14
Thanks... and I agree. EOTE Mar 2013 #17
Careful theKed Mar 2013 #25
But that's my favorite kind of rage. nt EOTE Mar 2013 #26
Then this thread theKed Mar 2013 #28
There are some people here who view it as a game. NCTraveler Mar 2013 #9
This isn't helping tkmorris Mar 2013 #10
Results of Jury Service WilliamPitt Mar 2013 #11
game the alert system? CBGLuthier Mar 2013 #31
Time for popcorn LittleBlue Mar 2013 #16
I didn't see one for holding open doors (nt) The Straight Story Mar 2013 #19
"How come my wife always makes me kill the spiders in the bathtub" Nye Bevan Mar 2013 #21
"How about YOU put the seat back up?" n/t zappaman Mar 2013 #23
Sexism posts abound. Apophis Mar 2013 #24
Yes.. let's play... opiate69 Mar 2013 #29
This OP went exactly as planned. EOTE Mar 2013 #30
And to think, I was thinking my day off was going to be nice and quiet.... opiate69 Mar 2013 #32
Post removed Post removed Mar 2013 #33
Posts like these really help the day go by quicker for me. EOTE Mar 2013 #34
well, we did have an attempt at a circumcision "discussion" CBGLuthier Mar 2013 #35
*rimshot* opiate69 Mar 2013 #36
How Short was it? BrainDrain Mar 2013 #38
I'm gonna hang in for the full card. theKed Mar 2013 #37
trendy pronoun neoligisms arely staircase Mar 2013 #114
lol.. if only I could claim creative authorship of it opiate69 Mar 2013 #115
Sorry, not cartoonish enough for me to play, LOL just1voice Mar 2013 #40
Ahh Karma Phlem Mar 2013 #43
I agree "All opinions are equally valide," but a lot of what I read from feminists isn't opinion. ZombieHorde Mar 2013 #45
Ya know Sea, you spend a lot of time attacking the very people on your side The Straight Story Mar 2013 #47
Awesome post. This should be an OP. Thanks! nt EOTE Mar 2013 #49
+100! n/t zappaman Mar 2013 #54
This message was self-deleted by its author seaglass Mar 2013 #58
I find this funny - she attacks people all day long The Straight Story Mar 2013 #59
I find it funny that it got a tie. Hayabusa Mar 2013 #92
Good jury! n/t zappaman Mar 2013 #63
Funny. I think irrationally calling large numbers of liberals who support equality EOTE Mar 2013 #64
This message was self-deleted by its author seaglass Mar 2013 #66
Let me get this straight. EOTE Mar 2013 #67
Yup.. ever the victim.. it's never their fault... and if you point out their incivility, opiate69 Mar 2013 #68
Same shit zappaman Mar 2013 #69
Yeah, that pretty much covers it. nt EOTE Mar 2013 #72
This message was self-deleted by its author seaglass Mar 2013 #70
TSS's argument isn't "she did it first" it was "why are you attacking good people?" EOTE Mar 2013 #71
This message was self-deleted by its author seaglass Mar 2013 #73
and you lost that alert. Bummer huh? RetroLounge Mar 2013 #79
This message was self-deleted by its author seaglass Mar 2013 #83
Oh, I'm sure TSS appreciates your free schooling of him RetroLounge Mar 2013 #85
This message was self-deleted by its author seaglass Mar 2013 #87
"It was a tie!!" opiate69 Mar 2013 #86
That's almost as good as "she did it first!" EOTE Mar 2013 #90
Hope I would learn something? The Straight Story Mar 2013 #91
This might explain some behavior Phlem Mar 2013 #97
Misandry is a far greater force on this board than it is in the general population. EOTE Mar 2013 #143
His response to you? You mean this one? EOTE Mar 2013 #80
This message was self-deleted by its author seaglass Mar 2013 #84
You go on and on about this "hostile environment" then cryptically tell me to read his response EOTE Mar 2013 #89
the OP Is about sexism BainsBane Mar 2013 #122
This is about the OP's persistent attack on good DUers. EOTE Mar 2013 #142
"I did not personally attack TSS I characterized his post" sibelian Mar 2013 #139
He was absolutely correct on all points. nt sibelian Mar 2013 #138
+1 Vinnie From Indy Mar 2013 #61
More tone bullshit. JTFrog Mar 2013 #74
And.. there it is again.. opiate69 Mar 2013 #75
From Mr. tact and diplomacy himself. JTFrog Mar 2013 #76
Hey.. I'm not running around accusing people of logical fallacy - which btw isn't actually one - opiate69 Mar 2013 #78
GFY. JTFrog Mar 2013 #81
Clever... opiate69 Mar 2013 #82
Hey, juror #6, you're supposed to read the thread HarveyDarkey Mar 2013 #88
+1 Phlem Mar 2013 #98
nice reply Phlem Mar 2013 #99
+1000 RetroLounge Mar 2013 #77
