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discocrisco01

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Sun May 22, 2016, 09:05 PM May 2016

Girl has Sex With 25 Guys But It is Not A "Whore" Problem; It is A Mental Health Problem [View all]

ABC 7 reports (http://abc7.com/news/several-boys-film-sex-act-with-girl-in-school-bathroom-post-to-social-media-police-say/1350858/)
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FORT MYERS, Fla. --
One female student and multiple males had sex in a South Fort Myers High School bathroom, filmed it and then posted the video on social media, according to a police report.

Officials said 25 males were seen entering the bathroom Tuesday after school.

A single girl was also with the boys, and that is when police said a sexual act was performed.

Officials said the graphic video was then posted to social media

This stuff probably happened throughout modern times. During Flower Generation stuff like this was going, it just was not reported. But because of social media, we get to learn about our kid's dirty secrets. It is just that social media now makes what we known about a long time that teenagers do what teenagers do.

Still, it is a really sad that teenager let herself be take advantage by 25 guys but it is still conseual sex. In reality, it is teenager girl with sex addiction problem that needs to be treated before it gets out of control. To me, this a person who deep emotional problems that feels that her only way to get attention is to have sex with 25 boys and announce it to the world. Instead of punishing the teenager, the best way is to treat this like addiction issue and trying to look for the reasons behind why the person needs to subject herself to STDs and potential pregency.

For me, it is a mental health issue and not morality issue. The word "slut" is not the proper word. An addict is better word and mental health model is the best way to go.

