Reply #38: I think that men are actually scared of lesbians marrying [View All]

[Nikia]

Maybe even more so than gay men marrying. Even though they may find female/female sex attractive and male/male sex repulsive, marriage makes things different. Marriage tends to be indentified with exclusivity. If guys are marrying publically agreeing to be exclusive with each other, perhaps they will be less likely to hit on other men. If women are marrying each other, that means that they will not be available for men. In a way, they are publically stating that they do not need men for intamacy or to build a family and home. Neither partner is subjugating herself to a man, not that all heterosexual marriages are like that. Men want bisexual women who will have sex with not who will marry another woman instead.