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Squinch

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75. And look at how, as a culture, we show in the ways that count that we assign little value to those
Sun Mar 23, 2014, 09:37 PM
Mar 2014

roles:

Soldiers are literally used as cannon fodder and then tossed away when their dozen tours are over, policemen are paid little, sports players are required to maim themselves to do their jobs, gangsters die young.

Action celebrities are actors. That doesn't equal violent. Executives and cowboys are not violent. Cowboys? Really?

Our culture's most respected men are nerdy brilliant men. Control of information is the source of power in our culture today, not physical force. Look around at who really makes it in our culture. It ain't the cowboys and soldiers.

Men like to tell themselves and each other that only the "he-men" make it in our society. All evidence, though, contradicts that.

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Two More Ways to Fight Rape Culture seabeyond Mar 2014 #1
excellent article. thank you. this is a keeper. nt seabeyond Mar 2014 #2
Step 1. Stop denying it exists. Gravitycollapse Mar 2014 #3
that can be the preface. yes. that. nt seabeyond Mar 2014 #4
Denial is key to perpetuating all exploitation BainsBane Mar 2014 #5
Recommending your post me b zola Mar 2014 #65
We all have it in our power to do our part toward eradicting rape culture BainsBane Mar 2014 #6
kick and rec. Excellent article. BlancheSplanchnik Mar 2014 #7
So basically the problem is human nature. CFLDem Mar 2014 #16
It is not human nature. BainsBane Mar 2014 #17
aw, go on with ya, Baines, if the dude wants to hold his breath, by all means, I say Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #26
Of course it is NOT human nature. This is just another chapter in the continuing saga Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #38
Certainly not when it benefits you regardless if the repercussions to others. That is so seabeyond Mar 2014 #18
"Ho, hum. It's just human nature. You gals just gotta get used to it..." Squinch Mar 2014 #25
aw, Squinch, this is a DU member in good standing. He has a right to come in here and post Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #27
AND, he's not grossly impolite, so he satisfies all the requirements! Squinch Mar 2014 #30
I wouldn't dare suggest such a thing especially since TMG felt totally free to ban me Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #31
lmFao. i love you woman. you are so much fuggin fun. and i seabeyond Mar 2014 #32
heh. got it. Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #34
Well, but of course. Why else WOULD they ban you? If they didn't ban you and then Squinch Mar 2014 #46
So you do have evidence of a major culture CFLDem Mar 2014 #28
So you are saying that only violent men are valued by our culture, and it is human nature for Squinch Mar 2014 #71
Actually yes CFLDem Mar 2014 #73
And look at how, as a culture, we show in the ways that count that we assign little value to those Squinch Mar 2014 #75
It is an interesting hypocrisy of our nation CFLDem Mar 2014 #77
No, they get to run things when they create something that lets them control information. Squinch Mar 2014 #79
This message was self-deleted by its author CFLDem Mar 2014 #80
Wow... Just wow CFLDem Mar 2014 #81
And anyhow, all that aside, enabling rape is not human nature. It is purely cultural. Squinch Mar 2014 #76
Look what happened when the U of Iowa Prez said that... cyberswede Mar 2014 #64
Those kids are smart. Smarter than.... well, you know. Squinch Mar 2014 #70
Whoah, you are claiming it's human nature and can't be changed? treestar Mar 2014 #47
I'm claiming CFLDem Mar 2014 #48
Are you suggesting that there is a crystal ball Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #49
Yes CFLDem Mar 2014 #50
You can read history a lot easier than I can predict the future Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #51
I am woman, hear me roar! CFLDem Mar 2014 #58
u mad, bro? Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #82
As are you Tuesday. CFLDem Mar 2014 #83
Maybe you need to study other cultures? treestar Mar 2014 #54
So arranged marriage is evidence of gender equal society? CFLDem Mar 2014 #57
What? You said women were defined in all cultures by their beauty treestar Mar 2014 #61
Still not exactly a shining example CFLDem Mar 2014 #63
I am not buying that all men are violent and that we, as a culture, only value violent men, either. Squinch Mar 2014 #72
Thank you for sharing. CFLDem Mar 2014 #78
+1000 DeSwiss Mar 2014 #22
Educate educate educate uppityperson Mar 2014 #8
Great article! hrmjustin Mar 2014 #9
Me too BainsBane Mar 2014 #11
If people don't acknowledge the problem then we will never be able to stop it. hrmjustin Mar 2014 #14
I think some do see it BainsBane Mar 2014 #15
k and r and thank you for posting this excellent article. niyad Mar 2014 #10
I hate it when people minimize rape. Nye Bevan Mar 2014 #12
I agree it's repulsive BainsBane Mar 2014 #13
Rape culture BainsBane Mar 2014 #19
Dupe seabeyond Mar 2014 #20
Seabeyond is a sex- BainsBane Mar 2014 #21
and BainsBane Mar 2014 #24
ya..... i love it all. too cute and you you you seabeyond Mar 2014 #33
How's this? BainsBane Mar 2014 #35
who??? everyone throws out names i think i am suppose to know. sigh.... you all are too seabeyond Mar 2014 #36
Okay, next time I bring my sword BainsBane Mar 2014 #37
oh oh oh.... the dude. and just a meh. bah hahahahahaha. AND seabeyond Mar 2014 #39
just saw the picture. that is cute. but we werent looking at the face, right? if i remember seabeyond Mar 2014 #40
What rules? BainsBane Mar 2014 #41
dick had nothing on ward. for sure. nt seabeyond Mar 2014 #42
I had the best cocktail at the Japanese place BainsBane Mar 2014 #43
i had the best salad. i want another. i keep thinking about the salad. lol. nt seabeyond Mar 2014 #44
.... DeSwiss Mar 2014 #23
Bookmarking. Most comprehensive I've seen yet. nt rrneck Mar 2014 #29
Thanks BainesBane, great information. nt UtahLib Mar 2014 #45
Message auto-removed Name removed Mar 2014 #52
My liking? BainsBane Mar 2014 #53
ah.... we had one of those. hm. nt seabeyond Mar 2014 #55
Indeed. CFLDem Mar 2014 #60
Uh hu. You are trippin' pretty close to that yourself seabeyond Mar 2014 #69
As are you, Sea. CFLDem Mar 2014 #74
Message auto-removed Name removed Mar 2014 #59
The figures aren't mine BainsBane Mar 2014 #62
Message auto-removed Name removed Mar 2014 #66
How can they be innocent? BainsBane Mar 2014 #67
Also, raise your sons to respect women! nt Logical Mar 2014 #56
I like number 3 Prophet 451 Mar 2014 #68
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