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cheri010353

(127 posts)
17. This helps me when I'm in your situation.
Tue Dec 8, 2015, 12:50 AM
Dec 2015

I had to put my beloved cat Muffin to sleep several years ago and it took a year before I could think about her and smile instead of cry. Eventually the happy memories won't be so painful and will bring smiles. Give yourself time and let yourself grieve. I'm so sorry for you and your family.


May I Go Now?

May I go now?
Do you think the time is right?
May I say goodbye to pain filled days
and endless lonely nights?
I've lived my life and done my best,
an example tried to be.
So can I take that step beyond
and set my spirit free?

I didn't want to go at first,
I fought with all my might.
But something seems to draw me now
to a warm and loving light.
I want to go
I really do.
It's difficult to stay.

But I will try as best I can
to live just one more day.
To give you time to care for me
and share your love and fears.
I know you're sad and afraid,
because I see your tears.

I'll not be far,
I promise that, and hope you'll always know
that my spirit will be close to you
wherever you may go.
Thank you so for loving me.
You know I love you too,
that's why it's hard to say goodbye
and end this life with you.

So hold me now just one more time
and let me hear you say,
because you care so much for me,
you'll let me go today.

- Written for a beloved pet & friend, by Susan A. Jackson

There will come a day when you will think of your pooch and feel so happy for having had applegrove Dec 2015 #1
Bless you AG...it's just hard beyond description right now. clarice Dec 2015 #2
So sorry. All I can suggest is to try to focus on the good years - the good times. I don't know jonno99 Dec 2015 #3
Every time I try to concentrate on the good times...it makes me cry even more. nt clarice Dec 2015 #4
I know. Our dogs they give & they give and are always happy to have us - even if we're not jonno99 Dec 2015 #6
smooch clarice Dec 2015 #8
Please take some comfort TexasBushwhacker Dec 2015 #5
was it very hard for you? nt clarice Dec 2015 #7
Oh my yes! It was my cat that I got when I was 21 TexasBushwhacker Dec 2015 #14
I'm so sorry... magical thyme Dec 2015 #9
Thanks MT....I really mean it. nt clarice Dec 2015 #10
You shared love and care. That remains. oldandhappy Dec 2015 #11
Thanks OH.... I could sure use all of the hugs that I can get. nt clarice Dec 2015 #12
I'm gonna try to get some sleep now. Thanks to all of you. nt clarice Dec 2015 #13
Amber was14 when we had to go there Lochloosa Dec 2015 #15
So, so sorry. 2theleft Dec 2015 #16
This helps me when I'm in your situation. cheri010353 Dec 2015 #17
It doesn't get easier... it's hard as can be, but there is a small amount of peace that comes to us underahedgerow Dec 2015 #18
Walk through the darkness. Laffy Kat Dec 2015 #19
I am so sorry...the hardest thing as a pet guardian to do is say goodbye nadine_mn Dec 2015 #20
my life is filled with senior kittehs fizzgig Dec 2015 #60
Life is precious and it is short, but you owe your dog this kindness The Second Stone Dec 2015 #21
Wonderful words of wisdom snacker Dec 2015 #26
That dog LWolf Dec 2015 #22
Get another dog Major Nikon Dec 2015 #23
Their memories will always be with you, you made their life something special. benld74 Dec 2015 #24
Loving thoughts to you. blogslut Dec 2015 #25
I'm so sorry. I went through that this summer. Coventina Dec 2015 #27
Have a memorial for the doggie Wolf Frankula Dec 2015 #28
Sometimes, I think that our pets train us to deal with the loss of loved ones. Nac Mac Feegle Dec 2015 #29
so sorry, clarice Skittles Dec 2015 #30
If you possibly can, be there. trof Dec 2015 #31
Were you there? trof Dec 2015 #49
Thinking of you today.. YvonneCa Dec 2015 #32
I am so sorry. bigwillq Dec 2015 #33
so sorry... restorefreedom Dec 2015 #34
:( darkangel218 Dec 2015 #35
Cry. roody Dec 2015 #36
I had to do that three months ago Ex Lurker Dec 2015 #37
A note to all......it is difficult to thank everyone individually.... clarice Dec 2015 #38
... shenmue Dec 2015 #39
... magical thyme Dec 2015 #48
I am so sorry. I cried so hard every time irisblue Dec 2015 #40
So sorry for your loss GreatGazoo Dec 2015 #41
I'm still sad about the two cat brothers my best friend put down early this year. Xyzse Dec 2015 #42
One of my dogs passed this weekend Matrosov Dec 2015 #43
So sweet, thank you. I am finding that cleaning the house (of all things) seems to help.nt clarice Dec 2015 #45
How are things? Matrosov Dec 2015 #50
Yes...i guess maybe time does heal all (or some) wounds. Thanks so much. nt clarice Dec 2015 #51
I sry shenmue Dec 2015 #52
I know how you feel. Tipperary Dec 2015 #44
sucks, doesn't it ? nt clarice Dec 2015 #46
Yes, it does. Tipperary Dec 2015 #47
My sincere condolences on your loss Sanity Claws Dec 2015 #53
Give yourself time sarge43 Dec 2015 #54
I'm so sorry clarice. lovemydog Dec 2015 #55
A heart can't grow unless it is broken. alphafemale Dec 2015 #56
What a lovely sentiment... snacker Dec 2015 #61
Like all grief, Snobblevitch Dec 2015 #57
I am so sad for you. redwitch Dec 2015 #58
I am so horribly sorry. I've (had to) put 2 down over my 60 yrs & still blame myself. n/t UTUSN Dec 2015 #59
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