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Demo_Chris

(6,234 posts)
27. Nice post (cont)
Tue Feb 19, 2013, 08:14 PM
Feb 2013

I think this corporate issue, and by this I mean Facebook failing to police this stuff, is attacking the wrong target.

The question in my mind is not "Why does Facebook allow this"? I think I have provided good enough reasons for that already, but there is a better one still. Facebook, Myspace, Twitter, these seem to me to be nothing more than a sort of alternate and twisted version of offline culture. These social sites do not control this culture and I doubt they could even curb it, at best they simply allow us to see it.

So the question is not, why does Facebook allow this, but rather, why does Teen Tiffany allow this from the people on her friend's list?

I say this with the acknowledgment that it is the person posting it who is responsible -- not Tiffany. However, in this case Tiffany and her friends have the power to instantly eliminate this kind of nonsense instantly. Tiffany doesn't need Facebook to do anything, she has all the power she needs to do this herself. And if enough people do that the jerks will quickly find themselves alone.

In my opinion, I would love to see a public awareness campaign similar to the "It Get's Better" gay rights / anti-bullying campaign, but directed at young ladies. Because it seems to me that's really what this is -- it's BULLYING, and girls need to know that they can stand up for themselves, they can say no, and if they do others will have their back. Imagine Michelle Obama, Ellen, Oprah, Hillary, female athletes and entertainers, P!nk would be all over that. And even men as well, perhaps Brad Pitt talking about how he likes strong confident women. I don't know. Anyway, that's just something I am thinking might help. I am sure it's been thought of a million times before.





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amen! n/t librechik Feb 2013 #1
Facebook's pretty well known for being Lowest Common Denominator malthaussen Feb 2013 #2
It is far from the lowest common denominator as far as hatred of women is concerned. redqueen Feb 2013 #3
same with racist pages noiretextatique Feb 2013 #4
It makes you wonder about who is reviewing these reports redqueen Feb 2013 #5
I wonder if there's any review process at all MynameisBlarney Feb 2013 #19
Kick this to the greatest! sheshe2 Feb 2013 #6
I'm sorry, I know it's horrible... redqueen Feb 2013 #7
Why do women still use Facebook? Sekhmets Daughter Feb 2013 #8
Since it is the most popular and arguably the most robust networking tool redqueen Feb 2013 #9
No strategic retreat huh? Sekhmets Daughter Feb 2013 #12
Also, if we left every social media where women are treated like crap CitizenPatriot Feb 2013 #18
Same here. smirkymonkey Mar 2013 #36
This message was self-deleted by its author seaglass Feb 2013 #10
The good thing about twitter is there aren't any page owners to block you... redqueen Feb 2013 #15
This message was self-deleted by its author seaglass Feb 2013 #16
Yeah. Idiocracy. redqueen Feb 2013 #17
Facebook has over ONE BILLION user accounts Demo_Chris Feb 2013 #11
Yet they were able to catch those offensive cupcakes PDQ. Thise cupcakes are clearly what they Squinch Feb 2013 #13
I guess you missed my point Demo_Chris Feb 2013 #22
Yeah, no. If you read about the vastly differebt way they deal with breastfeeding pics, mastectomy redqueen Feb 2013 #14
Why do you suppose that is? Demo_Chris Feb 2013 #21
Why would you think your three ideas are the only possibilities? redqueen Feb 2013 #24
Okay then... (cont) Demo_Chris Feb 2013 #25
Thanks for your thoughtful reply, and your nice compliments. redqueen Feb 2013 #26
Nice post (cont) Demo_Chris Feb 2013 #27
An 'it gets better' campaign aimed at young women would be a cruel lie. redqueen Feb 2013 #28
As always, something to think about n/t Demo_Chris Feb 2013 #30
FB has a problem with hate speech in general KamaAina Feb 2013 #20
DU has over a billion user accounts JustJoe Feb 2013 #23
Did you see this? ismnotwasm Feb 2013 #29
Oh yes. redqueen Feb 2013 #31
They can't be bothered to take down a rape joke gollygee Feb 2013 #32
It's a sign of the times. Breasts used for natural purpose = disgusting and obscene. redqueen Feb 2013 #33
pornified. yes. you and i are right there, lol. nt seabeyond Feb 2013 #35
breast are for male entertainment, not feeding babies, dontcha know. we act surpised at this. but... seabeyond Feb 2013 #34
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