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Moonwalk

(2,322 posts)
13. Being raised uber-rich and with a big name father...
Fri Oct 7, 2016, 03:53 PM
Oct 2016

...is going to have as much if not more influence. I've no doubt Ivana did her best (whatever that was), but if she raised the kids as millionaire children who had nannies and maids and cooks, who lived in outrageous luxury, spoilt beyond belief, and never having to really pay for any wrongs they did, never having to sacrifice anything...it's rare that such kids turn out well. And I'm sure that for all she raised them single-handed, they wanted daddy's attention and approval. The children of famous fathers, with dad's last name, are viewed by others as "this famous man's son/daughter," and often view themselves that way, too. They have trouble with autonomy. They can sometimes worship such fathers too much, and worry too much about a father's (their name's) legacy.

Also, the parent who isn't there, especially if famous, often has more power, more allure than the parent who is seen every day. The every-day parent is merely human. The distant parent can be "mythic." So, I'm not surprised if these kids are lock-step with Dad now, never mind who raised them. Especiallly if dad (however crookedly) provides for that lifestyle they've lived and don't want to give up.


Surprise, surprise. sinkingfeeling Oct 2016 #1
So... Aristus Oct 2016 #2
Excellent description of them meadowlark5 Oct 2016 #5
I don't understand how RawStory got the date wrong. LiberalFighter Oct 2016 #3
Because it is Rip Story- Not like they are educated journalists LOL snooper2 Oct 2016 #9
Did she? meadowlark5 Oct 2016 #4
Being raised uber-rich and with a big name father... Moonwalk Oct 2016 #13
I wouldn't admit to that if I were her. catbyte Oct 2016 #6
She is as awful as he is oberliner Oct 2016 #7
Who's paying? graegoyle Oct 2016 #10
Huh? Doreen Oct 2016 #8
Poor kids - neither parent should ever have raised kids karynnj Oct 2016 #11
Well, none of those three children have ever admitted to having a mother. hamsterjill Oct 2016 #12
Sociopathy is an inherited trait. N/t roamer65 Oct 2016 #22
Thanks, Ivana for giving your children an upbringing with class. Thinkingabout Oct 2016 #14
Seems right. no_hypocrisy Oct 2016 #15
"Now you deal with it"--ah, a mother's love! Maeve Oct 2016 #16
Married from 1997 - 1991, I guess Donald does everything backwards. olddad56 Oct 2016 #17
Lending weight to the 'nature, not nurture' theory of genetic influence on personality muriel_volestrangler Oct 2016 #18
Listen Ivana, he was really busy being a business genius and thinking up that tax write off strategy Mc Mike Oct 2016 #19
Can't be. From 1997 to 1991? question everything Oct 2016 #20
I remember the tabloids at the time used the subject line "Ivana better deal" because Raine Oct 2016 #21
Of course. Donald J tRump was away "grabbing puss*". . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Oct 2016 #23
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