So my straight employee was sexually harassed last night by 2 gay men in front of his wife

[steve2470]

243. ok let me run this past you, as a thought experiment

I can believe the part about them touching him, especially if they were very drunk and/or high. How much and where is the issue. I can believe on the arm and shoulder and back. Maybe this was part of them trolling him ?

Now...the half-baked thought experiment part, and I am NOT endorsing any of this:

1- Plans after the concert bit was a joke, but very poorly done and obviously taken seriously. Maybe they were "trolling" him.

2- Likewise, the go out with them and ditch his wife part was also a joke, also very poorly done and taken seriously or was trolling.

I would never do this kind of thing, drunk or sober, but there's all kinds in this world. I'm 59 and when I grew up, this kind of stuff was Grade A assholishness. Now it's kind of glorified as "trolling" which gives Grade A assholishness a nicer name in my opinion.

Needless to say, I'm not trying to imply anything negative about the LGBT community as a whole.


eta: https://www.democraticunderground.com/10029928743#post160 ProfessorGAC had a similar take.