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H2O Man

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34. It's a process.
Sun Jul 9, 2017, 02:56 PM
Jul 2017

Hopefully, that person will continue to play an active, positive role in Democratic politics.

However, you raise an important point. And I'm speaking generally here, certainly not about any person on DU. But there are those in life who opt not to get over bitterness. Quite often, we encounter such people in an array of situations, not limited to politics. In the field of health psychology, they are identified as having an external locus of control. Rather than take responsibility for those things they can change, they prefer to self-identify as victims of circumstance. Someone else is always responsible for their problems, their bitterness, and their suffering.

Likely everyone here has met someone who complains constantly about those darned "others." If you suggest a tactic they might use to improve the quality of their life, they respond with some variation of "I tried that, and it doesn't work." They tend to trust only those who share a similar, if not identical, world-view as themselves.

There are, of course. some people who are involved in political action that bring a variation of this to the table. We need to set the bar of expectations very low, in terms of what they might contribute.

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Bag Production [View all] H2O Man Jul 2017 OP
United we will--divided we lose. CaliforniaPeggy Jul 2017 #1
Thanks! H2O Man Jul 2017 #4
I think your last paragraph and a number of your references are spot on. NCTraveler Jul 2017 #2
Thank you. H2O Man Jul 2017 #5
Strongly disagree The Mouth Jul 2017 #44
Let's Work Together panader0 Jul 2017 #3
Very good! H2O Man Jul 2017 #6
"United We Stand" has to be the Dem motto and yelled out loud and clear and incessantly! BigmanPigman Jul 2017 #7
Well said! H2O Man Jul 2017 #8
I'm with you both on this RainCaster Jul 2017 #10
Thanks. H2O Man Jul 2017 #11
Great post. And I guess I am a true Beatles fan - saw your OP title and thought immediately of NRaleighLiberal Jul 2017 #9
Thank you! H2O Man Jul 2017 #12
Well said, sir. Too bad that there are many who don't get the message. GoneOffShore Jul 2017 #13
Thank you. H2O Man Jul 2017 #14
K&R. nt tblue37 Jul 2017 #15
Thank you, tblue37! H2O Man Jul 2017 #16
I agree we need to be united lunatica Jul 2017 #17
Thank you for this. H2O Man Jul 2017 #21
My feeling is that it will be us who vote for Progressive leaning people such as Bryce lunatica Jul 2017 #28
Jerry Brown H2O Man Jul 2017 #29
K&R... spanone Jul 2017 #18
Thank you! H2O Man Jul 2017 #22
Very well written and to the point! burrowowl Jul 2017 #19
Principles. H2O Man Jul 2017 #23
Very good Post...during the two elections in he 80's we lost badly...Mondale and Dukakis... Demsrule86 Jul 2017 #20
Thank you. H2O Man Jul 2017 #24
Some grudges will never go away. Foamfollower Jul 2017 #25
True. H2O Man Jul 2017 #26
For some, all that is left is bitterness Foamfollower Jul 2017 #27
It's a choice. H2O Man Jul 2017 #30
Most who vote for Trump were BITTER Foamfollower Jul 2017 #32
Interesting. H2O Man Jul 2017 #33
Why do you say that? G_j Jul 2017 #35
You are right. H2O Man Jul 2017 #40
But grown-ups PUT them away to get shit done. Iggo Jul 2017 #31
It's a process. H2O Man Jul 2017 #34
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If it were not H2O Man Jul 2017 #37
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Muskie was angry H2O Man Jul 2017 #39
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Interesting. H2O Man Jul 2017 #42
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