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Why is her sex life your business? forjusticethunders May 2016 #1
It's evidently the world's business if she splays it on social media... Blue_Tires May 2016 #40
"SEVERAL BOYS FILM SEX ACT WITH GIRL IN SCHOOL BATHROOM, POST TO SOCIAL MEDIA, POLICE SAY" uppityperson May 2016 #74
Well if the act was consensual, I'm guessing so was the filming? Blue_Tires May 2016 #76
Personally I'm not jumping to any conclusions, just passing on the info I read uppityperson May 2016 #77
Again, minors involved. Making videos of minors having sex is illegal. LisaL May 2016 #95
Correct - In legal terms it is disseminating child pornography Haveadream May 2016 #193
No it isn't anigbrowl May 2016 #118
If you post thing on social media, don't be surprised if people you don't know are discussing LisaL May 2016 #134
Thank you. Friends I know on okieinpain May 2016 #137
Agree Johnny2X2X May 2016 #53
If it makes it to a jury it will be a jury's problem. rug May 2016 #82
There's something about the phrase "let herself be take advantage" that bothers me ... Scuba May 2016 #2
Why do you assume melman May 2016 #8
You're correct, I should have assumed that just as the OP shouldn't have assumed mental illness. Scuba May 2016 #9
Is it remotely possible she is the female equivalent of a swordsman? Eleanors38 May 2016 #87
Agree - old fashioned idea that women are taken advantage of treestar May 2016 #101
This was my first thought. tazkcmo May 2016 #103
I too am bothered by the assumptions made about a female's sexuality me b zola May 2016 #179
I'll probably need a few more facts before I make my incredibly knowledgeable diagnoses. Schema Thing May 2016 #3
Then you can't consider yourself a competent DU member. closeupready May 2016 #43
Post removed Post removed May 2016 #4
. Egnever May 2016 #5
Should be johnnyhydraulic. Eleanors38 May 2016 #88
Uh...what? Texasgal May 2016 #10
Teenage could mean 18 and 19 too, I suppose. PersonNumber503602 May 2016 #50
OTOH guys are studs when they have sex with 25 girls in a day. Go figure. The real problem is Dont call me Shirley May 2016 #6
I think they're sick Skittles May 2016 #11
Which ones? Or both? Dont call me Shirley May 2016 #12
Ah, young grasshoper MosheFeingold May 2016 #52
Yeah, that'd be some kind of stamina! n/t Jester Messiah May 2016 #58
Women have some biological limitaions also. Ouch after a while. Dont call me Shirley May 2016 #117
Yes Dorian Gray May 2016 #142
I think she is "turning the tide" regarding gender equality. Eleanors38 May 2016 #89
If she wants to and she truly enjoys it why not? Women deserve sexual pleasure too. Dont call me Shirley May 2016 #116
You seriously have to ask why not? LisaL May 2016 #125
Take this out of the sexual content for a bit MosheFeingold May 2016 #170
Agreed.. Dont call me Shirley May 2016 #187
Is bad judgment a mental illness? NightWatcher May 2016 #7
I find your post judgmental. Chan790 May 2016 #13
So in your world it's not unusual for teen-age girls to have sex with 25 guys in a school bathroom? jonno99 May 2016 #78
It's unusual, but it's not my place to criticize it. Chan790 May 2016 #97
IT"S A FUCKING STUPID CHOICE ON EVERY LEVEL!!! Throd May 2016 #99
...and I'll not respect you for being so judgemental for just as long. n/t Chan790 May 2016 #100
Jesus F. Christ dude, you set a low bar for society. Throd May 2016 #104
Repecting personal bodily autonomy... Chan790 May 2016 #105
Some things are just plain idiotic and not worthy of respect. Throd May 2016 #110
When it became a crime Separation May 2016 #201
You're right. It's not your place.... Giggity May 2016 #158
More slut-shaming dressed up as "concern" Chan790 May 2016 #166
I never claimed any concern. Giggity May 2016 #173
So, you're judging a judgemental post? Yavin4 May 2016 #86
So if a teen boy had sex with 25 girls....does that make him mentally ill? davidn3600 May 2016 #14
This message was self-deleted by its author Ed Suspicious May 2016 #80
I would be worried about him, yes Haveadream May 2016 #194
I don't know any such father. TexasMommaWithAHat May 2016 #195
This may be the oddest OP I've ever read here dorkzilla May 2016 #15
Agreed alcibiades_mystery May 2016 #21
I disagree because it opens dialog like this comment by davidn3600 Jeffersons Ghost May 2016 #41
There's no way to know for sure what's going on, but hypersexuality is sometimes a symptom gollygee May 2016 #16
would that include child-to-child abuse, I wonder? grasswire May 2016 #30
Playing doctor is not exactly new. bemildred May 2016 #42
well, this was not playing doctor grasswire May 2016 #44
I quite believe that. bemildred May 2016 #45
