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SheilaT

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13. My ex was the IT guy for a company in Kansas.

Sat Apr 5, 2014, 01:52 AM

Apr 2014

Aside from saying that they were the largest wholesale liquor distributor in that state, I won't identify them.

Not long after our divorce, after 14 years of employment with nothing but good reviews, they decided to let him go. It was clearly a case of age discrimination, but because of Supreme Court decisions not long before, unless the company actually said, "We're letting you go because you're too old" people like him had no recourse.

In his case, the good news was that he'd saved money, had long been thinking of a serious career change, which he did. Since he's my ex and we don't communicate a lot, I may not have this exactly right, but from what I can tell he's much happier these days. Lucky him. And I'm glad. But many don't have the options he had.

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