badvocacy: support of a position that's indistinguishable from trolls trying to discredit it. n/t winter is coming Mar 2013 #93
+1 n/t lumberjack_jeff Mar 2013 #155
Classic. Warren DeMontague Mar 2013 #186
I am now convinced that person is not, has never been, and will never be a feminist. 2ndAmForComputers Mar 2013 #96
who made you king and decided you get to determine what is a feminist? BainsBane Mar 2013 #103
Well, actually. ElboRuum Mar 2013 #160
I have not seen her done any of what you charge BainsBane Mar 2013 #161
Not just once but several times LadyHawkAZ Mar 2013 #169
Thank you Elbo and LadyHawk for having more patience than I do to spell things out. 2ndAmForComputers Mar 2013 #171
Not by much. n/t LadyHawkAZ Mar 2013 #172
Yes, it does BainsBane Mar 2013 #177
I don't agree with what Richards did LadyHawkAZ Mar 2013 #180
agree BainsBane Mar 2013 #182
I can state with a fair amount of certainty LadyHawkAZ Mar 2013 #216
I think if we are to respect Amina BainsBane Mar 2013 #223
I would agree it sounds like their employers were looking LadyHawkAZ Mar 2013 #224
Sure you have. ElboRuum Mar 2013 #178
Someday maybe I too can be omniscient BainsBane Mar 2013 #181
If you think... ElboRuum Mar 2013 #197
I can only go by what I read BainsBane Mar 2013 #200
Your mistake... ElboRuum Mar 2013 #203
one is EEOC law BainsBane Mar 2013 #209
Questions of degree are lost on you. ElboRuum Mar 2013 #219
............. BainsBane Apr 2013 #225
Typical. ElboRuum Apr 2013 #237
This message was self-deleted by its author Katashi_itto Apr 2013 #234
yep libodem Mar 2013 #215
I wish I could recommend THIS POST!!!! nadinbrzezinski Mar 2013 #101
the fact is if you can't support human equality BainsBane Mar 2013 #104
Well.... The Straight Story Mar 2013 #108
so you support certain kinds of women BainsBane Mar 2013 #110
And it continues The Straight Story Mar 2013 #113
I did not attack you BainsBane Mar 2013 #116
How about you point to a right he is not in favor of? He once spoke against the right to choose? Threedifferentones Mar 2013 #148
Post removed Post removed Mar 2013 #159
From someone who has done nothing BainsBane Mar 2013 #183
All I have seen BainsBane Mar 2013 #167
Really? Seriously? Ok - let me show you The Straight Story Mar 2013 #212
Reproductive rights BainsBane Mar 2013 #193
Surely you remember all those democrats talking about how women rape so easily... EOTE Mar 2013 #158
Like the OP supports certain kinds of men. EOTE Mar 2013 #157
I did read his post BainsBane Mar 2013 #174
+1000 Katashi_itto Mar 2013 #105
The "must read" post of this latest barrage theKed Mar 2013 #106
I know BainsBane Mar 2013 #125
ic arely staircase Mar 2013 #126
only as an adjective BainsBane Mar 2013 #127
and democrat is a noun arely staircase Mar 2013 #129
I know BainsBane Mar 2013 #130
and the common (mis) usage is democratic is as an adverb arely staircase Mar 2013 #134
Oh really? BainsBane Mar 2013 #135
nope "They vote Democrat and that makes them special." arely staircase Mar 2013 #136
Wrong BainsBane Mar 2013 #137
Right. I'm sure you'll be more careful next time. arely staircase Mar 2013 #146
If you ever summon the courage BainsBane Mar 2013 #164
This thread should clear things up. EOTE Mar 2013 #153
I know grammar very well, thank you BainsBane Mar 2013 #165
"Vote Democrat" is the term republicans use. arely staircase Mar 2013 #166
"and only you get it and know and understand it." arely staircase Mar 2013 #111
+1,000 !!!! Very well said, indeed. nt MADem Mar 2013 #121
+ >9000! Demo_Chris Mar 2013 #147
Anti-choice propaganda BainsBane Mar 2013 #192
Nope - was pointing out what others were saying The Straight Story Mar 2013 #195
You won't engage BainsBane Mar 2013 #196
Funny, that same image was posted later by someone The Straight Story Mar 2013 #198
I was continually told the threats were irrelevant BainsBane Mar 2013 #201
Ok The Straight Story Mar 2013 #204
I haven't beaten you down at all BainsBane Apr 2013 #226
6-0 Leave. cherokeeprogressive Mar 2013 #199
Just like in the religious books that warns followers that society will denounce its teachings... Comrade_McKenzie Mar 2013 #50
You just proved this is an Sissyk Mar 2013 #52
That's all it is, a game. And it makes women look bad. sabrina 1 Mar 2013 #119
