Reply #57: Maybe prison is exactly where he should be? [View All]

[AntiCoup2K4]

Drunk drivers are criminals under the law. And every time they get behind the wheel, they are potential murderers. If it takes a prison sentence to wake this guy up, maybe that's not a bad thing. Hopefully it won't be at the expense of someone else's life.

As for the entire situation, other than echoing all the other comments, the only thing I can add is that one person with serious problems is bad enough, but by your own description, there's TWO here. And two fucked up people will never sustain a healthy relationship.

Take care of yourself first. Get healthy, then it will be easier to find someone better. And from personal experience.... long distance relationships are more trouble than they're worth. Even if everything else was going in your favor I would advise against that, without a realistic plan of somebody relocating.