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ProSense

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Fri Apr 4, 2014, 09:32 PM Apr 2014

What Obama Secretly Did in Newtown [View all]

What Obama Secretly Did in Newtown

by ericlewis0 .

I find this story highly apropos in the wake of the senseless tragedy at Fort Hood.

After the jump is an excerpt from the book,The President's Devotional by Joshua Dubois, the former head of the White House Office of Faith-Based and Neighborhood Partnerships.

He's recounting the Sunday, two days after the shooting at Sandy Hook Elementary School. He had gotten word the day before that the President wanted to meet with the families of the victims.

I left early to help the advance team—the hardworking folks who handle logistics for every event—set things up, and I arrived at the local high school where the meetings and memorial service would take place. We prepared seven or eight classrooms for the families of the slain children and teachers, two or three families to a classroom, placing water and tissues and snacks in each one. Honestly, we didn’t know how to prepare; it was the best we could think of.

The families came in and gathered together, room by room. Many struggled to offer a weak smile when we whispered, “The president will be here soon.” A few were visibly angry—so understandable that it barely needs to be said—and were looking for someone, anyone, to blame. Mostly they sat in silence.

I went downstairs to greet President Obama when he arrived, and I provided an overview of the situation. “Two families per classroom . . . The first is . . . and their child was . . . The second is . . . and their child was . . . We’ll tell you the rest as you go.”

The president took a deep breath and steeled himself, and went into the first classroom. And what happened next I’ll never forget.

Person after person received an engulfing hug from our commander in chief. He’d say, “Tell me about your son. . . . Tell me about your daughter,” and then hold pictures of the lost beloved as their parents described favorite foods, television shows, and the sound of their laughter. For the younger siblings of those who had passed away—many of them two, three, or four years old, too young to understand it all—the president would grab them and toss them, laughing, up into the air, and then hand them a box of White House M&M’s, which were always kept close at hand. In each room, I saw his eyes water, but he did not break.

And then the entire scene would repeat—for hours. Over and over and over again, through well over a hundred relatives of the fallen, each one equally broken, wrecked by the loss. After each classroom, we would go back into those fluorescent hallways and walk through the names of the coming families, and then the president would dive back in, like a soldier returning to a tour of duty in a worthy but wearing war. We spent what felt like a lifetime in those classrooms, and every single person received the same tender treatment. The same hugs. The same looks, directly in their eyes. The same sincere offer of support and prayer.

The staff did the preparation work, but the comfort and healing were all on President Obama. I remember worrying about the toll it was taking on him. And of course, even a president’s comfort was woefully inadequate for these families in the face of this particularly unspeakable loss. But it became some small measure of love, on a weekend when evil reigned.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/10/26/the-presidents-devotional_n_4158485.html

How many more families will the President have to console before Congress does something about America's mass-shooting problem? You may remember mostly Goposaurs disgustingly thwarted 90% of public opinion and struck down gun control laws after Sandy Hook.

Update 1:

From the comments, i saw an old tree today found the link to a whitehouse.gov petition you can sign in support of President Obama's plan to reduce gun violence:

http://m.whitehouse.gov/issues/preventing-gun-violence

Scroll all the way down to add your name.

http://www.dailykos.com/story/2014/04/04/1289644/-What-Obama-Secretly-Did-in-Newtown


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President Obama and Michelle have to be the most compassionate Frustratedlady Apr 2014 #1
They have enemies, but many more friends. Whisp Apr 2014 #6
not Carter? Lincoln? MisterP Apr 2014 #10
Over all the tragedies Obama's had to comfort? Frustratedlady Apr 2014 #15
I'd rather not see it as a contest! CBHagman Apr 2014 #36
+1 Faygo Kid Apr 2014 #41
I agree with you, Frustratedlady. JDPriestly Apr 2014 #22
A bit +1 davidpdx Apr 2014 #24
big kick & big rec nt steve2470 Apr 2014 #2
K&R... awoke_in_2003 Apr 2014 #3
I signed and left a message, but don't know if it "took" as the blank form returned... Hekate Apr 2014 #4
Thanks! I've got a copy of that book. Half scripture and half civil rights history on most pages. freshwest Apr 2014 #5
Mahalo ProSense.. Cha Apr 2014 #7
K & R nt okaawhatever Apr 2014 #8
I am sitting here with tears running down my face. sheshe2 Apr 2014 #9
Thanks for posting this. russspeakeasy Apr 2014 #11
Kick! sheshe2 Apr 2014 #12
And to think there are some on DU who believe Obama is no better than a clone of Dick Cheney. baldguy Apr 2014 #13
Well they're just WRONG. calimary Apr 2014 #17
Message auto-removed Name removed Apr 2014 #43
K&R ReRe Apr 2014 #14
I have two sons, now grown. SheilaT Apr 2014 #16
K&R. Beautiful story. So glad to hear about it. Overseas Apr 2014 #18
Very moving. I hadn't heard this before. Thank you. nt No Vested Interest Apr 2014 #19
Incredibly moving and upsetting episode vlakitti Apr 2014 #20
K&R. The wonderful thing about Obama is his human compassion. JDPriestly Apr 2014 #21
Thank you once again. nt kelliekat44 Apr 2014 #23
This doesn't surprise me too much davidpdx Apr 2014 #25
K&R stonecutter357 Apr 2014 #26
if Sandy Hook does not spur significant legislation, I fear nothing will DrDan Apr 2014 #27
k&r... spanone Apr 2014 #28
K&R. (nt) Paladin Apr 2014 #29
That story brought tears to my eyes and I had to blow my nose. k&r Bernardo de La Paz Apr 2014 #30
Heartbreaking story. Kath1 Apr 2014 #31
Thanks for posting billh58 Apr 2014 #32
Thank you for this..... llmart Apr 2014 #33
It's just so nice to have real copassionate human beings in charge Bluzmann57 Apr 2014 #34
It is the guns .... end of story Botany Apr 2014 #35
"...and toss them..."; greiner3 Apr 2014 #37
POTUS & FLOTUS truly are fighting against the Tea/Repuke/1% currents (in many areas)! hue Apr 2014 #38
Kick! sheshe2 Apr 2014 #39
DU rec... SidDithers Apr 2014 #40
K&R flamingdem Apr 2014 #42
K&R treestar Apr 2014 #44
Mahalo again, ProSense~ Cha Apr 2014 #45
Hey, between this ProSense Apr 2014 #47
I will see 12 Years a Slave and Cha Apr 2014 #48
This ProSense Apr 2014 #49
Oh yeah.. thanks! Cha Apr 2014 #50
Message auto-removed Name removed Apr 2014 #46
He made the victims' families part of a deceptive campaign against the 2nd Amendment. Skip Intro Apr 2014 #51
Not everyone is a fan of guns, and ProSense Apr 2014 #52
Not everyone is a fan of propagandistic bullshit, and Skip Intro Apr 2014 #53
Compassion is not "propgandistic (sic) bullshit," ProSense Apr 2014 #54
You'll never make that decision for me. Skip Intro Apr 2014 #55
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