Snork UnrepentantLiberal Mar 2013 #55
Well, it is Good Friday. N/t Prism Mar 2013 #60
Cool! It's a game now? 11 Bravo Mar 2013 #65
What are you talking about? BainsBane Mar 2013 #132
Take a look at the history of the OP's posts and you'll begin to see a pattern. EOTE Mar 2013 #144
And, yet chervilant Apr 2013 #229
you poor thing you k&r d_b Mar 2013 #94
Yes, poor little thing. K&R EOTE Mar 2013 #149
Message auto-removed april dreamweaver Mar 2013 #100
Every argument you enter ends up as a game. The game is the replacement for discussion. Kurovski Mar 2013 #102
+1 nt EOTE Mar 2013 #150
I think you need more attention than this board can provide for you. n/t DisgustipatedinCA Mar 2013 #112
If you don't like a thread, you can skip it BainsBane Mar 2013 #131
Or... we can respond to it and tell others why we find it so incredibly ignorant. EOTE Mar 2013 #151
Or we can take a page from some people's book and respond to threads we don't like by starting... JVS Mar 2013 #162
If you have a point BainsBane Mar 2013 #179
okay, so what is ignorant about the image above? BainsBane Mar 2013 #168
This message was self-deleted by its author 2ndAmForComputers Mar 2013 #175
Thanks for the reminder DisgustipatedinCA Mar 2013 #154
It would seem to me BainsBane Mar 2013 #170
We're doing our best! sibelian Mar 2013 #140
Who knew Bingo could be so much fun? Warren DeMontague Mar 2013 #117
Oh it's you again. CokeMachine Mar 2013 #120
We're clearly dealing with an attention starved masochist here. EOTE Mar 2013 #152
In other breaking new news, Kennedy shot, Normandy Beaches stormed, and Roman Empire has apparently Warren DeMontague Mar 2013 #190
Spot. On! Le Taz Hot Mar 2013 #123
I'm sorry seabeyond. We just see things differently. I still consider you a feminist, but I have to liberal_at_heart Mar 2013 #124
What definition of feminism is contained in this OP? BainsBane Mar 2013 #128
Trashed Puglover Mar 2013 #145
I'll take freedom of speech!!!! for $200 snooper2 Mar 2013 #156
seabeyond, I'm also trashing your thread, and I gotta say quinnox Mar 2013 #163
"recently?" 2ndAmForComputers Mar 2013 #173
It is just a list of things right wing sexists say treestar Mar 2013 #176
Because blatant shit-stirring is obvious LittleBlue Mar 2013 #184
How is it that? treestar Mar 2013 #185
And, apparently, chervilant Apr 2013 #230
yes, it is brilliant arely staircase Mar 2013 #189
I don't see anyone saying "don't say those things" treestar Mar 2013 #221
no you are just labeled a sexist if you do arely staircase Apr 2013 #235
It's a piece of ring-and-run flamebait that should have been locked as Meta sniping. n/t winter is coming Mar 2013 #191
What's so inflaming here? treestar Mar 2013 #222
How is this theKed Mar 2013 #194
I wonder the same. Go Vols Mar 2013 #202
This is a funny picture about all discussions about sexism everywhere on the net. redqueen Mar 2013 #205
Well it is posted here now - so how about you address what I posted The Straight Story Mar 2013 #206
Snark pictures - yes theKed Mar 2013 #207
Read the part about "whining about DU" again. redqueen Mar 2013 #208
Are you seriously of the opinion that theKed Mar 2013 #210
Not whining about DU, but about some posters here, like folks in HOF do The Straight Story Mar 2013 #213
The funniest was seeing some of meta's biggest "customers" go on and on about a "happy dance" when Warren DeMontague Apr 2013 #227
Perfect description of the problem. sibelian Apr 2013 #228
Because TSS's OP was clearly Meta, not GD. Gormy Cuss Mar 2013 #211
True enough, but it stands here in this thread as I reposted it here The Straight Story Mar 2013 #214
And that means that now your post is/was only subject to jury review, like any other in-thread post. Gormy Cuss Mar 2013 #217
And yet this, a clearly Meta thread, theKed Mar 2013 #218
Because juries aren't hiding enough posts Gormy Cuss Mar 2013 #220
Let's have a little Socratic detour, shall we? chervilant Apr 2013 #231
We'll clean up this dongle of a message board yet! snooper2 Apr 2013 #232
Great yet another thread by the OP. Her title says it all: " lets play" It's not a cause for her. Katashi_itto Apr 2013 #233
Can I steal this? the MRA idiots on Reddit need to see this. Odin2005 Apr 2013 #236
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