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sdfernando

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28. Well, growing up in an Army family we moved a lot. Mom and Dad did have a house in El Paso
Sun Sep 21, 2025, 04:21 PM
Sep 2025

but I only spent about 4 years there before we moved again. Last time I was at that house was in 2007, 2 years after my mother died. Dad decided to sell that house and this was the last trip to see it. I hardly remembered the house, it was really small for 2 adults and 5 kids. It was originally a small 1-bedroom house but they added an extension to move the kitchen and create a new small living room and family room. The original living room became the master bedroom, the original kitchen was made into another bedroom. I had absolutely no memory of the bathroom at all...and I used to wonder why, as kids we were always outside....well the house was tiny!...and hot with no A/C. I also remember my Mom would send me or my brother to the five & dime up the street, alone, to get stuff. The street the store was on was really busy so was surprised she would do that....but times were different and it was a lot safer back when I was a child.

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Drove by my family's farm in 2023. My parents sold it in 1970. sinkingfeeling Sep 2025 #1
A couple of weeks ago? I might have posted about it... LuckyCharms Sep 2025 #2
That's right True Dough Sep 2025 #3
One of them has. LuckyCharms Sep 2025 #5
So you look something like this? True Dough Sep 2025 #7
No, the only hair I have is on the tip of my nose... LuckyCharms Sep 2025 #9
So, downstairs, that would be True Dough Sep 2025 #10
Hmmm...I'd say it's more like a "sprout". LuckyCharms Sep 2025 #11
Timely question EverHopeful Sep 2025 #4
I didn't ask to go inside either True Dough Sep 2025 #8
I drive through my childhood neighborhood every Emile Sep 2025 #6
I think George Carlin suggested going through on your knees Marthe48 Sep 2025 #12
got to go in after my mom's funeral in 2000. mopinko Sep 2025 #13
I went in 2014, The house was gone. The neighborhood was so run down. debm55 Sep 2025 #14
mine shd b on the national register, if u ask me. mopinko Sep 2025 #17
Beautiful home. debm55 Sep 2025 #18
it's amazing. it's small, but so well designed. she used to have huuuuge parties there. mopinko Sep 2025 #19
Only via Google earth. mwmisses4289 Sep 2025 #15
About ten years ago for final estate matters. GreenWave Sep 2025 #16
Every place I lived as a kid has gentrified. hunter Sep 2025 #20
My parents still live in my childhood Luciferous Sep 2025 #21
The house? Decades ago. (And it's only about 3 or 4 miles from where I've lived for the last 18 years.) Iggo Sep 2025 #22
Yes. About 12 years ago I was mnhtnbb Sep 2025 #23
My grandparent's house in Los Angeles suffered a similar transformation... hunter Sep 2025 #43
My oldest son was born in 1986 at Cedars Sinai in L. A. mnhtnbb Sep 2025 #44
It's crazy. My parent's first house was like that, a couple of blocks from the beach. hunter Sep 2025 #46
hard to say for a GI brat Skittles Sep 2025 #24
I didn't have one home or neighbohood when I grew up LogDog75 Sep 2025 #25
I've been by a few times since I'm still in the same area. Ocelot II Sep 2025 #26
A couple of months ago, I drove through the complex I lived in from age 10 to 15. MIButterfly Sep 2025 #27
Well, growing up in an Army family we moved a lot. Mom and Dad did have a house in El Paso sdfernando Sep 2025 #28
Haven't been in my childhood home or property since 1974 and it is only 100 yards away. nt doc03 Sep 2025 #29
My mom sold the house in 1985, and passed away in 1988. rsdsharp Sep 2025 #30
My childhood home is a victim of katrina TexLaProgressive Sep 2025 #31
Yes! Americanme Sep 2025 #32
I found a video tour of one of my childhood homes a few years ago. subterranean Sep 2025 #33
1983, I think mike_c Sep 2025 #34
About 35 years ago, before moving to Maryland Wicked Blue Sep 2025 #35
2001 Jilly_in_VA Sep 2025 #36
I've Driven By The House... ProfessorGAC Sep 2025 #37
It's still there, but... LudwigPastorius Sep 2025 #38
Burned and bulldozed to grow more corn and soybeans........iowa IA8IT Sep 2025 #39
I moved around too many times nitpicked Sep 2025 #40
We moved too many times to say that about a single structure. OldBaldy1701E Sep 2025 #41
2007, when my grandfather died. Aristus Sep 2025 #42
How many siblings, Aristus? True Dough Sep 2025 #48
Older sister, younger brother. Aristus Sep 2025 #53
My parents sold the house I first lived in when I was 9. Harker Sep 2025 #45
Wonderful interlude, Harker True Dough Sep 2025 #47
I hope so, too, TD. Harker Sep 2025 #49
January? Kali Sep 2025 #50
My childhood home burned down when I was in college. CanonRay Sep 2025 #51
Eight years ago Justice Brandeis Sep 2025 #52
1998 helped my parents get rid of stuff. Woodwizard Sep 2025 #54
Never. There were way too many WhiteTara Sep 2025 #55
Yes and the people who bought it Tree Lady Sep 2025 #56
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