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Playinghardball

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Mon Dec 16, 2013, 07:41 PM Dec 2013

Police escort cancer patient from Nashville steakhouse after he’s forced to remove hat [View all]

steakhouse in Nashville has responded to complaints that its staff forced a cancer patient to remove his hat over the weekend because he did not have a note from his doctor.

According to WZTV, the controversy started when a group of 16 people were finishing up a $2,000 company Christmas dinner at Morton’s Steakhouse when one man, who is being treated with chemotherapy and is sensitive to the cold, decided to put on a wool cap for warmth.

“When he put on a wool beanie in the restaurant to keep warm, he was immediately asked to remove it… which he did,” Amanda W. explained in a Yelp review. “When his family mentioned his condition and questioned the treatment from Catrina, the assistant manager, they were told he could wear it if he presented a doctors’ note… or if we had given them previous notice so we could be accommodated elsewhere. (Out of sight, out of mind?)”

“In short, what followed was shock/disbelief (can’t say that I blame them) and the cops being called (huh?), and we were (all 16 of us) asked to leave,” she said.

Ashley S., who was also at the dinner, told a very similar story in her Yelp review.

“I understand there are rules at establishments…I get it, really. But when we are there, spending a few thousand dollars, and one of the men in the group who is battling cancer and has an extreme sensitivity to cold, decided to slip on his black wool beanie (AT THE END OF THE MEAL mind you…) he was told to take it off, which he did,” she wrote. “Upset, his son decided to tell the manager Catrina that his dad has cancer, etc…well her response was he needed a DOCTOR’S NOTE. Are you kidding me??? His wife then got extremely upset, and the family got up to leave…not before speaking with the management. They told them they should have called in advance so they could have put us in a room by ourselves…we didn’t realize cancer was so offensive!”

“And not to mention, they called the police on them! When another owner who happened to be the one paying the ridiculous bill went to speak with the manager, he was thrown out by police. Then we all had to leave, because they couldn’t handle us all being upset.”

Morton’s Steakhouse responded in a message posted to Facebook: “We are aware of the situation that happened at our Nashville location over the weekend. We appreciate you all bringing it to our attention, and we have reached out to the parties involved and can assure you that all facts will be uncovered.”

Watch this video from WZTV, broadcast Dec. 16, 2013.
http://www.rawstory.com/rs/2013/12/16/police-escort-cancer-patient-from-nashville-steakhouse-after-hes-forced-to-remove-hat/

