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rocktivity

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40. Exclusive: Parent Reveals Sexual Nature of Alleged Locker Room Hazing Ritual
Fri Oct 10, 2014, 12:29 PM
Oct 2014

Last edited Tue Mar 5, 2019, 03:14 PM - Edit history (3)

NJ.com: It would start with a howling noise from a senior football player at Sayreville War Memorial High School, and then the locker room lights were abruptly shut off. In the darkness, a freshman football player would be pinned to the locker room floor, his arms and feet held down by multiple upperclassmen. Then, the victim would be lifted to his feet while a finger was forced into his rectum. Sometimes, the same finger was then shoved into the freshman player’s mouth.

This disturbing hazing within the storied Sayreville football program, as told to NJ Advance Media on Wednesday by the parent of a player in the program, happened almost every day in the locker room this fall, he said. The allegations — for the first time — provide details to the events that sparked a criminal investigation by local and county police, and prompted the cancellation of the remainder of the Sayreville football season this week by Superintendent of Schools Richard Labbe.

Madeline Thillet, speaking at Tuesday night’s board of education meeting, said her son was one of the members of the team interviewed by investigators. She downplayed the hazing while protesting the cancellation of the season. “I was at the police station with him when they were questioning him,” she said. “They were talking about a butt being grabbed. That’s about it. No one was hurt. No one died. I don’t understand why they’re being punished. I think that the forfeited game was punishment enough.”

Fingers in rectums fit the legal definition of rape that the DOJ established two and a half years ago:

Justice.gov: “The penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim.

Keeping the students safe is important, of course -- but so is holding them accountable. It is their actions (including their toleration of them) that have ultimately led to their not only losing their football season, but to disgracing their teammates, coaches, school, families, and community. However, I don't see anything happening to the perps legally unless there's a major snitching epidemic.

Here's hoping that the family of the parent who came forward doesn't get torch-and-pitchforked out of town. And I hope Mrs. Thillet hasn't sealed her son's fate -- the others may decide to gang up and blame the whole thing on him.


rocktivity

P.S. New Jersey rock legend Jon Bon Jovi, who recently tried to buy a piece of an NFL football team, is a Sayreville War Memorial alumnus.


I would end all High School and College contact team sports. It's an embarrassment. NYC_SKP Oct 2014 #1
You forgot your sarcasm tag. joeglow3 Oct 2014 #2
You forgot your thinking cap. valerief Oct 2014 #6
Actually, it was the presence of a thinking cap that led me to post joeglow3 Oct 2014 #8
Agreed. And I played pretty much every sport in HS and College n/t broadcaster75201 Oct 2014 #4
I'm with you there! Swimming, tennis, volleyball. You can get a real workout valerief Oct 2014 #5
As the parent of a high school hockey player, I vehemently disagree hack89 Oct 2014 #7
Same with me for both football and wrestling joeglow3 Oct 2014 #11
Fuck aggressive sports, I don't want to pay for someone else's kid's fucking sports. NYC_SKP Oct 2014 #12
Well shit, if that is what you want, lets all accommodate you. joeglow3 Oct 2014 #14
Good for you!!! gopiscrap Oct 2014 #27
We can have hugging competitions ! Oktober Oct 2014 #43
I love sacrcastaball joeglow3 Oct 2014 #46
Busted... Oktober Oct 2014 #47
Really?? Only the "contact team sports??" Blue_Tires Oct 2014 #30
some did a study of fans vs. non-fans... yurbud Oct 2014 #33
This message was self-deleted by its author Oktober Oct 2014 #42
The coaches set the tone for the program. It's heartbreaking for those kids that they got stuck in Brickbat Oct 2014 #3
Eric Dixon Reports: Sayreville High School Cancels Football, Bullies The Good In Easy Way Out al bupp Oct 2014 #9
Publicly funded schools should NOT be about promoting aggressive sports of any form. NYC_SKP Oct 2014 #10
Some of us can walk and chew gum joeglow3 Oct 2014 #15
At halftime at home games, several our of HS football players join the marching band (in their pads) Brickbat Oct 2014 #18
Exactly. It saddens me when people crusade to end just the things THEY don't like joeglow3 Oct 2014 #19
Agreed. Brickbat Oct 2014 #20
Football causes lifelong brain damage regardless of whether any of us like the sport or not. yurbud Oct 2014 #35
You might want to chime in here on "dangerous" equipment joeglow3 Oct 2014 #16
No, I just don't want to fund bullies, bully sports, bully games and bully uniforms. NYC_SKP Oct 2014 #21
So anyone who plays football or wrestling is a bully? joeglow3 Oct 2014 #22
+1 Oktober Oct 2014 #44
This message was self-deleted by its author radicalliberal Jul 2015 #48
Our local HS has a great football team and a 150 person marching band hack89 Oct 2014 #17
Maybe I am mistaken but gladium et scutum Oct 2014 #23
I totally agree! gopiscrap Oct 2014 #28
canceling it for at least the year was an appropriate response though their stated reason was clumsy yurbud Oct 2014 #34
Involuntary Deviate Sexual Intercourse, Aggravated Assault, Kidnapping... KurtNYC Oct 2014 #13
Sadly, the problem is that many of the fans simply don't care. radicalliberal Oct 2014 #24
This the product of our agressive gopiscrap Oct 2014 #29
Very enlightening info you got there CANDO Oct 2014 #37
Read 'Crossing the Line' shenmue Oct 2014 #25
Get rid of high school inter-varsity competative sports gopiscrap Oct 2014 #26
You'd probably have to ditch marching bands, too Blue_Tires Oct 2014 #32
Who wants a tame society? Oktober Oct 2014 #45
I blame the coaching davidn3600 Oct 2014 #31
I suspect this happened during previous seasons rocktivity Oct 2014 #36
k and r...no text.. Stuart G Oct 2014 #38
Good move to cancel the remainder of the season. roamer65 Oct 2014 #39
Exclusive: Parent Reveals Sexual Nature of Alleged Locker Room Hazing Ritual rocktivity Oct 2014 #40
are football coaches trying to make scoutmasters and Catholic priests look better by comparison? yurbud Oct 2014 #41
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