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fizzgig

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20. it's starting to look like there's no salvaging our relationship

Wed Mar 12, 2014, 01:16 PM

Mar 2014

Last edited Wed Mar 12, 2014, 02:31 PM - Edit history (1)

he decided that he wants live on a farm or commune and also decided he isn't going to go back to his job, so i'm screwed right now. we can't live on what i make alone and i don't see why i should have to support him at this point.

we talked quite a bit yesterday, but we now have to talk about our living situation. i'm going to have to go the roommate route regardless and that's just piling on the upset.

i don't know what i'm going to do.

edit: we did a bit more talking this morning and he's finally opened up to couple's counseling. if we can fix us, i'm willing to think about going with him. we'll see, but finally a small shred of hope.

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argh. that cut off feeling. mopinko Mar 2014 #19

it's starting to look like there's no salvaging our relationship fizzgig Mar 2014 #20