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ProudLib72

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Wed Oct 18, 2017, 09:58 PM Oct 2017

Saddened and Humbled by a Student [View all]

I call her "Picnic" because she brings a monster sized backpack full of food with her to class and eats most (sometimes all) of that food at during class. I could be annoyed, but she is good student who has class until 9pm. The other day, she was telling me she was looking for another job. She has a full time job, but it does not pay enough. She works and takes a full load of classes. Who am I to question her eating during our class at 12:30pm? It's lunch time! Or maybe "picnic time".

Today Picnic came to class without any food. She said she only had $2 and wanted to know how much the cafeteria charged for fries. I asked her why she didn't just use a credit card. She didn't have one. Why didn't she have one? "They" wouldn't let her have one. This was beginning to get confusing for me. Why wouldn't "they" let her have one? Because she is DACA.

Uh oh! New revelation for me! Obviously this is a common problem because I did a quick Google search and found a lot of people asking about it. You can get a secured credit card if you put down some collateral. But, then again, Picnic doesn't make enough at her full time job, so that option is out.

Today, Picnic chewed gum and told me how "they" said that chewing gum will relieve hunger. It wasn't really working for her, though. That was seven hours ago, and as I write this she has another hour of classes to go. Before you ask, I would have given her some cash if I had any, but I rarely carry cash on me. Class was beginning, I have two classes back to back, and Picnic leaves in between (I never see her after the first class). Yes, I did think of how I could get some food for her.

I sincerely hope Picnic found something to eat. I'll have to ask her about it during our next class. And, you know, maybe I'll start carrying some cash with me! In the meantime, "they" had better get their act together because I'm tired of "them" picking on my students!

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Saddened and Humbled by a Student [View all] ProudLib72 Oct 2017 OP
You might look for a church pantry or food bank to get her to. Ilsa Oct 2017 #1
I don't know the full story ProudLib72 Oct 2017 #3
Well stated......... MyOwnPeace Oct 2017 #6
Does she cook? Cheaper than buying ready-made food. Pasta w/veggies, etc. Honeycombe8 Oct 2017 #14
She usually brings a TON of homemade food ProudLib72 Oct 2017 #21
Mangos - one of my favorite fruits. Honeycombe8 Oct 2017 #24
I like to slip gift cards to grocery stores to my students in-need. Tatiana Oct 2017 #2
Bless you........... MyOwnPeace Oct 2017 #8
Good Idea gift card to a grocery store burrowowl Oct 2017 #13
Excellent idea! Duppers Oct 2017 #19
Practically everyday, at Rutgers, there are meetings and conferences with a boatload of excess food. TheBlackAdder Oct 2017 #4
That's what I used to do in college! raging moderate Oct 2017 #7
I had a friend in grad school who survived that way ProudLib72 Oct 2017 #10
I can't believe no one would share or offer food! BigmanPigman Oct 2017 #5
I don't think it was the others being mean ProudLib72 Oct 2017 #11
That IS good to know! THANKS. BigmanPigman Oct 2017 #12
Did she regularly share with them? nm MichMan Oct 2017 #31
Most of what she brings is spoon and fork food ProudLib72 Oct 2017 #33
I remember my mum telling me how I always lost clothes when I was a kid Skittles Oct 2017 #9
Her classmates do not have food either, 60% of college kids are food insecure Not Ruth Oct 2017 #30
Thank you for caring about this young woman. KY_EnviroGuy Oct 2017 #15
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Is English your second language? nt fleabiscuit Oct 2017 #17
Message auto-removed Name removed Oct 2017 #18
Maybe don't call her "Picnic," in the meantime. WhiskeyGrinder Oct 2017 #20
I'm calling her by her nickname for the purposes of this thread ProudLib72 Oct 2017 #22
Got it. WhiskeyGrinder Oct 2017 #23
Our Mary Antonette Wannabe in the White House can't understand how this is possible Snake Plissken Oct 2017 #25
That was my point in writing this ProudLib72 Oct 2017 #26
I know; Any sense of decency and humanity has been flipped upside down Snake Plissken Oct 2017 #27
Most college students in the US are food insecure, the colleges need to address this issue Not Ruth Oct 2017 #28
I always carry cash, and things like this are part of the reason. LisaM Oct 2017 #29
I'm curious as to what changed in her situation. B2G Oct 2017 #32
It was weird ProudLib72 Oct 2017 #34
You aren't just 'given' a credit card. B2G Oct 2017 #35
Yes, but if she worked for WF they would know her monthly income ProudLib72 Oct 2017 #36
Debit card. B2G Oct 2017 #37
Thanks for reminding me ProudLib72 Oct 2017 #38
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