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I haven't posted for a while because I have been going through a ton of BS with a man that lives pretty far away from me.

Last night was the very last straw and I am an up front honest person that doesn't put up with BS.

Yesterday I got a text message to call him earlier in the day and after finishing some errand's I tried to call his home phone and it was busy so I called his cell phone and he answers it.

He sounded drunk and he is on probation for drunk driving so I ask him why he is at a bar and he denied being at a bar. I asked him if he wanted to be Bubba's bitch in prison and he laughs it off but the fact is if he is caught drinking he is going to prison.

I then ask him way his home phone is continuously busy and he tells me that his DSL is on and he is downloading some drivers on his computer. I called him on that also because DSL runs on it's own line and it doesn't use a phone line and I know this I am no dummy.
I then told him to go into his kitchen and run the water in the sink and he couldn't do that and I heard Ice moving around in his glass and that was the last straw because I know that he doesn't make ice.

We had a small argument and i wasn't arguing because I am jealous I was arguing because I care about him. He is on probation and the judge told him that he will go to jail if he doesn't pass a urine test.

He has a cat and I asked him to open up a can of cat food and let me hear her meow and he couldn't do that either.

Today I get a text message from him asking me to marry him. It's April fools day and he has asked this question before on a daily basis but I need to break this off for good.

I think that he is also into hookers and it's a gut feeling that I have had for a while.

I am a clean person and I don't cheat on a man when I am dating him but I don't know what to do.

I am suppose to spend a month with him in a few weeks and he has already bought the plane tickets and I am not sure if i am going to go or not.

Should I make a clean break and change my phone numbers and move or should I give him another chance which will make it about his 10'th chance?

He is not a good liar and when he gets caught in a lie he hangs the phone up on me.

He told me that he would call me last night when he got home and then he claimed he was at home. When I called him on this he hung the phone up.

Today I get several text messages again asking the same question of will you marry me and BS like that. I tried to call him back and he won't answer the phone.

He plays this game of laying the phone off of the hook and then setting his cell phone up so that it will go into a voice mail mode on the first ring.

I can't take it anymore and I need to forget about him but I can't.

I need help on how to get over him and move on with my life. A relationship is not based on lies.

He is alot older then I am and I have worked to put myself back through college and he doesn't work at all.

Sometimes I think that the judge might have given him a prison sentence for weekend prison and that is where he is at.