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I've heard of calling the "etiquette police" but this is ridiculous. lpbk2713 Dec 2013 #1
What in the world has the US become?? demigoddess Dec 2013 #2
Bingo! Cops Gone Wild. WinkyDink Dec 2013 #24
When the desire for money so horribly trumps even the slightest bit of discretion or decency, loudsue Dec 2013 #38
Write to Morton's and tell them that drmeow Dec 2013 #49
Will do. n/t loudsue Dec 2013 #55
In other news CFLDem Dec 2013 #3
Morton's should be kicked out of Nashville Submariner Dec 2013 #29
We've got all of those, plus more. jazzimov Dec 2013 #34
Ruth Chris is one of Hannity's biggest advertisers...just saying Lochloosa Dec 2013 #42
They can't do a rare steak Aerows Dec 2013 #47
Last week, Longhorn served my daughter her "medium" steak on the very rare side. woodsprite Dec 2013 #59
Yup, and Outback is OSI Group, partially owned by Bain Capital, Tanuki Dec 2013 #56
Ruth's Chris.. sendero Dec 2013 #62
The idiot assistant manager at the Nashville location Jenoch Dec 2013 #77
Something is missing from this story. Captain Stern Dec 2013 #4
Or why the party was still there if the police were called after the man put his hat on. winter is coming Dec 2013 #17
I don't really think of it as hissy fit. I get why there were mad. Captain Stern Dec 2013 #22
I don't understand why the restaurant made such a big deal over the hat, especially winter is coming Dec 2013 #25
Me either. Captain Stern Dec 2013 #28
What I can't get over, in addition to actually liberalhistorian Dec 2013 #79
Thank you... ItTakesAllKinds... Dec 2013 #69
unbelievable justabob Dec 2013 #5
Morton's leadership sure stepped up in a hurry IllinoisBirdWatcher Dec 2013 #6
But they DENY that their staff had any idea the man had a tblue37 Dec 2013 #43
sounds like they just wanted to throw some money at it Locrian Dec 2013 #50
The injured person was satisfied and IllinoisBirdWatcher Dec 2013 #65
That's bullshit that they didn't know about liberalhistorian Dec 2013 #80
They had better discipline the manager. This sounds like an ADA violation. Shrike47 Dec 2013 #7
Okay, I'll be the first to ask: Was the man in the wool cap a black or brown man? TheDebbieDee Dec 2013 #8
I wondered myself who would get this kind of treatment after spending $2K lunasun Dec 2013 #9
white justabob Dec 2013 #10
So, the staff at Morton's Steakhouse weren't racist assholes - just garden variety assholes! TheDebbieDee Dec 2013 #13
not racist in this case, but definitely assholes justabob Dec 2013 #18
white with an illness - great quote from his FB lunasun Dec 2013 #14
surprisingly Mr.Chambers is a white man. bench scientist Dec 2013 #11
Damn, I was saving this picture all day and they settled the matter. :( gvstn Dec 2013 #12
Morton's apparently has Republicon "values" Berlum Dec 2013 #15
SOME Morton's employees, you mean? FrodosPet Dec 2013 #21
Very nice post from the man's facebook page: Matariki Dec 2013 #16
Classy guy 1000words Dec 2013 #20
Place s/b boycotted until that broad is fired. nt valerief Dec 2013 #19
"Broad"??? philosslayer Dec 2013 #52
Cancer patient told to wear hat by restaurant. And you choose to pick on broad. Really? valerief Dec 2013 #67
I'm telling HoF! cleanhippie Dec 2013 #61
I say "guy", too. Will the Mens Group come after me, too? nt valerief Dec 2013 #68
Not quite clever bit of passive-aggressive, there. LanternWaste Dec 2013 #70
Lighten up, it's a joke. cleanhippie Dec 2013 #75
That is discusting and I believe a violation of the ADA....nt Jesus Malverde Dec 2013 #23
Yuck! Cleita Dec 2013 #26
I'll ad Morton's to my list of restaurants not to patronize blackspade Dec 2013 #27
As a cancer survivor TNNurse Dec 2013 #30
Actually, the ADA *requires* that they take his word. nt tblue37 Dec 2013 #45
Don't you think they're going to lose business over this? QuestForSense Dec 2013 #31
I hope the jerk-ette manager gets a good talking-to, then Vogon_Glory Dec 2013 #32
What's the big deal if someone wears a wool cap in a restaurant? Vashta Nerada Dec 2013 #33
I was wondering the same thing Nonhlanhla Dec 2013 #39
The place has a dress code. nt tblue37 Dec 2013 #46
Over and done? SCVDem Dec 2013 #35
They'd've shot him, of course. Iggo Dec 2013 #41
As a current cancer patient DiehardLiberal Dec 2013 #36
Ringside's better anyway. Lizzie Poppet Dec 2013 #48
At least until one of their employees does something stupid FrodosPet Dec 2013 #60
Or we could focus on actual vulgarity towards others rather than acting out petulance... LanternWaste Dec 2013 #71
Stupid and very bad for business. BainsBane Dec 2013 #37
Zero Tolerance makes people stupid. Iggo Dec 2013 #40
Robert Chambers has accepted Morton Steakhouses' apology. LiberalAndProud Dec 2013 #44
Good for him. Fuck Morton's. Iggo Dec 2013 #54
And the rest of the world too FrodosPet Dec 2013 #64
Have fun eating grass. Iggo Dec 2013 #66
In one science fiction story astronauts return to earth after a close to lightspeed tblue37 Dec 2013 #72
What about yarmulkes, hijab or turbans? exboyfil Dec 2013 #51
Why would someone with a hat on be an awful thing? Does it B Calm Dec 2013 #53
every time we go out to eat there are all sorts of men in hats rurallib Dec 2013 #57
Same thing here and we live just 7 miles from the best Steak House in Indiana. B Calm Dec 2013 #58
Formerly great restaurant that went to crap when it went corporate. It's not bad, but it is Egalitarian Thug Dec 2013 #63
The mayor and police chief in Nashville need to answer if it is the job of police to respond indepat Dec 2013 #73
was married to someone with cancer--she was extremely self conscous about how she looked dembotoz Dec 2013 #74
I wonder if they would make Rick Perry remove his toupee? JEFF9K Dec 2013 #76
Really! Mopar151 Dec 2013 #78
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