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The Velveteen Ocelot

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2. I interpret yelling as hostile and aggressive.

Reply to proudretiredvet (Original post)

Sun Feb 16, 2014, 03:10 PM

Feb 2014

There wasn't much yelling in my (totally WASP) family; it occurred only when someone was very, very angry. And those family disputes where there was yelling never occurred in public or within earshot of anyone who wasn't involved.

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Question of culture and how we interpret loud yelling and sound. [View all] proudretiredvet Feb 2014 OP

I detest screaming and yelling (except at sporting events!). Lizzie Poppet Feb 2014 #1

I interpret yelling as hostile and aggressive. The Velveteen Ocelot Feb 2014 #2

Southern Wasp here and it's the same. kickitup Feb 2014 #9

It's not politically correct to talk about but it is true bluestateguy Feb 2014 #3

I come from a family of italians and finns sufrommich Feb 2014 #4

Some of the interpretation is culturally conditioned, and some isn't. surrealAmerican Feb 2014 #5

Sometimes volume replaces thought. Ron Green Feb 2014 #6

My husband is from Southern Italy JustAnotherGen Feb 2014 #7

Thanks and keep up the replies. proudretiredvet Feb 2014 #10

Something I said to my husband when we first started dating JustAnotherGen Feb 2014 #11

I'm anti-yelling/screaming justiceischeap Feb 2014 #8

I come from a big family of yellers. MadrasT Feb 2014 #12

Have no clue...people don't scream at me. Contrary1 Feb 2014 #13

WASP here Tom Ripley Feb 2014 #14

We have the deep sigh thing down to an art form. alarimer Feb 2014 #16

Absolutely. My mother-in-law is the queen of deep sighs -"This ring is lovely, but (sigh) it has... Tom Ripley Feb 2014 #21

Screaming is not really communicating; it's meant to be intimidating alarimer Feb 2014 #15

Agree 100% proudretiredvet Feb 2014 #22

I have never felt that my life was in danger because someone raised their voice to me nt geek tragedy Feb 2014 #17

I get away from people that habitually yell in anger. I get them out of my life. DireStrike Feb 2014 #18

"How do you...react to someone screaming at you"? Iggo Feb 2014 #19

My SO's father was from Italy Italian mcar Feb 2014 #20

What is the point of this question? Pretzel_Warrior Feb 2014 #23

Thanks for caring. proudretiredvet Feb 2014 #26

So rather than ask a direct question as to your intent Pretzel_Warrior Feb 2014 #29

Big miss proudretiredvet Feb 2014 #31

No screaming & yelling here. frogmarch Feb 2014 #24

I came from a family of LOUD people. Texasgal Feb 2014 #25

In that context, I like it. proudretiredvet Feb 2014 #27

My first thought is KT2000 Feb 2014 #28

I like really loud music in bursts…the worst is long, dragged out loud sounds. Tikki Feb 2014 #30