Religion
In reply to the discussion: We Neglect Religious Education At Our Peril [View all]cbayer
(146,218 posts)Guess what? There are no organizations dedicated to those that don't collect stamps. There are no shelves of books written primarily to discuss the art of not collecting stamps. There are no yearly conferences whose main theme is not collecting stamps. There is no group on DU specifically for those that don't collect stamps.
This is another one of those trite, useless memes that gets thrown out there when it's convenient, but has no actual relationship with atheism.
Your story is uniquely yours. Everyone's story is uniquely theirs. How people got to their current places is as varied as there are people. And I wouldn't for a moment assume that where I find myself now is where I might always be.
For some, atheism is the easy way out. Not believing in something can be very simple. For others, it involved the process you describes. The same goes for believers.
The important thing is to recognize that no one has really found a better answer than anyone else, in general. The key is only to find the one that suits you and let everyone else find theirs.