Bereavement

Momma

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83. Been there, done that and a word of caution.

Fri Mar 20, 2026, 01:23 PM

16 hrs ago

When my doctor put me on the medications for depression and anxiety, it made matters worse. I just had a bad reaction to the drugs for some unknown reason and even started having suicidal thoughts induced by the drugs. Be careful and stay in close contact with your doctor.

Hospice was tremendously helpful, though. Get in touch with them if you haven't already.

It might help to just avoid the news and only watch puppy and cat videos on social media. The news will still be there when you feel better.

Hugs and peace to you.

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