Reply #27: I think that eveyone is giving great advice - [View All]

[stevans_41902]

my parents were always too uncomfortable to talk to me about sex and I have never felt like I could go to them with my problems. They have always been pretty judgemental so I don't think they want me polluting their mind with bad images.
I think you have to make sure your kids dont have sex just because they are afraid of being the last virgin in their group of friends or because 'its what everyones doing'. I think its great to tell your boys that they should not lie to girls or tell them they love them just to get laid. I knew a lot of girls who were looking for emotional connection when they had sex and ended up hurt when they found out they had been lied to for sex.
I know people may disagree with me, but personally I believe in holding off on sex for a while so I know that the guy's intentions are true and they are not just looking for a quick lay. (if that is the case they will be out of there pretty fast if you don't give in to their pressures.) I think a guy worth keeping will always be patient with you when it comes to sex. I am a pretty emotional person so I knew I could never have a one night stand with no strings attached and feel good about myself. I hope this doesn't sound preechy to anyone, I think the most important part is that the 2 people involved are having sex for the same reasons and they are using birth control/condoms.