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gvstn

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43. I just wanted to clarify a bit on how I have seen these things go.
Thu Apr 16, 2015, 09:12 PM
Apr 2015

First thing you have to know is that when someone claims unemployment it costs the business money. They pay insurance and when they have multiple people signing up for unemployment their insurance goes up. So there is a financial interest in them getting you to quit rather than be fired. When you are fired you can still go to unemployment and argue your case that it was really a layoff or unjustified. When you voluntarily quit you don't really qualify for unemployment because you actively quit working there by your own choice. (You may be able to say you were pressured into quitting but for simplicities sake I wouldn't go there. Your employer knows they have a wage and hours problem too.)

Usually, they will try to get you to quit by bringing up a petty offense and then giving you a choice of getting fired because you violated the rules with the condition that you get no references (a big threat) or going ahead and quitting for any reason and they will state that reason to anyone who calls for a reference(an incentive to quit).

ie.
John, you were seen eating at your desk on March 14, 2015. You know that is against the rules. You were given an employee's rule sheet that listed this as an unacceptable act. I don't want to fire you for this but the rules are there for a reason. I'm sorry but I have no choice. If I fire you then I must tell potential employers that you were fired for violation of workplace rules. But, I'll give you the choice of quitting now and you can write your own resignation letter stating that it was for family emergency or something like that and I will give that reason to potential employers.


The above is the simplest way for them to avoid unemployment and terminate your position. Don't quit. Don't argue all your points of contention in this meeting. You will have to go to unemployment office on Monday and say this was an unjust firing. Then unemployment will separately interview you and the employer and then set up a meeting to discuss things. This is a better situation then you giving your employer too much information during a meeting between just you and himself and someone"his witness" who is there to corroborate his side of the story.

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You have a couple things going for you such as wage theft and a sudden dismissal as far as a lawsuit, but that is later's work.

On Friday, I would try to stay calm. Listen to whatever reason they are saying is the reason for your dismissal. If applicable, say that it isn't true. If it is possibly true, simply say that you are not going to quit. Then let them fire you and say something like, I will see you at the unemployment office (Or better get the exact name in your state of the "unemployment office" and use that ie. Missouri Division of Employment Services or whatever. This lets them know that you will be ready to fight the reason for dismissal.) Remember: the theft of wages hasn't even been discussed that is something you should not bring up in this meeting with your boss--it is your extra leverage to ensure unemployment gets paid.

They have already planned out this meeting and the more you say the more damage you do to yourself. Let them do what they planned to do but don't quit. Let them fire you and then during discussions at unemployment or a lawsuit you can get them to absolutely reverse the threat of a bad reference which is really their only viable threat. They think you want this to go away but you want what is right and will fight for it. They will back down over a fight especially when they know they are wrong.

Edit: One last thing I would do if they are being jerks is give a stern look at the end of the meeteing and say, "What you are doing here is wrong". When they say something else just repeat, "What you are doing right now is wrong". This gives the boss and more importantly the witness a little time to think before they have to be interviewed by someone else. Don't go into details let them stew about what will come next. The less details the better. You know what happened (so do they) save it for a forum where someone will actually be on your side.

Say nothing to the employer. elleng Apr 2015 #1
I love this place! WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #4
First, look at the Fair Labor Standards Act. guillaumeb Apr 2015 #2
I love this place x2 WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #3
glad to help guillaumeb Apr 2015 #5
No union. We're helpers. We take care of others. Social workers. We do it for love, not money WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #7
non-profits still have to follow the law. guillaumeb Apr 2015 #9
Age is a qualifier for discrimination. You are old enough. guillaumeb Apr 2015 #11
Yeah, he said that. Each office is an island WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #17
few people have the resources to sue guillaumeb Apr 2015 #19
Attorney said he can get access to all the work EVERYONE... WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #23
if you record work interactions electronically guillaumeb Apr 2015 #24
Yep, I've been doing it all remotely all along WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #27
Oh yeah, we all "officially" were asked to work Saturdays... WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #6
that is a prima facie violation of the FLSA guillaumeb Apr 2015 #8
I make almost $14/hour! WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #10
Overtime is mandated EXCEPT for exempt employees. guillaumeb Apr 2015 #13
Will do! Absolutely. I felt lost an hour ago. There had to be something better than Google WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #15
I received my training from my union. guillaumeb Apr 2015 #16
HA! I saw Billy Bragg years ago WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #18
really like Billy Bragg guillaumeb Apr 2015 #21
Are you quitting? Let them fire you. And don't do #1. msanthrope Apr 2015 #12
I let them fire me! Director called me after work to tell me... WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #14
You aren't fired yet. Sounds like they are trying to fire you msanthrope Apr 2015 #22
OK, so what you are saying is I do as follows: WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #25
Good email, and yes, you can sue and collect msanthrope Apr 2015 #32
Thanks for the advice and reading my email WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #33
should I keep it simple or raise the stakes WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #34
Perfectly fine to add. There's never "too much" msanthrope Apr 2015 #35
Documentation! What do you think about this WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #36
no......I would not do that. I would listen on Friday and document later. msanthrope Apr 2015 #37
and by read them in private, you mean with my attorney? WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #38
Sign nothing. Request copies to take with you, to read in private. msanthrope Apr 2015 #41
Poker Face: That's the kind of stuff I'm not good at and need to be told :D WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #42
I'm not even planning on reading anything WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #39
treble damages rumbling around somewhere. lonestarnot Apr 2015 #20
Good to know. I kind of thought so since there's so much illegal behavior and intimidation WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #26
You might be jumping the gun on suing as that runs into money. gvstn Apr 2015 #28
That's good to know, too WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #31
I just wanted to clarify a bit on how I have seen these things go. gvstn Apr 2015 #43
"...reverse the threat of a bad reference" WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #45
when they ask if I want to make a final statement, can I say... WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #47
Again don't go into to much detail about your grievances during any meetings with your supervisors. gvstn Apr 2015 #49
Yeah, when they took sides against me, I started think one thing... WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #50
when they ask if I want to make a final statement, can I say... WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #48
Talk to a lawyer. This place hates them, like cops flvegan Apr 2015 #29
The whole "fear of losing unemployment" thing gives them so much power WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #30
This is a beautiful thing. Must read my email log with my supervisor WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #40
The DOL is free Omaha Steve Apr 2015 #44
Thanks WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #46
Update #1: They wanted me to quit but wouldn't fire me WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #51
Update #2: If it feels like intimidation, is it intimidation? WhaTHellsgoingonhere May 2015 #52
Update #3: DOL! WhaTHellsgoingonhere May 2015 #53
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