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Rollo

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22. When I was a kid in the 50's, my older sister and her friend donned blackface for Halloween...
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 06:00 PM
Feb 2019

This was in a small New England town, but I later found out it was not immune to racism. I was too young to understand what it was. It was just described to me that they were dressing as "bums", but that did not explain the charcoal on their faces.

I do remember my sister getting hell from our mom for the outfit - she was very displeased about it.

However, fast forward, and my sister eventually married a person of color and had two nice kids with him. People make mistakes when they are younger; some people are able to change.

I don't know Northam well but it appears to me his record since medical school has been exemplary particularly with regard to civil rights. I think Mark Twain described the slow awakening process in Huck Finn, where he finally began to accept runaway slave Jim as a fellow human. We are a long way from that era, but people can and do change if we take some effort to open their eyes and minds.

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This is all about the G-Damn Republicans holding Northam hostage INdemo Feb 2019 #1
I'm with homegirl Feb 2019 #7
Good, we won't need a GOP LT governor...and we shouldn't reward the damn GOP over this sort of thing Demsrule86 Feb 2019 #9
Thirty-five years ago was 1984! In 1984 decent people understood jrthin Feb 2019 #12
He selected the photo even if he's not in it. He needs to resign. Why would anyone defend this crap Pisces Feb 2019 #21
But the Lt Gov is also a Democrat. What do they gain by him resigning? A Dem would still run VA oldsoftie Feb 2019 #36
now he doesn't think it's him - THAT is a fatal mistake, he just totally fucked up groundloop Feb 2019 #2
That photo takes up a good share of his yearbook page. If it had bothered him, he'd remember. JudyM Feb 2019 #3
Since you know so much can I get the lotto numbers? bitterross Feb 2019 #16
Um, looks like you might be the one who doesn't know. JudyM Feb 2019 #33
So you're one pic away from any loyalty? bitterross Feb 2019 #34
Your anger is making you see words that were not said. JudyM Feb 2019 #35
He doesn't know if it includes him? IronLionZion Feb 2019 #4
The GOP always homegirl Feb 2019 #5
Live streaming Fuzzpope Feb 2019 #6
He was done after this anyway underpants Feb 2019 #8
Northam refuses to shake hands with black opponent EW Jackson Jarqui Feb 2019 #10
He needs to resign NOW!! It's him in the photo. Why would this picture be in his yearbook. Pisces Feb 2019 #20
I honestly how no issues with him deciding to stay as it was not a crime. cstanleytech Feb 2019 #11
Agree Ferryboat Feb 2019 #14
Unfortunately, all democrats have to live with the consequence of jrthin Feb 2019 #15
Some of those who have weighed in Jarqui Feb 2019 #13
Northam says he'd ban sanctuary cities if one ever appears in Virginia Jarqui Feb 2019 #17
But he ultimately vetoed a bill that would've done so alp227 Feb 2019 #19
Maybe he'll switch parties. Turbineguy Feb 2019 #18
When I was a kid in the 50's, my older sister and her friend donned blackface for Halloween... Rollo Feb 2019 #22
Wreck-it Ralph 0rganism Feb 2019 #23
Let the people who voted for him to decide. Fellow Dems, don't be distracted. Stay focused. YOHABLO Feb 2019 #24
I Voted For Him . . . He Needs to Resign ! OldManTarHeel Feb 2019 #26
This message was self-deleted by its author geralmar Feb 2019 #25
It wasn't boorish, it was racist Clash City Rocker Feb 2019 #27
Well put. We don't need to lose another good Democrat. Northam apologized. Let's take it and onetexan Feb 2019 #28
What's wrong with the black Lt. Governor who would take his place? fountainofyouth Feb 2019 #31
Nothing's wrong with the Lt. Gov. The problem is onetexan Feb 2019 #32
Is a recall feasible? IphengeniaBlumgarten Feb 2019 #29
Senators Kaine & Warner Along w/ Rep. Scott Are All Calling for Northam to Resign . . OldManTarHeel Feb 2019 #30
Justin Fairfax is next! atreides1 Feb 2019 #37
The plot sickens... Marcuse Feb 2019 #38
Why is this a national story? Seeking Serenity Feb 2019 #39
This is another GOP plot ROB-ROX Feb 2019 #40
i hope his stubbornness is a holding operation to protect the lt. gov 0rganism Feb 2019 #41
The Democratic Self-Destruct Sequence tonekat Feb 2019 #42
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