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J_J_

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63. Thank you for this post

Thu May 26, 2016, 11:35 AM

May 2016

I read both reddit (young people) and DU (older boomers) and it seems that some of the older people could use some help understanding today's reality.

Too many "I got mine F you" types.

These same old people think it's great to vote Hillary cause they want to see a woman president before they die, and have no comprehension/compassion that more of the same will not do!

They keep telling us the economy is getting better, everything is going great.

We need more young people to confront their elders with the reality of today's America, created by older generation's selfishness and/or apathy.

Older generations who created the mess are now blaming young people for not being able to live in it.

It just makes me so damn angry.

I am gen X, and my kids just hit college age and I can't for the life of me figure out why I should pressure them to go to college, get in debt, then not get a job.

I am giving them time to figure out what they want to do, pursue their creative talents and maybe create something new because that is what young people are going to have to do.

Corrupt politicians sent all the jobs overseas and are trying to send more with the TPP or import more workers like Hillary.

Can I just say !I'm Sorry! for my part in this mess. I have been working for change since I got out of college but everything just keeps getting worse. Probably because so damn many old people are in denial. /rant

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Young people more likely to live with parents now than any time in modern history [View all] Jesus Malverde May 2016 OP

Not to mention the ingrained lazy factor for 18-25 year old males and females snooper2 May 2016 #1

Of all of the children of friends and family I've seen grow up Bonx May 2016 #21

yep, 18-25s working 2 jobs while trying to get through school forjusticethunders May 2016 #31

Thank you. It can be a healthy thing. Parents are poor too Voice for Peace May 2016 #39

I don't think so either but forjusticethunders May 2016 #40

Aha.. But even when the relationship is good Voice for Peace May 2016 #46

Some work 2 jobs, some are in college, some just couchsurf and watch TV bhikkhu May 2016 #47

You sound like an economically privilaged jerk. Odin2005 May 2016 #42

well that was sweet of you, yes, I was economically privileged snooper2 May 2016 #49

You are missing the point, Millennials are looking for work AND CAN'T FIND ANY. Odin2005 May 2016 #56

I can find them a job- Tell me where they are and there will be a job to be found snooper2 May 2016 #62

It is not about being willing, it is about being able. Odin2005 May 2016 #65

yup fizzgig May 2016 #45

I was so much lazier than my kids BeyondGeography May 2016 #51

That's not what I notice at all. Turin_C3PO May 2016 #66

A group of us were talking about this the other day. Arkansas Granny May 2016 #2

Honestly it is the way we are raising them. redstatebluegirl May 2016 #5

Generally socio-economic changes occur because of economics. Giggity May 2016 #22

+a million laundry_queen May 2016 #48

I could only move out (back in '71) because annabanana May 2016 #27

It's much harder out there now. Turin_C3PO May 2016 #67

Yep, that's the way I remember it too! n/t RKP5637 May 2016 #26

Just out of curiosity I wonder what percent of those "parents' homes" have both parents still there. Gidney N Cloyd May 2016 #3

Very different world today. CompanyFirstSergeant May 2016 #4

Parental mores about sex have changed also. AngryAmish May 2016 #6

Good point. CompanyFirstSergeant May 2016 #7

With you there. cheapdate May 2016 #8

I can't decide the reason. hollowdweller May 2016 #9

They're talking just America, right? The2ndWheel May 2016 #10

I don't see it as wrong, just a different way. nolabear May 2016 #11

100 years ago this was normal. 2 of mine are currently here, and 2 i didn't birth Viva_La_Revolution May 2016 #12

If one or both of my daughters came back to live at home, I'd be okay with it. FLPanhandle May 2016 #13

Just curious what makes the boy a game changer? Egnever May 2016 #15

I'd say it depends. haele May 2016 #24

I would agree with you completely Egnever May 2016 #25

Some people have different ideas about morals than you do. former9thward May 2016 #44

I view it as if they are going to be in a committed live together relationship... FLPanhandle May 2016 #30

So it's OK for women to stay unemployed and lay around at home but the man has to have a job davidn3600 May 2016 #35

It's okay for the women in this case because they are my daughters. nt. FLPanhandle May 2016 #41

I think peoples attitudes about their kids contributes to this as much as anything Egnever May 2016 #14

Sounds like we grew up in the same neighborhood! nt raccoon May 2016 #54

This is perfectly normal in many societies Matrosov May 2016 #16

agreed treestar May 2016 #61

My neighborhood is crowded with kids who have bounced back after college or military service. hunter May 2016 #17

The rent is too damn high Johonny May 2016 #18

My son came back home for awhile when he went to grad school. femmocrat May 2016 #19

My family has a strong "stick togeather attitude," JPnoodleman May 2016 #20

Causation is important, but I don't think it's a bad thing Sen. Walter Sobchak May 2016 #23

in the Mideast it's called waithood: we lost a few buildings over that MisterP May 2016 #28

Don't blame McJobs. Octafish May 2016 #29

As a young adult myself I've noticed an unfair noneko May 2016 #32

Welcome to DU, thanks for sharing your story Fumesucker May 2016 #33

Thank you! I hope so too. noneko May 2016 #36

Exactly! Il_Coniglietto May 2016 #55

I'm glad you got out of that hole. noneko May 2016 #57

Thank you! Il_Coniglietto May 2016 #59

Thank you and I haven't given up hope yet! noneko May 2016 #60

Thank you for this post J_J_ May 2016 #63

I'm glad you see the struggle our country is in right now. noneko May 2016 #64

My 22 year old daughter... meaculpa2011 May 2016 #34

since the concept of extended family is not that strong now this works as a substitute? dembotoz May 2016 #37

The American Dream is dead. davidn3600 May 2016 #38

Rent is too high, wages are too low. romanic May 2016 #43

Thx Republicans for this fucked up economy uponit7771 May 2016 #50

I started college in 1972 at a state university. Tuition was $270 a quarter stopbush May 2016 #52

Well they *have* to live with them now... Orrex May 2016 #53

This is not always a bad thing. young people probably spend more on other things JI7 May 2016 #58

My mom wants me to move back in with her. eom MillennialDem May 2016 #68