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In reply to the discussion: Native Americans Say "Occupy" Terminology Is Offensive [View all]DCKit
(18,541 posts)The natives of El Salvador are willing to let it go, why shouldn't we? He's got every reason to hold a grudge, and we've talked about it, at length... he doesn't. Nor does his family. He's just glad to have survived and to be here.
He's the bravest man I've ever known (so's his mom), and he was that brave at fifteen, when his choice was to come here, or be murdered for not joining either the army or the resistance. (El Salvador) The trip was horrific and, when he finally told me, all about it, I was in awe of his strength. None of us has ever had to make those choices.. you have no idea of what he went through.
For a lot of reasons, I told my sisters that I got the best of the best husbands, and I know for damn sure that I did.
I'm sorry if I seemed to be less than sympathetic, but I've got history.
He would be horrified to have media, and I'll never tell him I told you.
Tell you what though, I'm going to give him one of those hugs, no clue, and he's just going to have to wonder about it.