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Warpy

(111,254 posts)
1. Well, "getting wanton (not won ton) sex every night"
Sun Aug 17, 2014, 04:40 PM
Aug 2014

is a fantasy for too many people before they get married if they haven't lived together. That's both men and women, there.

Combining that with a lot of fumbling and not knowing how to please a lady (or man) means sex just doesn't live up to the advance publicity for one, maybe both of them.

The fact that all the adults around them were sex phobic around teenagers and young adults puts the final nail in the coffin of a satisfactory married sex life. They really had no idea what they could expect, good and bad, going in to married life.

Nobody should start married life ignorant and virginal. Even with the religious baggage keeping them virginal, there should be some attempt to give them the facts.

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