something else interesting and sad... grasswire May 2016 #46
+1. bemildred May 2016 #49
My concern 1st is for the girl gwheezie May 2016 #17
This message was self-deleted by its author panader0 May 2016 #18
I really find it bizarre melman May 2016 #19
This is exactly Dorian Gray May 2016 #33
Thank you for a ray of sanity. Throd May 2016 #60
Thank you. CompanyFirstSergeant May 2016 #107
.+1 840high May 2016 #140
25 girls on 1 guy in a school bathroom is a normal occurence IronLionZion May 2016 #175
I think it reflects bad judgment, boy or girl, gay or straight. lumberjack_jeff May 2016 #177
I think the point is, that were this a teenage boy that had sex with 25 girls in the bathroom... cleanhippie May 2016 #178
When has that ever happened? IronLionZion May 2016 #181
Are you saying it would t turn out that way if the roles were reversed? cleanhippie May 2016 #185
Show me a case where it happened IronLionZion May 2016 #188
Right, so you're going with the "girl is a whore or has mental problems". cleanhippie May 2016 #189
WOW XemaSab May 2016 #20
The football team. tavernier May 2016 #22
SHE was disciplined? Dorian Gray May 2016 #34
Well, obviously. The boys were just being boys. Orrex May 2016 #36
One paper stated that she was disciplined, tavernier May 2016 #38
ALL were disciplined n/t MosheFeingold May 2016 #83
Years ago, I worked in an after school youth program womanofthehills May 2016 #23
This is a crappy prurient post. Why is it here? Hekate May 2016 #24
because Florida? snooper2 May 2016 #39
Maybe it's her fetish? noneko May 2016 #25
Either way she'll be forever known and the girl who banged 25 guys Press Virginia May 2016 #28
Maybe her fetish is fucking the school principal TexasMommaWithAHat May 2016 #196
Care to comment on this new information? bighart May 2016 #199
Wow I'm glad they did an indepth investigation. noneko May 2016 #203
She's likely Bi-polar Press Virginia May 2016 #26
I thought the same thing n/t TexasBushwhacker May 2016 #192
Here's a link the the video noneko May 2016 #27
This reminds me of Last Exit To Brooklyn. Bad Dog May 2016 #29
So when a girl enjoys sex forjusticethunders May 2016 #31
Gangbangs with 25 guys, in a bathroom, isn't normal behavior Press Virginia May 2016 #32
OMG! You don't see there is something grossly wrong here. womanofthehills May 2016 #126
How old were the participants? Orrex May 2016 #35
The girl's 15 XemaSab May 2016 #47
Thanks. (nt) Orrex May 2016 #48
Would statutory rape be applicable if the girl is under 16 years old? (n/t) PJMcK May 2016 #56
Depends on how old the males are. LisaL May 2016 #165
The law doesn't reference the age of an assailant PJMcK May 2016 #171
If two 15 year old are having "illegal sex" which one should be the "defendant?" LisaL May 2016 #172
Whoever made and posted the video SwankyXomb May 2016 #66
That's very true. LisaL May 2016 #174
Has anyone questioned the girl involved? IronLionZion May 2016 #37
Obviously she was questioned. LisaL May 2016 #168
Obviously IronLionZion May 2016 #176
And if she had shot 25 guys it isn't a mental health problem? HooptieWagon May 2016 #51
If lunch break was a half an hour My Good Babushka May 2016 #54
Gosh, I thought this was a serious thread (n/t) PJMcK May 2016 #55
Well, you were wrong. My Good Babushka May 2016 #57
I agree with your comments in #57 PJMcK May 2016 #62
Girl has Sex with 25 Guys (should read Boys) My Good Babushka May 2016 #63
Statutory rape PJMcK May 2016 #64
I do not believe that anyone should be charged with rape My Good Babushka May 2016 #65
The kids involved were minors PJMcK May 2016 #67
If they were all minors My Good Babushka May 2016 #68
A good DA... CompanyFirstSergeant May 2016 #112
Depending on state statutory rape laws, DA could bring charges against those involved. LisaL May 2016 #131
If a 18 year old.... CompanyFirstSergeant May 2016 #153
Child porn would be a crime regardless of how old the person taping it was. LisaL May 2016 #160
Good point. CompanyFirstSergeant May 2016 #161
She did not have sex with 25 guys womanofthehills May 2016 #138
How is the word "whore" even part of this discussion? Jester Messiah May 2016 #59
"consensual sex" CompanyFirstSergeant May 2016 #113
Then it wasn't consensual for the boys either Orrex May 2016 #121
In high school.... CompanyFirstSergeant May 2016 #145
In high school.... Orrex May 2016 #146
The camera makes it.. CompanyFirstSergeant May 2016 #147
You keep shifting your position. Orrex May 2016 #148
"What if she willingly consented to the act with a 15 year old boy?" CompanyFirstSergeant May 2016 #150
"you are not paying me to deliver a highly structured opinion. " Orrex May 2016 #155
Legally 15 year old isn't able to give consent to sex. LisaL May 2016 #163
