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In reply to the discussion: Posting T&A threads helps to create a hostile environment for women here. [View all]tblue37
(68,444 posts)English and recognize a valid example is your problem. I bet other people on this thread would immediately recognize the example I gave as a straw man argument, and the "boys' club" reference as valid.
Just because you want a phrase to mean something, that doesn't mean that is what it actually means. The commonly agreed upon definition is the one that is relevant in a discussion.
When a poster said that you couldn't be part of a "boys' club" while at the same time being a progressive man, you insisted that was not true, and that anyone who said such a thing was claiming that only sexually repressed men could be progressive.
But the poster's statement doesn't mean you must be sexually repressed in order to be progressive (which is just your straw man argument against her statement), because being in a boys' club is not about being male (nor is it about normal sexual expression). It refers refers only to excluding and oppressing women, as my many examples demonstrate.