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HeiressofBickworth

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Mon Dec 9, 2019, 03:14 AM Dec 2019

Since there have been so many inquiries about my absence... [View all]

oh, what? No inquiries? Anyone the least bit curious? How about a round of mehh.

Ok, since you have asked so nicely, I'll tell you.

I've been busy fighting cancer. Stage 4 lymphoma to be a little more specific. Started when I had pains down one leg. I don't fault the doctors -- they followed to most common and logical evidence and treated me for sciatica. Then I did the proverbial, I've fallen and I can't get up thing and wound up in the ER where they gave me pain medicine that shut my brain down to the extent that one doctor told my daughter that I was in the final stages of Alzheimers and she should just make me comfortable and let me go. Fortunately for me, she was a terrific advocate and calmer heads prevailed. In walked the savior! An oncologist who gave the diagnosis and the treatment plan which was to start the very next day. Leg problem was that a tumor ate away at my hip breaking the joint and that was why I couldn't walk. So, hospitalized for a month, six radiation treatments, chemo every 21 days, seven weeks in the third level of hell called a rehab facility (oh, the tales I could tell about that joint!) Anyway, I'm home, still can't walk very well and now they are talking about a hip replacement. Anyway, what kept me from communicating with all you nice folks was that I had such neuropathy in my hands (I was warned the chemo drugs would do that) that I couldn't feel the keyboard in order to send messages. That's better now although I'm having to correct typos in this post. Oh, the good news: cancer has been in remission since the second chemo treatment (there were a total of six).

So, anything been going on lately? Just kidding. Through everything, I managed to read DU several times a day on my phone. While I was in rehab it kept me from climbing the walls.

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Oh my GOODNESS!!! elleng Dec 2019 #1
Glad the diagnosis found you! dchill Dec 2019 #2
Yay! Your cancer is in remission. TexasTowelie Dec 2019 #3
Friend of mine fighting that has had complete remission from CAR T treatment. diane in sf Dec 2019 #4
Apparently there are different types of lymphoma HeiressofBickworth Dec 2019 #8
My brother has/had this type Freddie Dec 2019 #23
NED is great news! HeiressofBickworth Dec 2019 #31
This is where I need to give credit to good doctors and good insurance HeiressofBickworth Dec 2019 #5
Of course True Blue American Dec 2019 #16
I'm truly amazed that you are thinking of others even as you've MaryMagdaline Dec 2019 #36
Oh, I'm no saint HeiressofBickworth Dec 2019 #37
So glad you're seeing progress. badhair77 Dec 2019 #6
Oh, wow! CottonBear Dec 2019 #7
Sounds like a battle well fought DFW Dec 2019 #9
I'm so glad you're back. Here, for your entertainment are some things you might have missed... Hekate Dec 2019 #10
Hug shenmue Dec 2019 #11
Well that's one hell of trip! lunatica Dec 2019 #12
Glad to hear you're in remission. Welcome back! nt tblue37 Dec 2019 #13
Congratulations on BlueMTexpat Dec 2019 #14
Thank goodness True Blue American Dec 2019 #15
so glad you're in remission! and glad that your oncologist & daughter were there to save you! diva77 Dec 2019 #17
Welcome back. Scarsdale Dec 2019 #18
I am glad you are back. The remission murielm99 Dec 2019 #19
Sounds like a nightmare. Good for our wonderful daughter, being able to advocate for you. pnwmom Dec 2019 #20
What an ordeal! calimary Dec 2019 #21
Best wishes to you. You're quite the fighter! chia Dec 2019 #22
Omg, what an ordeal you've been through Fla Dem Dec 2019 #24
12/9 UPDATE HeiressofBickworth Dec 2019 #25
Thank you for the update, and happy birthday to you Hekate Dec 2019 #32
It is wonderful you won this battle pandr32 Dec 2019 #26
Oh my stars! FM123 Dec 2019 #27
Vibes to you. My mom had a hip replacement and she never complained applegrove Dec 2019 #28
Congrats to your Mom HeiressofBickworth Dec 2019 #34
glad you are back Kali Dec 2019 #29
You sound remarkably upbeat considering the wringer you've been through! I hope the Karadeniz Dec 2019 #30
Upbeat? HeiressofBickworth Dec 2019 #33
glad you are back KT2000 Dec 2019 #35
Weird that a fall could have saved your life? lark Dec 2019 #38
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