Now we're getting somewhere. Orrex May 2016 #169
Point stands though, no money changed hands. n/t Jester Messiah May 2016 #141
The only bad thing is posting the video online. Otherwise, who gives a flying shite? Oneironaut May 2016 #61
I'd have thought the parents would be a bit concerned Blue_Tires May 2016 #70
I think there is a moral/ethical aspect to this and neither this girl arely staircase May 2016 #69
Did iI miss it, or did anyone... 3catwoman3 May 2016 #71
Actually, the article suggests most were watching womanofthehills May 2016 #122
We had a similar incident a few years ago. One member of the welding team (yes, that is a thing) arely staircase May 2016 #72
Blowing up welders.... CompanyFirstSergeant May 2016 #164
Or, maybe, she just likes sex? Xithras May 2016 #73
So next time there is a "train" leading to the bathroom - just get in line, right? jonno99 May 2016 #79
I didn't say it was for me. Xithras May 2016 #81
"...it's a choice we're all free to make" Sure, but we're also free to offer opinions about jonno99 May 2016 #84
Offering an opinion? Of course. We all get one of those. Xithras May 2016 #85
First of all we're discussing a minor - so an "intervention" in this case is totally reasonable - jonno99 May 2016 #96
Why do you get to decide what is "better"? Xithras May 2016 #182
Thanks for making prayin4rain May 2016 #183
I do think the school has the right 1939 May 2016 #92
I would think not having sex in school bathroom is a given. LisaL May 2016 #93
Disciplinary measures? CompanyFirstSergeant May 2016 #106
Of course. They should be disciplined for that. Xithras May 2016 #108
Well, for one, she can't legally consent. She is a minor. LisaL May 2016 #90
We're talking about teenagers and teenagers Xithras May 2016 #180
You are comparing hiking in the mountains womanofthehills May 2016 #133
It's more likely that she Ilsa May 2016 #144
How can it be "consensual" if she is a minor under the age of consent? LisaL May 2016 #159
We're talking about children, right? MrScorpio May 2016 #75
I can't believe it GulfCoast66 May 2016 #91
I guess for some here, anything goes. LisaL May 2016 #94
Who are you to judge her? philosslayer May 2016 #109
Oh Bullshit GulfCoast66 May 2016 #111
At her age, she wouldn't be allowed to buy cigarettes or alcohol. LisaL May 2016 #123
She would be allowed to terminate a pregnancy philosslayer May 2016 #127
At what age does it become "her choice?" LisaL May 2016 #128
Say it with me now.... philosslayer May 2016 #129
So if 15 year old was having sex with 40 year old, LisaL May 2016 #130
That's statutory rape philosslayer May 2016 #132
You just argued that 15 year old knows what she is doing. LisaL May 2016 #135
Within the limits of the law philosslayer May 2016 #136
But there are laws.... CompanyFirstSergeant May 2016 #154
Why don't you tell me what the ages of the males were. LisaL May 2016 #157
Deft movement of the goalposts from the initial absolutism of "her body her choice." LanternWaste May 2016 #198
She's not legally old enough to consent Dorian Gray May 2016 #143
Wait a minute... Dr. Strange May 2016 #149
I guess any of the boys who were in there to watch Dorian Gray May 2016 #184
I'm not defending it. Dr. Strange May 2016 #186
I don't know what do you think? bighart May 2016 #200
STOP THE PRESSES!!! Get Bill O' Reilly over here, stat! Quantess May 2016 #98
This was an aggregious act perpetrated.... CompanyFirstSergeant May 2016 #102
Why is it being taken advantage of if it was consensual? dilby May 2016 #114
Why is the word "whore" ok here? rjsquirrel May 2016 #115
How is this topic ok? jpmonk91 May 2016 #119
Good points. CompanyFirstSergeant May 2016 #151
Who said she had sex with 25 guys? flvegan May 2016 #120
Maybe you should check out msm headlines. LisaL May 2016 #124
Article I saw said most were watching womanofthehills May 2016 #139
The OP re-worded the facts.... CompanyFirstSergeant May 2016 #152
Here you go, perhaps this will cure you of your self-righteousness. a la izquierda May 2016 #202
The school camera picked up 25 guys entering the bathroom womanofthehills May 2016 #162
No Rec This OP and it's either or comments is sad and Person 2713 May 2016 #156
This OP is wrong, for so many reasons, not the least of which is whore shaming. nt LaydeeBug May 2016 #167
Nobody on DU seems to care about the video taken of the incident IronLionZion May 2016 #190
Not true--it's been mentioned repeatedly in this thread Orrex May 2016 #191
Turns out that the girl had been trafficked YoungDemCA May 2016 #197
She was a victim of sex trafficking nadine_mn May 2016 #204
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